This is only for mature adults, please.?

Ring Ring Ring Bananaphone

Sounds like this might be your fantasy and not his... I would suggest asking him his feelings on the subject before you bring someone home. Though most men (mine certainly is) are interested in seeing 2 women together, some men are not and you don't want to ruin his birthday by making him feel like he is not enough for you. If he is, then by all means, do it. You are obviously comfortable with the idea and it can be a lot of fun (i would suggest not bringing a close friend into the picture because it can damage relationships and cause feelings of jealousy).

walkerman5000

The short answer is YES, it's a bad idea. The long answer is, if you think it will not cause jealousy, distrust or unhappiness in your relationship and you are not morally opposed, go ahead. But, if he's not asking for it, why are you even considering it?

mrs d

Yes, this is a very bad idea for many reasons. One, this is why you get married, to have only one partner for the rest of your life, two, will you be able to trust him afterwards or will you worry about what if he likes this other woman more than you and what if he decides it must be okay with you if he goes to see this woman or another woman behind your back. You are opening the door to trouble if you do this.

Lothario

Damn, I wish they could clone you. You are EVERY guys' dream wife. Cheers to you. Don't listen to the negativity. Your husband will be forever grateful to you.

Norm

It is probably a bad idea! I would not recommend it myself.

Tom

If it is with another woman. Perhaps not so bad, but establish with the woman its a ONE time ONE Shot deal. Make sure you can honestly trust her not to become attached.

Thats where the biggest issue comes from.

*lives for 3 years doing orgies and swining, still do so occasionaly its fun to share lovers, but, it requires TRUST and BOUNDRIES. *

flash

You should talk to your hubby about something this important before you just set it up.

You'd be making a life changing decision for the both of you.

He might think that you're the only woman that he would ever need ....

Trailer P

Please don't

BAD IDEA!!!!!

I know someone that did exactly what you're proposing. They ended up getting divorced.

But guess what? The other two ended up getting married and are still married today!

You're inviting disaster! Good luck, especially if you decide to do it because you'll need it!

sheilarae1234

yes i have before with my husband and one other i was with 8 years. i've had it work and not work. a must for it to work!!!! don't make it someone you know and will see again and only do it once with that person..

syd_col1

I think that's a great idea! You can post your personal at webdate because I've met a lot of girls that are up for anything.

Saphira

There aren't enough words in the English language to tell you just how very bad this idea is.

Your marriage will never be the same and honestly I can't see this as being anything but the begining of the end.

Heidi B

It is a bad idea I had the same thing years ago just two men and myself. You will end up doubting yourself what happens if he enjoys her more than you. Or if he falls for her or starts having feelings for her. I started to have feelings for the other man. It is asking for trouble you allready stated you have a good realtionship keep it that way. Add no one else into your life.
Good luck.

CC Babydoll

i think i would ask him what he thinks about the idea, if he would like something like that , not mentioning the bday thang, cause if it is not his thang....could cause major problems

and then what if he wants more of her than u...how are u gonna feel?

i would not just dump it on him as the reaction could go either way

Without his input...YES.

Icy U

I haven't been in the situation, but as a guy I know I would like it, and he probably will too. At the same time though, if he has never hinted at wanting anything like that, what would make you think he would enjoy it? He might not want something like that to complicate your relationship. You also need to think about how you might react to what he does or says if he does enjoy it. Would you get jealous? If it happens once, he might want it to happen again. Can you handle that? There is so much to this that you really need to think about everything before hand.

If my wife had a threesome planned for me, I would be so incredibly turned on. I would enjoy it very much. I know I would want it to continue though, and I know she couldn't handle that.

Guy M

make sure she is damn good looking. what will you do if he likes it and wants it as a regular thing?

DIRKDIGGLER

look, from a guys point of view, yes it can be bad most guys would love this believe me I would but you never get to know how much we actually love it and it can cause problems. 10 years is a good run and if your relationship is as good as you say why mess with it.

chevy

STOP-STOP-STOP!!!!!! dont do it. you will only create insucurities. may not be there now so why mess it up. Please girl dont do it.

Grendle

This is a bad idea. Someone (him or you) is going to end up unhappy with the result.
Cheers.

899598

If he has never asked nor hinted, why would you do this? Sounds like you are doing this more for you than for him. You need to think about this long and hard because once you go down that road, you may wish you had not. Think about all the possibilities that could happen, even if you are both best friends, best friends divorce every day over another person. Think about the idea of him fantasizing over her when he is with you from now on, think outside of the box before you make this decision. Been there, done that.

cinnamon_latin_doll

Men are simple: When they want something they will ask. If he didn't ask for it don't give it to him. If he hasn't so much as hinted don't do it. Sounds like you're the one that wants a little spice.

Start with baby steps, take him to a fetish party or strip club and get him a lapdance. Or have him get you one and see how he reacts to it.

the_bat_freak

ok u got our attention next question pls

KathyS

You should really find out if he has the interest first.

Christina

i think you should first give the idea and see what he says, maybe this will hurt your relationship concidering he has never asked you to dothis before, some men will get offeed if you ask them to do this, they will think you atre not the real person they married.i think you should maybe see if this is what he wants, it might not be a good idea. but ask him and see what he says, dont ask him hint to him.good luck.

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