So...I got on my computer?

star_utsf

Yes you did the right thing.If the shoe was on the other foot.You bet he would have done the same thing.

fearslady

Wow, congrats on the restraint. I probably would have gone to her house in person to find out!

pollofabulous4927

YES! You need to confront him (not violently though) about this. You have every right to know what he is doing and he needs to be honest with you! If there's an issue with this woman, tell him how you feel about it.

iluvlennon03

i would have done the same thing

Wow, alot of people automatically assuming the worst? None of you know this guy, yet many call him s h * t or worse.

For the person that asked the question, has he ever done anything before to question his commitment to you? Have you ever suspected him of deceiving you? If not, then I would seriously give the guy the benefit of the doubt.

You emailed her, and her reply (or lack thereof) will give you a possible insight to the nature of the relationship. But only having a woman's myspace page up on the computer screen does not mean he is a cheater, and it definately doesn't mean he is a lying "piece of s h * t" like others seem to chime in.

bgii_2000

Yup.

Tenchidbz

yea

Kimo

Yes you did the right thing. It is something that will help you sleep at night just knowing who she is. This may sound bad but if my fiance is on the computer and I walk into the room and he suddenly gets off, later I will go back and check his history just to make sure he wasn't doing anything. I wouldn't mind if he did the same to me, because I have nothing to hide! But with your husband you need to realize that if your husband is really just a friend with her, she will probably tell him what you did, which is probably going to cause a huge fight. Just be ready for it.

physandchemteach

Absolutely

The Answer Man

Yes, I would have done the exact same thing.

rieshafreeman

yes u did. bcuz if she's more than a friend then u need to know.

~just_jd~

yes you did do the right thing.

Miami Lilly

I would have done the exact same thing. Telling you to "delete it" is just a trick to make you think it's nothing.

Jen

Good for you, don't let him fib to you. Why on earth would he be talking on the computer with women in your area anyway? If it's some girl he knows, why haven't the two of you women been introduced? Why hasn't he mentioned her before to you, his wife? Sneaky suspicions....

Mrs. SmartyPants

You did the right thing. Now this is what u do next,. Go back online and email the girl acting as your hubby, Tell her that she can come over at a certian time,because your wife (you) will be out of town. then when the ***** shows up, and you know she will, answer the door and tell your hubby, "Ok, you moron, your ride is here" and kick both of their butts to the curb!

allamerican

Did you know that he had a MySpace account? If you didn't, I would definitely be suspicious, and have done the same. Coming from experience, watch your back.

unicornfarie1

Yes. But don't be surprised if you don't get an answer back.

jason d

yep he is probably foolin around on ya

Peter D

Even if he has cheated on you it doesn't make him a "piece of ****".
People often cheat when they are missing something in their lives.
Yes confront him on it. Find out the truth, but before you kick him out of your life, try to find out the rood causes and see if there is something worth saving and a way to do it.

Mandy

yep i think i would have made a personal visit throe to see her, instead of emailing her.

James L

Yes your husband is trying to get away with something. He is a piece of s h i t

beachdog

Yes, you did the right thing. If you don't d something now, it's only going to get worse.

kierstead

you go girl ! hell yes you did the right thing!

missapparition

Well...I guess it depends on the type of relationship that you and your husband have. If he has given you reason for suspiscion in the past then yes, I think that you might have done the right thing, then again, it could have been something totally innocent, and by doing what you did, you are sending a message to your husband that you don't trust him. People who aren't trusted often end up BECOMING untrustworthy. Personally...I would have waited till the heat of the moment went away and then watched things for a while before emailing her (though, I do think that confronting him about it with a simple question was the right thing to do).

hogsnotbubbles

Well welcome to the real world! hahaha Hell yeah you did.

Let us all know if she answers OK!!
You go girl!!

Easter Bunny

I would have done the same thing. Your husband is a piece of dog s-h-i-t!!!

bhurley79

You got the first part right, next you grab a frying pan and tell him to start squeeling like the pig he is!!

freeman3905@sbcglobal.net

ya to you good going you did the rigth thing

Lydia

No. You should deal with your husband and his problems, not pick on the other person.

migamw

It would be his A**.If he is screwing around or trying to what makes you think she wont respond?Maybe you should pretend to be him or something, find out whats going on.I wouldnt have deleted anything.Give her a call.Why would he have her on the computer if there wasnt something going on or something in the making?

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