Threesome gone wrong. What's going on?

<Raised on Promises>

LOL.

Oh the wonderful threesome.

Kiss your marriage goodbye! Start shopping for a good divorce lawyer.

jude

of course u were set up, this is why having a 3 some doesn't work out. he can cheat and call it a 3 some.

Kari

You should have posted the question "should I have a threesome" before you did it. Then you would have seen all the answers that threesomes ruin marriages. Sorry, but they played you for a fool and you have low enough self esteem to share your husband with someone. Learn to respect yourself with your next husband.

I tell it like it is

Yes, you are crazy. Nevermind of his goings on at work. You opened your marriage, now you can kiss it goodbye. It is just a matter of time until he leaves you, when you refuse to have the next threesome. Let this be a lesson learned.

hasjewels

A marriage normally can't withstand a 3some. Sounds like your marriage is not going to work out.

Kevin

Well, you are a perfect example of why it is not a good idea to bring another person into the bedroom when you are married. This is what happens. Threesomes are just an excuse to cheat. Oh well, lesson learned I guess. Don't make the same mistake with your next husband.

lol, I love ourgon down there. Yes many do, but most don't. I love the don't bring someone you both know into it. What could be better than inviting a complete stranger into the bedroom. Pathetic. I also love how so many of these couples who swing think that they have a much happier relationship with one another. That is just laughable, because if you were truly happy it wouldn't be necessary to bring someone else into your bedroom.

THE NOLTE-KMA

This truly is a sick, sad world.

Memory

Yes, they set you up. So they can have an excuse to be together. Marriage is a thing of two not three. Cheating is cheating. Both of you were cheating, even if the spouse was present when you did it.

teeman824

Yep you were set up.
How about a date?

honey bunny

first of all you never let someone else come into the bedroom. big mistake. second yes they set you up. it sounds like they had something going on from the get go and you need to be a woman and stand up to your husband and make him choose or leave his butt. i wouldnt put up with it. knowing myself i would beat that girl down.

verrico98

You need to take control. You should step in and talk to the friend. If your husband does back off then I would say your fears are confirmed. Lay it on the line to him, it's you or her.

J.J.

Your husband is using you..Don't beleive a word he says.

Eddie Cacciatore, Private Eye

Will you marry me?

poodle mom

another threesome gone wrong. happens all the time.

dancing_smurf

Hi Priscilla L,

Sorry to read that you have had such a bad experience with a threesome. Having had a few threesomes while being married I can give you some insight. Your posting reads as though this was a surprise / impromptu threesome and by that I mean there was very little if any discussion regarding having a threesome. Furthermore this is complicated by the fact they are co-workers. I will address the co-worker issues first and then the meatier threesome issue. Regardless of what you husband believes he does stand a very good chance of loosing his job. Co-workers and threesomes do not mix as they are a volatile mix which employers do not like. Reason why employers do not like such a situation includes a liability issue for them, drama, low employee morale, and a variety of other issues. Having read your posting I will not comment if I feel they planned it as I do not have enough information to arrive at a conclusion. However I will say there are several points where your husband has crossed the line and should have discussed with you.

Moving onto the threesome I suspect what has happened is this the friend had a boyfriend and she did not tell him what she had planned. Once he found out he broke up with her and on the rebound the second threesome happened. Because this threesome is full of issues you husband, for lack of a better word, has become addicted to the excitement that this threesome is providing him. I suspect he has a need to feel needed and feel important which she is allowing him to do.

My advice is you need to put an end to the threesome with her and work through what has happened. Second you need to be prepared that you husband will most likely either be fired or disciplined for fraternizing with her. If the two of you are not able to separate from her you will loose him.

The Reverend Soleil

Certainly sounds like it.

But you'd probably be better served talking with HIM about it.

Idiocracy (Miss Mike Hunt)

Damn you should come over and meet my wife. Screw your husband.
Actually, you should stop screwing him. We can keep you busy enough over at our house.

Jay Awesome

They're using the 3some to include you because they obviously like each other, but also don't want to hurt you.

soccer4life123

look, when have a 3some ALLWAYS make sure ur OK with the person joining in!!

kaluab09

Find a new boy toy before the divorce, ask your hubby if you can have a threesome with your new boy toy and hubby. After it is all said and done, tell him you want a divorce and you have never had such good s$x until the new boy toy.

ouragon

Threesomes can work. Many marriages withstand them, including mine. One rule is don't have them with people you already know. I don't think it would've helped much in your case, because I think your bf and her are involved. I think you were set up.

gettin by one day at a time

No your not crazy and they are using that as an excuse. That is awful! I can't imagine how you must feel.

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