Tell my friends his wife is hot?

golden1

she might be hot but is she worth losing all that you have

Mrknowitall

Nah, i wouldn't say anything, I would just keep it to myself and live with it. There is nothing you can do to take the attraction away, but you can control yourself and try not to do anything stupid, like stare or flirt.

dulce_candygirl

NO!!! don't say anything because chance are you are going to get your *** beat up and your wife is going to leave your sorry behind. There is nothing wrong with finding his wife attractive and having a little crush but hello snap out of it how would you feel if it was the other way around and your friend said hey your wife is hott and I like her. What would you say or do??? get a grip your married and have children.

froggy

Dude-stop being so shallow. No, you should not tell anyone about your feeling. take a cold shower. I doubt she thinks you're hot.

Ambassador of Christ

It's a natural feeling, BUT, to avoid trouble, keep what you feel to yourself; don't let your emotions and tongue get you into trouble and bruise or kill a good friendship.

If you know my Father, ask Him to take out of your heart what you feel because it is not good that it be there.

pnutpolly

People are always going to be attracted to SOMEONE else...that's normal.

Maybe your two families have been spending more time together because YOUR wife is attracted to your friend...

Sam

I feel sorry for your wife. And are you a male or female? I can't figure it out by all the questions you've asked.

foodieNY

Why do you feel that you have to tell your friend anything? It's alot different saying " your wife is attractive" than saying "I'm attracted to your wife", and a surefire way to end a friendship. Maybe you should give your wife a once over, you know the girl you made vows to love honor and cherish and keep your eyes off your friends wife.

REBECCA B

And what do you think you'll accomplish by telling your friend your attracted to his wife?? Your friend will be pissed,.. your wife will be ULTRA-pissed if she even still talks to you or doesn't leave you,, and the friends wife,, well,, she could be mad you stirred up all this trouble,..Keep it to yourself and try and keep to a minimum how often your around miss hottie wife. All this just adds up to a whole lot of trouble for you that I am sure you don't want.

Snowcrane66

Nope. It will be harm for your beloved family and your friendship as well. The feeling you toward friend's wife merely is infactuation, or physical attraction rather love like your wife. Plus, you got to control your mind like a house got to stop thinking about this. and peacify your feelings and thought why you have such thought rather treat her as your friends. It is immoral to across line no matter you single or married. Do not fool around yourself with someone's wife. Once someone knew about it and the news spread, the nortorious fame like shadow follows you all the way. You will never be able to lift up your head to anyone including in front of your kids. People will look down to you. To be a man without respects is like the life without meanings.

Right Wing Extremist

Say " Dude your wife is hot" But never let it go further than that

kttphoenix

You think your goign to go through your whole life without some other woman being interesting to you? It will happen, and this won;t be the only time. What will make the difference is how you handle this. Are you a mature man or not? If you can't deal with beign in this woman's presence, hang out with your buddy somewhere else without his wife. Your wife may suspect and may have already cuaght you glaring at her. Just relax. Make sure youre taking care of your wife and she's takign care of you, and it will be all good.

Pastor Loyd

How about telling your wife, first?

Why would you tell your "friend" that? Do you hope or expect him to share his wife? And what if he turns right around and tells yours and your kids? Then what?

Let's forget the fact that you're breaking the 10th Commandment for a sec. According to Matthew 5:28, you're also breaking the 7th Commandment by lusting after someone who isn't your wife. Woould your wife and kids be okay with that?

Two things - immediately severe this friendship, so that you're not tempted by this woman. Next, get yourself right with God and your wife and family, by TRULY committing yourself to your wife. After all, you married her for a reason and made certain contractual promises to her.

I bet many think YOUR wife is "hot". You did!

Young C

There's nothing wrong with that, I mean as long as it just admiring and nothing beyond that like trying to hit on her you should be good. You're a man, I'm sure if you're wife was really hot you're friend would think the same thing, its natural for humans to be attracted to other people. Don't make it obvious, constantly staring at her while her husband's around. I'm sure you're friend suspects it as well, most men would suspect if it they're wife was hot. At one time he was single as well, he knows whats up with another man's hot wife. Just don't be disrespectful to her, like whistling at her, smacking her *** or things like that.

good gesser

Get over it. Don't think he knows she's hot! DUH! You better check him out, if he has bigger muscles than you he's liable to kick your @#$ if he catches you oogling the goods!

littleman

You sound like you're looking for a "go ahead" to flirt with his wife...

Whatever happened to respect? I have sister-in-laws that are friggin gorgeous, but I'm damn sure not going to step out of the boundaries and say it to them or my wife...

I think you need to control your hormones and if you can't then you should probably find a different job so you don't ruin your friendship, your marriage or your "friend's" marriage...

Totally normal dude, just don't act on it.

BMWSGOD

Attraction that makes your body get hot. thats OK. Attracted to her personality and looks thats bad. If she's great eye candy its ok to tell him he wants to hear about his hot LOOKING wife. If its her personality keep it to yourself.

alina

lol just go ahead and tell my husband he won't mind he is out of the house anyways so it's all the same

carriegreen13

Please stay and do not stray, if you do, then karma will be coming your way.

Funny Face

Be honest with yourself. Do you really want to jeopardize two marriages over an attraction? Is this the only friends you have?? Be direct and tell your friend about your attraction and know your wife will find out sooner or later.

lonewolf

Dude, do not tell him that unless you want to lose a friend.You had better stop it now or the devil is gonna getcha !

Theo

I do not see the point in telling him anything about his wife without being asked. Might be a mistake, this kind of sincerity could trigger his jealousy and put a brake to yours hangings out together... and your dreams might never come true.

< insert fake name here>

I am sure if the guy's wife is hot he already know lots of men are attracted to her. It also seems like it is more then attractive
you feel and you will be tempted to cross the line for more. I would back off and respect your friend and his marriage.

Don't visit a bakery if you are on a diet and cannot control your urges.

Ms. Kelly

Are you trying to get killed????!!!!!
I mean............. Go ahead and tell him.

avavu

By opening your big mouth,you gonna hurt a lot of people,ruin a friendship,loose your friends,loose your wifes trust and make *** of yourself.There are a lot of good looking men out there.But i don't think your wife druls over them?Keep your mouth closed and your eyes to yourself.Don't create problem.

cupidgirl

mind your own business- look at your own wife.
inappropriate situations begin in the mind- control yours.
dont be a low-life homewrecker.

D.D.

Well, I can relate, because I like my married friend and we hang out in groups. Im not going to say anything because Im not messing with my family, and Im not in love with him. So, do you think she likes you back? Do you think you have a chance with her? Are you in love with her? If your answers are no, you know what you have to do. Im not judging you,and I said, I relate, but theres too much at risk and family is not something that you should mess with in these days.

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