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champagne
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DIVORCE PAPERS ! |
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f0xymoron
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Don't do anything silly like take another woman home with you, that's just demeaning for the other woman and only proves you to be as bad as your wife. Maintain your dignity and tell her you are better than this and that your relationship is over. There are plenty of women out there who would love a faithful man. As they say, the best revenge is living well - leave her, and show her how little you needed her in your life. Set a good example for your children, they are innocent in all this and you can make a better life for them. |
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mistyblue
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The thing is if you want to show her you don't care it means you do care ,and who'd blame you.
Is this a recent thing?
Concentrate on your kids for a bit any revenge you try and take will hurt them all the more.
Let the dust settle.
Then the best way to show someone you don't care is to get on with your life. |
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thequiteone2006
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me and my mates can definately confirm that she is one good lay |
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Savanna
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Mail her as* the divorce papers & leave it at that...
Unless you have children, in the case you may want to work it out with her FIRST then pretty much ignore her.... |
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heebygeeby
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Who are you to stop your kids speaking to their mother,stop taking your anger out on them,or your as bad as she is. |
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jaimeods
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The problem is you do still care - time is a healer but don't use your children as a weapon, it's not fair. |
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Sophiesmom
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Divorce her... |
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Away With The Fairies
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Don't take it out on the kids. They have a right to speak to their mother, no matter what sort of low-life she is. You sound hurt and bitter and just by posting this question you're proving you do still care - the bitterness and anger will fade and hopefully (for the children's sake) the two of you will be able to behave like mature adults and sort out your differences amicably. |
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Samantha C
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by not giving her the time of day and don't waste you time and energy even thinking about her - i.e. not even discussing her on a website. Hope everything works out well for you. |
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Wendy
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Divorce her.... |
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Newgran
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Leave her and get a divorce. |
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bevalou
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Change the locks, your phone number and get on with your life without her! |
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kwlcmmm
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cheating on her without even trying to hide it |
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stephenmwells
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Get the ball rolling,you know what ball that is. Take solace in your kids . They are true love unconditional and will help you through it. Do not reconsider later when her affair sizzles. It will only happen again. Karma will work her forces she always does:). Life will bring you down a more fulfilling road. It has to ,the road your on now doesn't get much worse. |
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seventy
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She's their mother and every right to speak to her children. Your kids will no doubt hate you when they grow up and find out that you wouldn't answer the phone when their mother wanted to speak to them. You sound like a bad loser but that's not your childrens' fault. Allow your wife access to them, she gave them life for goodness sake. Grow up and deal with your affairs admirably and stop using children as pawns |
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sweetgranny06
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divorce her keep the kids |
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SG Elite
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Let her know that your love/effection for her has reached a point of no return. Work out the separation/divorce and move on from there. |
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leaf321
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Don't do a thing, enjoy time with your children, get on with your life and just don't let her bother you. |
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Liz
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Sounds like the next step should be divorce. |
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1966 GTO
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Shoot her and her lover. Thats what I would do. |
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jobalot
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Just get on with your life with your children. It's not a good idea to
not answer her calls to the children. She is their mum and its not their fault she cheated on you. Be as amicable as you can for the sake of the children and you will become a better person for it.
Good Luck |
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romeypaster
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just open your mouth and tell her like a man should. the longer you wait the worse it will be. |
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bjrj812
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buy her a case of condoms and 2 gallons of lube then tell her to call if she needs more |
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none
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Simply tell her, let her see that you feel freedom knowing that you could move on find a real women who will respect you and be loyal, there are good women out there am sure you will find her. |
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a_working_wife
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move away and dont tell her where to |
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womble
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divorce papers! but don't forget the kids are involved. let them have a relationship with her and let them make up their own minds and they will.don't force your hate on to them or be negative about her she's still their mum. they're the innocent party in all of this. it's hard to swallow the anger been there my self but no matter how much crap my ex gives me or threatens court i have always been positive about him to my daughter and let her see him. |
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jackie m
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If you really didn't care anymore you wouldn't be on this as you wouldn't give her a second thought? and if you really don't care then just get on with your life and accept her like an everyday person, like the person down the road, and no matter what happens remember she is still the mother of your children |
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Minxy
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The best way is to tell her straight.
You tell her that the day she cheated was the day ther love
for her flew out of the window.
BUT please - don't use your children as a tool for your
hurt. The kids have got to know that you both still love them.
Let her see the children - and let her see that you have moved on.
When she sees that you are happy and coping, she will realise
what she has thrown away. She can't make you love her -
can she? |
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Just passing the time!
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Divorce, but don't use the kids against her! |
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kendal
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tell her straight, |
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