This guy at work wants me, i want him ,he's married and so am i what to do ?

Aurain

If you want him SO badly you can't stand it, at least give your husband the courtesy of a divorce. If you're not willing to do that, then break off your relationship with your friend entirely. Believe me, this sort of thing can only end messily.

karina n

if you two cant work it out than you should get seperated, but don't cheat on him it's not faif.

dallas

treat your husband/wife with love and respect

Lola Belle

do what you want..

Nile

KARMA !!! What goes around comes around. Would you like it if your husband was feeling a female at his job?

art_fart

you asked for advise but I guarantee the only ones you see are the guys saying do him. Write back after you screw up your life, destroy your marriage and drive your husband out of your life. Maybe you will be lucky and get an STD to boot then you will have something else to share with your husband. GROW THE F*** UP. I can't believe you asked such a stupid question. Type the word "affair" into the little window that says search and read all the notes from all the people who have been destroyed by their spouse screwing around. GAWDd!

clownluvâ™¥

go for counsling its the only way. and if you still feel like this after maybe the married life isnt for you. and also i dont htink you should have gotten married in the first place your obviousy not ready for an commitment. think about it.

psykhaotic

Call that TV show Cheaters and have the camera crew in your bedroom waiting. Then when he gets naked, have them come out with a "SURPRISE!" You also get to be on TV, so that's a plus. And even if you did want him, you feel better for being strong enough to not do it. :)

bombshellicon

The friendship has to stop. Don't tempt yourself and him. No good will come if you continue. Stop, think, and honor yourself, your marriage, and your integrity.

Priscilla M

tell your husband that this guy at work wants u and you've already told him your married.then explain to your husband your feeling .and hope he understands.

cam

TELL YOUR HUSBAND YOUR HAVING TEMPTATIONS
HE'LL APPRECIATE THE HONESTY
NEXT YOU CAN FIND OUT WHAT'S MISSING IN YOUR MARITAL
RELATIONSHIP AND TRY TO FIND A NEW SPARK
ONCE YOU BREAK TRUST WITH YOUR HUSBAND YOU MAIRRAGE IS BASICALLY OVER
SLAP YOURSELF DUMP A BUCKET OF COLD WATER ON YOUR HEAD
BUT DON'T CHEAT IT'S JUST ABOUT THE LOWEST THING YOU CAN DO TO A SPOUSE
DOSE HE DESERVES THIS?
IF YOU REALLY LOVE HIM THEN YOU WILL TALK WITH HIM
NO MATTER HOW HARD IT IS
THE PATH OF LEAST RESISTANCE HAS MADE RIVERS AND MEN CROOKED

Nobody's home

Switch jobs anyway.

goddessatanea

Why did you get married? If you can't keep your commitment to your husband then you need to not be married. Remember the words? Love and honor. If you love him (truly love him) this idea would not even cross your mind and this thought process is not a way of honoring him.

So4real

Honor your marriage. Maybe you and your hubby need to work some things out to find out what you two are missing. But Stop, cease and desist. Honor the vows.

san_ann68

you made a commitment to the one you married if you love him like you say then make it work and fall in love with him again. stop thinking about your feelings and think of his, love is not selfish

bloodandfire@sbcglobal.net

Decide whether it's worth losing your husband or not. If so, divorce before cheating on your husband or hurting him. Don't pretend like you can commit when you obviously can't. If not, control your damn self.

dsd

Do you know how many lives you're going to impact when you give in to this want. Yes, yourself, your husband, yours kids (if you have them), this guy, his wife and his kids (if he has them). Look at the big picture and not just yourself. You're being selfish and immoral. You need to wake up, you have a husband you claim to love, you took vows. Honor them, your husband and your marriage, You'll be making a foolish mistake if you give into this and you know it.

themom

Back away from the affair and no one gets hurt. Literally. You are about to open up a bigger can of worms than you can imagine! Best to just leave things alone and stop being in a position where you are either alone with this man, or able to say private things to one another. If you and he are both married, you will do more damage than you can ever repair, all just to satisfy lust. Not a good idea!!

Goodspeed

Its all been already said but will you listen to reason?

eject911

you have to honor the fact that you are married.

think about this: you will ALWAYS run into someone better than your husband, no matter at what, so does that mean you can just forget about your man and jump on another's d i c k?

think again.

you both have a very real problem, and you should see eachother as little as possible. it is VERY hard not to cease the moment, but you will pay dearly, even if your spouses do not find out, you will have a guilty concience forever, and your life will have one more dark spot to deal with

Mam

Do you know what the word faithfull means? How would you like it if we were answering this question, but it had come from your
husband? Would it bother you to think of him having a office
romance?? Well think about it, and are you willing to ruin you
marriage?

Uncle John

If your marraiges arn't good, and neither is happy, then go ahead and cheat together, then get divorces and marry each other.

â™¥ Cal's Chica â™¥

get some self control, don't ruin your marriage!

BlkCoffee

It would be very foolish of you to get involved with that man. If you are having problems in your marriage, you need to seek some help. You need to call on Jesus and quit letting the devil trick and use you. Don't betray your husband and Gods sacred institution.

ideratherbefishin

You are a typical insecure ho. You claim you love your husband but i would say no....you may love what your husband does for you and the security he provides but beyond that you only love yourself. You should divorce your husband and just leave...you deserve no money, no property nothing except a boot in your azz....why you say...because you dear are a loser....you are part of the problem today...let your husband go find someone more deserving of loyalty and caring because you are the scum under people shoes....oh yeah lastly that guy at work isn't just porking you fool...he's out for all he can get and you are nowhere near enough woman to keep him from moving on again...it is his mo to keep cheating you fool. And you are a fool to let this guy undermine your marriage...what happened did he pay a little attention to you...whisper something funny to make you laugh...ahhhh...isn't that sweet......2 a-holes!!

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