So upset right now with my husband?

tattoochic

I completely understand where you are coming from. You just wanted some show of happiness even if he said "That's great i'm soo happy", you aren't expecting anything big from him but just something instead of "ya" I wouldn't take it to heart though. Some men..well no MOST men are born w/o the sensitivity gene and some women too looking at some of your answers posted. I would just let me him know later that his lack of emotion did hurt your feelings and maybe it was a bad time at work or he is having a bad day, either way just talk to him and enjoy being pregnant! Congrats and good luck to you.

Johnny

Congratulations

If your husband already knew you can't expect him to be all excited again. Men are Men

KingAndrew

I understand your happiness and your frustrations that your husband is not feeling the same emotions. But you have to realize that he is at work and it may not be appropriate for him to scream and hollow at work. So give him a break and enjoy the moment with the ones who share in your wonderful news. Your husband will share his excitement with you later. Good luck and congratulations.

Love my kittys

Yes it is. Your emotions are getting the better of you. Just be happy, relax and enjoy being pregnant.

Orc

Let it go for heavens sakes... focus on this new little bundle.

MaMa

Don't be upset, some men just show emotion more than others.

storm

no, its not dumb, guys can be so mean sometimes and not even realize it, that's just them

peking

Are you happy you're pregnant? Do you believe your husband is happy you're pregnant? If the answer to both of those is yes (even if it's not a fully unqualified yes) just move on.

Mr O

yes. But you're a woman, and your kind tends to get upset over the silliest stuff

jacqueline c

men were cold blooded so dont be surprise if acting that way.

B Dawg

Sounds like he just already knew the answer and was getting same info over again. He was already happy about the news.

dr. know it all whocan'tspel

it's not dum to get uset over this,
it's a woman thing.
and the way he acted is a man thing.

?????

Men are careless and maybe he is just thiking about what he went thru witht eh first one and now you ared expecting a second one, guys dont communicate as effectively as we do, so give him some time to come around and i would actually talk to him about how you are feeling towards this and let it out.....it might make you feel better.....

mickey mouse

Men just respond differently than women down. If he already had a feeling or thought for a second that you were pregnant...actually getting it confirmed probably wasn't a big deal for him. I'm sure he's happy and excited just as you are, he just has a different way of expressing it. Don't be mad/upset w/ him...men will always be men!

Seriously?

Your writing is confusing...he knew you were pregnant but the doctor confirmed it through blood tests - were you expecting a parade and a band? What you said to him - those are war words - you are picking a fight.

Take your hormones and go chill out until you can act human again...I don't see what you are so upset about.

ROCHER

well its alright that your a little big upset about this, but if he already thought you were pregnate, then the excitment isnt there anymore, he will be more excited as he sees the development in your stomach ect.

ladii_k

i think its ur hormones raging...bring it down a notch plz..

Wheels

I think it's your hormones lashing out a bit. I think you both will be fine, just be thankful that everything is going well and you will soon have a new additional family member to enjoy. God bless....

Even a woman is not going to get exited twice!

Logan

Seems to me you two have other issues! I mean you seem to be trying to pick a fight, and that usually only happens when issues are unresolved! You already discussed it, he already felt like the baby was coming, so he didn't need the confirmation. End of story. Besides, who cares how excited he is as long as he is a good father when the time comes!

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