Threesome??????????

Jason B

It' fun and healthy, and everyone should do it!

Mommy to Joshua

OK my best friend brought another woman into the bedroom because her man wanted to... they are now divorced! It all depends on how you can handle the fact that your man is touching another woman. really think about that! and if you decide that you can't do it, then if he really loves you he should understand.

jerofjungle

It can. It removes the intimacy that two people share. Some are ok with it but alot of couples wind up going downhill after such an experiment.

just me

Do you really want to watch him fu(k another woman? And sure, hire a pro, they do so many people...

iyamacog

Think about it..........he suggested a 3 some with another woman.
Tell him you'd like a 3 some with another guy. Let's see what his reaction is.

jenny48_1

I have not done it. But my husband has. When he was married to his previous wife. And it wasn't his choice, she wanted to do it. He regrets it. And as you can see that is his PREVIOUS wife. They are divorced. The 3some thing and a number of other issues caused that divorce. He says that is makes a whole bunch of unnessary jealousy issues. And would never, never do it again. And he loves me too much to share with anyone. If your bf loves you, he wouldnt want to share and you would be enough for him

bggarry

i know some body that did it was a big mistake so thank very hard before you do

gentlgodis

I have never participated in one but I do think that it could kill a committed relationship if both of you don't want to do it. It could also ruin a relationship both of you don't see the threesome in the same way.

April

Never a good idea, hon, if you plan to be or become a committed couple. Romantic love is ruined, and it becomes a screwing session, and it will forever leave a bad taste in your mouth, particularly as you get older. NOpe, don't get involved.....and you already know this, because you are asking this question....Not a good thing, not ever..... And if my boyfriend suggested it, I'd evaporate. Disgusting. And it would say to me he really didn't care much for me.........

brandon_fargerson

It can ruin it. Specially if she is better than you. The fundamental question is whether or not you want to make him happy.

â™¥Brownieâ™¥

no it is a horrible idea and gross!

dano

For sure it is our # 1 fantasy. For most it remains a fantasy. I think Internet connection with an out of towner might be the best choice always keeping safety/health in mind. It would be imperative that there never be a one-on-one meeting as a result of this. Good luck your b/f is lucky. I wouldn't go the escort, use the Internet take your time and be careful.

nwnativeprincess

bad idea !!!!
causes all kinds of messed up feelings.
it can totally ruin a relationship.
as long as your not married, to each his own.

womanwiccan

That depends. If he wants a three-way with you and another woman, is he also willing to also go with you and another guy?
If you live in a small town, it may be better to go out of town. And use protection!
It will only ruin your relationship if you let it. Lay some ground rules.

Alisha S

Don't do it... in the long run you will regret it.

Local Celebrity

I really do not think that would be a good idea. A threesome is a fantasy and nothing more. If you make it into reality, your relationship may suffer. Honestly, would you be able to look at your boyfriend while he is banging another girl. Would you be able to look at him while another guy is banging you? I think it is a really bad idea and has ruined a lot of relationships. If you object, you need to let your boyfriend know and if he has a fit, ditch his ***.

Steven H

YOUR BOYFRIEND WANTS TO ''ACT'' OUT A FANTASY WHICH LATER COULD BE DISASTROUS FOR BOTH OF YOU. BEST TO LEAVE IT AS A FANTASY OR TELL HIM TO GO AND ACT IT OUT OF HIS SYSTEM BEFORE YOU AND HIM GET TOTALLY INVOLVED WITH YOUR OWN RELATIONSHIP.

homie_j

What kind of relationship do you want by doing that. Of course it riuns the relationship, because someone always strays and there are loss of respect for each other. It isnt worth it find you a boyfriend that is only interested in you and only wanting to be with you. Not someone that wants to share you or be shared.

Greg

Seriously, are you crazy? Move on, know that you deserve better (healthy would be nice).

joeyboy_816

If it is something that you really want to do, the advise of an escort works well, I have done a threesome many times, and It always impaired the relationship, with jealousy when with local "friends".

Just be careful

seattleman

You need the girl next door type...clean and safe. The way to keep this a good thing for you is to enjoy it more than he does. If the bf views you as bi and senses that he could lose you to a female, then he'll hang on to you with everything he's got. If he feels you trying to cling, he'll want to free himself of those strings. If you just can't bring yourself to do it with another girl, then maybe he's not the right guy for you. Enjoy!

PeachyFixation

It'll ruin everything. If you can't please him ALONE, than he needs to take a hike.

Common Sense

A 3some between a man, his g/f or wife, and another woman is usually not dangerous to the relationship if done carefully.
The wife or g/f must always be the one who invites / provides the
other woman...The man must never contact, invite or speak to the other woman outside the bedroom experience...
I have done many 3somes under these terms and they are usually very enjoyable and have never caused a problem...Sometimes the other woman is simply a "dud" but that is to be expected even in normal dating...

Sean J

My wife and I have had a few threesomes, they've all gone well for us. I'm not sure I'd suggest an escort... for one thing, it might be illegal, for another it's expensive.

What I would recommend is that if you're going to do it, you pick the girl or if you're going with a guy let him pick the guy. It makes things go a lot smoother later. It can be a great learning experience, gives you a chance to actually sit back and watch how he responds when different things happen.

jomuma

Threesomes can be fun but can also have a devastating result. If you have been in an existing relationship and are looking to spice it up, it might be a thing to do but be wary of many pitfalls. Another angle to consider is how would he feel about a threesome with two men and a woman.

Consider all the pros and cons of this action.

holicheese

Do it. Get the hottest chick you can find.
That is awesome. The best gift you could ever give your man!
Just make sure she looks different from you. Or maybe get your sister involved. That would be sweet!

I wouldn't do it, although I have, but not with my husband

Rainbow Brite

Go for it.

pumpkin

that's disgusting...
ewwwwwwwwww, yukkkkkkkkkkk
don't do it...

mmw

it might ruin the relationship. how do you really feel about the situation...instead of asking us ask yourself what you think. i thought i would try it once and then i chicken out. we were starting to get hot and heavy and then i stopped and said NOPE can't do it. i am so glad i did.

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