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So if your husband hits you and blacks your eye, do you stay and forgive him? Or do you leave?
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So if your husband hits you and blacks your eye, do you stay and forgive him? Or do you leave?



    




Countessa
Alexis don't know if you know the old saying "if a man hit you once he hit you again" No man should ever hit a woman and there is no excuse for it. Get your stuff and leave!


tonalc1
Out the door in a New York minute--after, of course, calling the cops and having him arrested.


Smiles
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If you want a matching black eye, stay with him.


lix
If you want it to go from bad to worse then you stay. If not, you get out quick.


Snoopy
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Leave. Leave now. Don't wait. This type of behavior rarely is a one time event, and often escalates.


Tenn Gal
If your husband gives you a black eye, he has a problem and needs help. He will not stop this behavior without counseling.
LEAVE!


dam_i_give
You leave! next time you might end up in a coffin


Slykchyk
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Call the cops and have them hang him up by his balls!

If he is still alive after all that, then leave him!


mmedina96
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are you that dumb you had to ask..........well if you are then heres your answer you leave and leave quick


helterskelter58
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YOU LEAVE, THEN YOU GET SOMEONE TO KICK HIS SORRY ***


clcalifornia
You leave asap. Check in with a womans shelter.
Make a plan, take pictures of each tme he hurts you.
get out asap
The volience will be esculating over the years


inda w
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leave ,unless you like it... REAL Men don't hit Women!;)


jee
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Bye Bye. Don't call when you get out of the klink!


bookgal
I leave him, then I blow his balls off with my shotgun.


R T
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I know there is more to the situation than he hit you and gave you a black eye. I don't have enough information, but I know first hand that a man can change, even though people are quick to judge. Do what you know is right. You know him better than any of us. God Bless.


Mememom
Demand him to go to anger management. Get counsel for your self. If he even comes close to doing it again then its should be over. I personally would leave until he gets help and not go back until he completes a demostic violance course also. Some people get to a boiling point and explode. Some one or something set him off. So he definately needs help.


Yafooey!
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You call the cops and have him arrested. Then fie for divorce.


ana
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depends if u were just playin around or if he got mad.
leave him if he did.


Daiquiri Dream
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Leave before he kills you or your family this next time.


mdmel
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u get the hell out of there asap and call th police no man can abuse a woman there r 2 many ppl who live like that u need 2 be one less now ifu want u can stay and forgive him but if he does i again u get the hell out pack up and leave call the police and get some money from sueing him


icebabe
Leave before it gets worse. No one deserves to be hit.


BabeHeart
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*I* would leave. Such disrespect and abuse is inexcusable. Why would anyone stay? There's no guy in this world worth tolerating that krap for.


theoriginalquestmaker
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Leave! Fast! It is documented that abusers usually escalate their violence. Next time it may be a broken bone or even worse.


wayne m
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sure you should stay because the next time you might be dead. wake up honey


Jane Marple
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Because you think he`s not gonna do it again??????????????


Nena S
If you have half a brain and a couple of working cells inside it, you would leave him immediately...without looking back!

But if you are either a total idiot -or you wish to have an altar with your name on it next to a plaque that says "MARTYR" -then stay...

It's really up to you...not us.


Debra d
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Well, if you have to ask................

My question to you is: how much did you like it? did you like it enough to get another?
How much disrespect are you willing to put up with?

I believe it's call assault and battery. If you want he can be charged and probably be put in jail.


Telly-Of-War
The reason why you keep on going back is b/c you love him or your really dependent. I know exactly how you feel, you love him so much and your would feel lost with out him.


Ava
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Leave. God never put you on this earth to be anyones punching bag. In fact, I would leave real fast before I hurt him in return.


gotanswers
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I am sorry you have to go through this, but I have one question. Is this the first time? You know what you have to do. You need to leave you may not have any where to go, but there is places and people that will help you. This is very toxic relationship when a man hit his wife. Nobody deserves to be hit, maybe next time it will be worse. Remember a mans fist are to protect, hold and love his wife not hit her.
Good Luck


cleverclogs
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if you have to ask this question, l guess you are the type of person who says "but l love him" he didn't mean it,
LISTEN, l grew up with my mom being beaten, then my brother and l got beaten after her.

LEAVE NOW WOMAN,
put your shoes on and go, if you have kids, run like you have never run before, the kids will suffer PLEASE !!!!!!!





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