THIS IS UNFAIR!!! Y'ALL?

we are both in the US, both christian but were not born here; we dated for 4 years and now he says he doesnt want a women that knows everything; or question him about where he was; ask him to help cleaning; or does something without first asking for his permission

the Azz, went and got engaged to a girl from his original country that is glad that she is coming to the US, and i am left questioning why i am still exist!
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and believe me i am the most flexible person out there; i was raised on trusting close people around me, and on being open minded- i guess this is where it clashed :'(

Mom of 2

Honey, why are you upset again. Sounds to me like you dodged a serious bullet. You may be hurt now but trust me you will look back and thank your lucky stars you didn't marry this pig.

loves christmas lights

Be thankful its over. Hes not the person you thought he was. You need someone who will treat you with respect, honor you as a human being, and enjoy time with you in daily life. Your very luckky its over. I know it hurts, but realize we all keep changing and maturing, he changed into a really bad person, and that is all you need to know. Your great, hes a loser, when we are great, we need no losers around .

Jane Marple

The surprise will be on him...:)
Do you really think after being raised here in this modern thinking world he can be happy with a 'traditional' woman? nah.

If he really wanted to be with you he would have fought this arranged marriage to be with you. He fooled you, we were all at one point in our life. Move on sweetie, something better is waiting for you.

ghosai

if he wants someone who will will cater to his every whim then let him go find such a woman..im sure she doesn't exist. as for you, be thankful you aren't stuck with someone so in the dark ages still..get some closure and find a new man....

ignant_slob

Obviously there is more going on here than you are aware of. Perhaps he is being pressured by family into marrying someone else, and these are excuses he is giving you to avoid telling you the truth. Look beyond yourself and how it affects you if you are striving to find the truth.

der PINGU

Sorry that you have wasted your time with an idiot like that. I guess you can't do anything about it. Be glad that YOU didn't get married to him if he turned out to be like that.

Tawny

He wants someone that he can feel that he is better than. With you, he can't.

You'll find someone you are much more compatible with.

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