Thoughts about a three-some in a marriage?

Ace of hearts

I did it with my ex-wife and a couple of women. Notice the ex-wife part. It causes allot of confusion and jealousy! If you do it, will he want it to continue all the time, and are you willing to do that? If your doing things right you can be as good as two women at the same time, my wife is! That's why I don't desire other women! I would avoid that path if you can. I'll bet he would be against you and another man!

luteachris

lonely and confused? I guess if you want to open a pandora box in your marriage then go ahead. I feel marriage should be between a couple mature enough to be together and not share the toys if you get my drift. Are you interested in being with another woman? If you are then I give your marriage a year.

wnc817

What is the point of being married if you aren't going to be faithful?

â€¢ Leo â€¢

If you two have issues when it comes to jealousy. Don't. I don't esteem threesomes all that much in a marriage, but if it's what you want - heck. Go for it!

Jessica B

unless you know that you and your husband have a strong bond that nothing can break go ahead but if you have doubts def. DONT do the 3 way. it will cause problems.

Brian

You need to ask yourself how far are you willing to let this go?

Kevin

Well, I think a 3sum is a stupid thing to do in a marriage anyway. But the reason you want to have one with him is really stupid. Who cares if he has only been with two women.

sparkwing_dimond

Don't do it, it only causes problems.

ultrason_5

You want to do this for him. Why don't you just tell him to go out and get laid someplace, about the same thing.

bandaid_46

My first husband wanted to do this. I thought it was the stupidest thing I ever heard of. My next husband was a great deal better in every way.

Ker Plunk

Say goodbye to your marriage if you do this. It will change things forever and you will not be happy.

You will never look at him the same ever again.

phattybiggums

What if you like it more than him? What if he likes her more than he likes you after wards? What if after wards you can't stop picturing him and her together? Those are the questions you should think about and many more because once you do it ...it is done.

Brunette wife

Why bother being married if you both just want to f*ck around?

Apparently your wedding vows mean nothing to you or your husband.

Positive vibes

Are you sure that it's for him? Or do you secretly want to try it? Either way, it is not highly recommended.

happywjc

Reality is ever lasting!
Fantasy lasts only a short time!
I lived "that life style" before, and it gets pretty complicated!

General Custer

My you sound like an unreal wife.

WOWZA!

I hear it can do great things for a marriage or break a marriage.

clueless

im going thru a divorce now from a husband who loved to have an open relationship. you name it we've done it. i personally suggest that if you've gone 10yrs happy and with only one another, that you not change it. it may open doors you're not willing to go thur. its what happend to me. or it may cause problems that would not have been there had you not decided to go thru with the threesome. its risky, are you wililng to give it all up if it doesnt go well or too well, lol.

Irv S

He might think he would love to have a threesome,
(or is that you projecting?), but that's pretty advanced stuff
for someone who's "only been with 2 woman, EVER!."

pegetto

If u guys have a pretty solid relationship, you really should be fine. Of course there is a chance there may be some jealousy but with how common this type of thing is, jealousy is pretty rare. Just don't do it with anyon that he may have easy access to in the future or someone that you feel is far more attractive than you. Do a google search on swinging lifestyles, and you'll get a lot of helpful and decent info on whether it could be right for your relationship. Of course you don't have to swing all the time, but it will help you make the decision as to whether or not you'd want to give a threesome a try.

Sala

it would make any guy happy to have a three some.
idk if your married. you should really think about.

SAM

Usually if the hubby is the one requesting, then yes, the potential of jealousy issues is MUCH bigger.

But, in your case, you are the one wanting to make it happen. So, you are in a good position to decide.

I do have a similar personal experience in this. The only advise is that you should be the one deciding "which" lady to join you two and it's the best to do this while on a vacation somewhere FAR FAR from home. I will write more about my experience if you want to know more

In trouble??

I have been involved in a 3 some, but I was the OTHER woman and it was great. But in talking with the wife, sounds like either there are NO rules or you don't do it. Otherwise, bad feelings can creep into the relationship. Good luck...

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