To all the married women out there: Why do you think your husband is an A hole?

I am apparently one of the mentioned ******* and I just am looking for answers. How about some insight.

Could you please not answer with the following:
#1 Don't you know?
#2 I'm not going to tell you.
#3 because.
#4 You just are.
#5 It's not what you said it was your tone.
#6 gribblefitch snuffu clabbo riptu flippo ashoeelio. (Words spoken loudly in another room, loud enough, yet quiet enough to not be comprehended).
#7 What did you say to your wife? She IS innocent after all?

This is a question, I really don't need any more grief, so I guess I'm really asking about the qualities that make an ******.

Hey, on second thought, be brutal.
Additional Details
HOLY COW!!!! I got ten answers in around 60 minutes and nobody tried to poo on me! (yet)
THANKS!!!
I really appreciate the answers so far! Keep em coming please!

Terri W

He made twice the money I did and refused to help pay the rent, bills, groceries, or gas.

He could trash a house in thirty minutes.

He refused to do anything to help with the housework or yard work.

He would tell me to be ready to go out when he got home from work and when I was ready to go, when he got home. He would come up with some excuse of being too tired, or no money left, or something like that.

He made promises he never kept.

He would write rubber checks and expect me to cover them. Finally I could no longer afford to pay his rubber checks and he got put in jail. Then he yelled at me for not getting him out of jail.

He would take money from my purse that he knew I needed to pay the rent, and then yell at me for not paying it.

I found out from the Doctor that I had an STD and I had not been with anyone but my husband.

Quite frankly the lazy bum cost far more than he was worth. I finally told him to 'get his act straight or get lost, I no longer cared which.'

I could go on, but I think this gives you enough reasons why.

Memory

He makes no real effort to improve things that are wrong in the marriage.

tweety

Who said I said I think my husband is an A hole ..I don't think he's an A hole.

Logana

An ***hole; screams at his wife for no reason. Hurls abuse at her and calls her names. Threatens her. Treats her like a servant and does nothing around the house. Ruins her birthday every year. Never stands up for her or defends her. Spends all their money on his motor bike and she doesn't even have enough left for groceries. Starves her of love, affection, companionship and intimacy.
Tells her he will ruin her life if she tries to get a divorce.

I bet you're not this bad.

Annie

Men can be A Holes when they ignore their partner...Or go out with other women not caring about their own.

zero tolerance

my first husband was an a'Â¨'' hole cos he was a lazy bum and didn't provide for the family. that's why i dumped him. my second husband IS NOT an a'' hole. he is absolutely perfect - responsible, good provider, takes care of everything, very intelligent and has very good manners. so i say if your wife considers u an a'' hole u either should seriously think about your way of life or dump her

Heather

OH MY GOSH to the person that just posted before me (Thanks!), my husband does the exact same thing!! It's like the man's brain completely shuts off while they're in a heated battle and he can't remember anything that occurred. So funny. Anyways, to answer the question, I think my husband is a complete ****** when he talks down to me and treats me like a little girl. Hate that!

Thanks!

I think he's an a hole when he spouts off mean things and then 10 minutes later he's like I never said that. Please!

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