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Things Went Out of Control

Me and my fiancé been together for 3 years and unfortunately we broke up 1 month before the wedding, after a huge fight that went out of control. The worst part she involved her parents and instead of them cooling things down, they decided to contact my parents telling them what went wrong (as if we are kids) which made me go crazy in addition to the harsh words they said to my parents Before her parents called my parents, me and my fiancé began talking again to try to find a solution to the way we communicate and how she can control her anger, but unfortunately her parents called my parents first and told them what went wrong. Unintentionally they said few harsh words to parents about me which I did not like at all and it was disrespectful, despite of the reasons. (You don’t solve a problem with another problem). Here things became even worse and now we decided to take a break away from each other for a week with no communication, but I insisted that if we decided to come back she will not search my phone if the reason is was about trust. What really is upsetting me is that she keeps saying she trusts me but still she searches the phone Now parents hate each other and we both are hurting ourselves. Need advice what should I do during this week or break and what is the best or the appropriate thing to do with such problems.


    




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Well…,First of all are you keeping anything from her? Secret?Privacy issue? I do not see anything wrong, your future wife looking/checking your phone. Are you not being over sensitive for that matter???She is/was soon to be your wife. In marriage, there must be NO hiding things. The TRUST itself can be maintained by these trivial/minute/little things summing up altogether. @Marriage with TRUST= Happiness @Marriage with NO TRUST =? To keep this’ GIFT', of course you two must work it out (this very thing will apply to every single day of your lives from the moment when you say “ I DO”). Marriage is not a play. How to work things out?? What else can there be?? A good communication. It can be verbal, or written one (I would recommend the written way in this case). After having had conversation and sadly things don’t come out the way how both of you expect from one another, it is the best time to stay as friends. Wishing you the best.





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