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The married man I'm seeing wants to leave his wife and start over with me. The problem here we both ?

agreed we were just having fun. I have my own boyfriend who doesn't know about this but he also has his own issues which led me to the arms of the other man. My married friend told me he loves me before I could even think of love. What to do, what to do?
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Geez guys relax, this is life. No matter what you say, things like these happen and there's not a thing anyone can do to stop these things. Just learn to accept life and all the pain it dishes out


    




mike b
Back out of both relationships, love, and start afresh. The way you're going can only end in tears - for you, him, and his family.
Good luck
Mike B


ndnqt1966
Neither one of you know what love is...even if it smacked you right up side the head....


Lola
Tell him straight up you are not leaving your boyf to be with him.
And he needs to stay with his wife.
Cut off all contact wtih him and don't mess with married people again.


Gemini
Two cheaters!!! the only place this is going is downhill to misery!!!


Suki
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K.A.R.M.A TROLL


Sara C
Home Wrecker!!!!!!!!!!!!!!


Vivita
Go for it, you both deserve each other and deserve to let the other people who are with you go and be with partners who will actually be faithful to them. What you two are doing is wrong so I suggest you to go and be wrong together rather than dragging other people into this mess. Every marriage/relationship has issues and that's no excuse for cheating, it doesn't do anything to fix the problems in the relationship it only makes them worse!

At the very least I think you should be honest with this guy and tell him you don't feel the same way. Honesty is the best policy and its something you both could learn something about.


Joyce B
Get out of this relationship now. Better yet, don't date anyone until you can be faithful.


julie s
I don't get woman like you, I just had that happen to me 9 months ago. I think you are a dog and I think that you to deserve each other and just remember what comes around goes around hunny.
How could you do that to another woman and your boyfriend? Is your boyfriend that bad that you have to cheat on him, and you have to mess up the marriage of this man? Who do you think you are?


Marie_(Canada)
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Both of you deserve each other !!!!!


JennKstep
Be honest with the man you're seeing, the married one. He may decide to leave his wife even if you're not interested in having more of a relationship with him. In fact, I would most certainly recommend you NOT seek a long-term or serious relationship with this man, as he seems to have an issue with loyalty.


BikerChick
BREAK IT OFF - NOW, before you hurt EVERYONE beyond repair. Learn your lesson and DO NOT ever mess with a taken man EVER again. It is rude, selfish, and unnecessary.


maggie
if you cannot be faithful to your boyfriend you should not be with him, at least have a little respect for him by giving him that much. The same goes for this married man.


Horse Up
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What should I do??? Awwwwwwww.Your so sad. Introduce your boyfriend to his wife.


Spindrift
He will never leave his wife for you and even if he did, which I doubt, he is bad news because what he did to her he will do to you, you already know he is a liar and a cheat so dump him and in future, avoid married men. And don't blame your bad choices on anyone else, that is cheap and tacky behavior.


Mama Tinkerbell
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When did you find out that this person was married? If it was before you started seeing him, then I think you have a problem. People are unlikely to be sympathetic to your plight, are they?

You have a boyfriend so why did you want to see someone else? Do your boyfriend a favour and finish the relationship with him - he deserves a girlfriend who will want to be with him and only him.

If your married boyfriend chooses to end his marriage because of you - then I guess that's what will happen. At least, that might be an opportunity for his wife to find out what a rat he is.

If the two of you get together - then good luck to you both. You will need it. If he has cheated on his wife and you on your boyfriend - what's to stop you both cheating on each other in the future?

You sound like a very immature individual that has a lot of growing up to do, but then so does your married boyfriend.


sistergrlfrnd
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Since you cant be honest with anyone else, be honest with yourself. Find out what your own issues are and end all the relationships you are in. Learn to love you and then maybe you'll be able to love someone else. BTW the married man doesn't love you!!!!


eboceans
Oh, what a tangled web you weave. I feel sorry for his wife and your boyfriend. Someone needs to tell them how they are being lied to and cheated on. What about STD's or whatever you may be passing to these two innocent people? What to do? Get some morals.


kenbgray
Good grief, what a mess your in, if I were you, I would get rid of both of these guys and do something else with my life. I can't see you being a winner in this mess.


eddood52
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Tell him again, he's just a side dish to you, nothing serious, and you don't think you can be in love with him, and you don't want to break up his marriage because you can't see you married to him because of your boyfriend.


Amanda C
Honey,has he left his wife yet? No, because he is not going to. That's a lie he told you. I've said it time and time again. All you homewreckers out there need to realize that you are no more than a piece of booty for these men. They will use you and toss you aside. They are never going to leave their wife. And as far as you making excuses for why you cheated, well, that's really pathetic of you. Don't blame your boyfriend because you are a low life tramp. You can take all the blame for this one.


I think I've moved on??!
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Get a clue. Stop wrecking marriages. Cheating isn't fun it is wrong and disgusting. If you don't like your boyfriend, leave. No matter how messed up he is, he doesn't deserve to be cheated on. Same goes for the wife in this situation. Grow up.


Heather
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dump them both and start over.


laura1977
Leave your man and be with the married guy. Just know that if you do that you have a 5% chance of having a relationships that lasts...FIVE PERCENT!.


strawberrieland
Why so SERIOUS? HAHAHAHAHAHA. I'm glad this is happening to you, CHEATER!!! One day your husband will cheat on you, one day your husband will cheat on you, on you, on you!!!!!


Sesoid
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Well, it seems to me that you are not in love with either of them. Leave the married friend, before he destroys his life, since you are not willing to be with him and leave your boyfriend, because if you fell in other men's arms, its because he hasn't won your respect.


C'est moi!
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Do yourself a favor. Get out of this relationship NOW, and do not look back. If this married man cheats on his present wife, he will cheat on you.

You might also look into therapy, to find out why you have a desire to cheat. If your BF did something that "drove" you to this married man (which is nonsense, there were certainly other options for action), then I suggest you dump the BF and find a single man.

And as another answerer pointed out, there is a word for women who do what you're doing: home wrecker.


sps
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Lust is different from love...


♥ ĵάηέ ♥
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people like u are sick too take some ones husband do this fella have children how can u take a childs father away from them and a husband away from his wife if u cheat on ur boyfriend then clearly u dont give a sh!t about him let alone love him one day this will all blow up in ur face

also go with this married man but if hes cheating on his own wife with u then what will stop him from cheating on u stay away from this married man hes not urs to take u are breaking two peoples heart ur boyfriend and this other fellas wife if he loved her he wouldnt be doing this nor u to ur man at least hane the decency to leave ur boyfriend so tha way he dosent get hurt anymore


baby machine
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Bad news. Leopards don't change their spots. The same advice could be given to him. This is DOOOOOOOOMMMMMEEEEDDDDDD





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