Thinking of taking an old boyfriend up on his offer TO BE HIS MISTRESS. What do you think?

sweetbabykitty

LADY, YOU ARE WHACKED! FIRST YOU YELL ABOUT CHEATING MEN AND HOW IT'S NOT THE WOMAN'S FAULT, NOW YOU ARE ASKING IF YOU SHOULD DOINK AN OLD BOYFRIEND WHO'S MARRIED.

QUITE FRANKLY, I DON'T THINK YOU ARE MENTALLY STABLE TO BE THE OTHER WOMAN RIGHT NOW, SO I WOULD ADVISE AGAINST IT. SERIOUSLY!

nendlin

why not break the chain instead and hold ur head high knowing you didnt help let it happen to some other poor cow

Tigerluvr

I definately think you are a few cookies short of a dozen! Get some help.

Cookie Connoisseur

I think you lack good judgement.

misskate12001

The "everybody else is doing it" rationalization only works for the under 10 crowd... as in under 10 years old. And even then it never worked for me, my mom always countered with that "if everyone else was jumping off a bridge..."

It's one thing to be fine with your man cheating on you, but it's quite a different thing to go out and be the one the man is cheating with. I mean, I guess if character means little to you, then go for it.

Stewie Griffin

you need help

ms.shy

no!!! do not be a home wrecker!never!i know its painfull, but you have to understand what his wife would be feeling.don't let her have the same experience that you did.

tersey562

If you know how badly it hurt you why would you want to be the cause of another woman's pain. As with every situation there are good men, good women, bad men and bad women. You will not ease your pain by causing someone elses. Take the time to be comfortable and happy with yourself before you begin looking for a new relationship. The relationship will benefit from your new knowledge of yourself and what you are looking for in relationships. Good luck and God Bless.

i wish i knew

don't do it. just because it has happened to everyone, doesn't mean you should have a part in it. don't jump on the bandwagon--be a good person!!!

girls have to stick together to protect themselves.

Lightbulb

Don't do it because of your husband. If you want to screw around with an old boyfriend do it because you want to.

Steph

Well, you will look much better in the divorce (in terms of winning custody or assets if you stay clean and prove that he cheated. Besides, if you cheat you are no better than he is....wait till after the divorce. Besides there are some men that don't cheat. Try to find one of them. How do you know that the old boyfriend isn't sleeping with 15 other people with STD's?

Good Luck.

bsoundog

If you are in the process of a divorce, be careful what you do, it can come back to haunt you. If there are assets involved in your divorce, you might want to put your urge on hold until the paperwork is done. This answer if from a legal standpoint.

Mean Carleen

So now you want to be the same woman that your husband cheated on you with? Grow up lady. An affair with someone involved isn't going to ease the pain of your divorce..it is only going to cause more drama in your life and give the old boyfriend another place to dip his dicck. GROW UP!!!!

xx_muggles_xx

Your about to make one bad decision on top of another. You wouldn't be questioning it if somehwere in your consience there wasn't left this little nag saying what your doing may not be the best thing. You are Frank Abignailing yourslelf pusing lie until it sounds like truth. Abignail ended up going to jail but he had a great time before then but the consequences will always catch up to you for your actions.

Lotus

I thought you hated cheaters. That's your usual rant, anyway. Why be a mistress? Why not find a nice, single guy? Remember the pain you went through when you found out your husband was cheating? Why on Earth would you want to inflict that on someone else? I'm sure you are hurt and bitter right now, but please don't do anything that goes against your morals. You will regret it.

amromine

no no no. why? that is just letting yourself contimue to be used and hurt. and hurting someone else the way you have been hurt. find a single guy!

maxnull

Maybe they are all saying that to make you feel better. Are they all divorced?

Will you respect yourself more if you keep your promise to be faithful to your husband or if you get even with him? In my opinion, two wrongs never make a right.

chas

So let me get this straight. Your husband cheated on you left you devastated alone and now your response to the wrong done to you is to do it to another person. Wow, what a wonderful person you must be. Your marriage was wrecked by infidelity so you choose to wreck someone else's marriage. You know if they have kids you might even get to cause permanent emotional scars. You go girl. If you had any character at all you would let his wife in on your little game going on behind her back. You are going to hell on scholarship.

waiting for baby

What in it for you ? you truly need to ask that ?
because after a divorce things are never easy

Sonya K

hi,
becoming a mistress just because your husband cheated on you is not a good reason unless you are looking for revenge, and then the pain will only go away for a few moments, hours or seconds. then what will you do think about hoe your husband did you wrong, think of a way to get back at him again by becoming the man chick on the side.
raise your head girl, stop betting yourself up because a man could not see what he had right in front of him. don't go down the same street that his mistress went down you are better than that. find yourself someone who is going to treat you like the woman of beauty that you are. don't settle for second best you deserve the best of the best.

annetm2

Do you think so little of your self that you would stoop so low?
Why would you want to wreak another persons family? How would you be able to look his kids in the face and tell them that you are doing to their family if there are no kids what about the wife? You know this guy doesn't love you and he'll never leave his wife for you and if he does its because his real wife found out and left him. And you'll be stuck with a left over mess of a person. There is no future in this. Work on your own marriage.

Patti

You would be very unwise to do that. #1 it is against God's 10 commandments. #2 your husband will find out and all hell will break loose. #3 You will lose your respect #4 If you have kids, the kids will be stressed and depressed. #5 Think about the consequences if your husband wants a divorce. Will your quality of life change? #6 Do you want to get a STD? #7 You will ruin your life. #8 Do you have no morals? Find a good church and only date men with character that have not cheated on their wives and have morals. Look for a good widower.

Jackie

Cool, and then maybe you can sleep with one of his friends. That way when you get yourself knocked up you will have 2 wives after you instead of only 1. Who knows perhaps after your divorce you and your ex can cheat on the woman he cheated on you with. Talk about something fun and mature to do.

uneekqamar2004

Why would you stoop to that level? What kind of example would you set for your daughter if you have one? Mistress means mistake because you will get what you deserve if you do this. If he goes out and committ a murder will you join him? You have to know that if he cheated he made the choice to do so. You were not thought about in mind or heart. You should just focus on you and getting you together.

Mari76

If it didn't bother him, why should it bother you? Go have some fun!

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