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Dasher
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ahhhhh leave him!!! Are you crazy? Why on earth would you put up with being hit? Get out of there NOW! Nobody deserves that. |
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Shorty
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if you love the man enough to stay with him then i think you should. if you decide to stay with him, then maybe you guys should get some counseling before it gets to the point where he beats you to death. I'm not trying to scare you or anything, but you shouldn't have to put up with being abused no matter what you do. |
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amanda
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i would say yall could seek counseling if hes up for it, but if your sayin the love is gone then theres no reason to stay... ESPECIALLY if hes hitting you, that is nothing to settle with |
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dutch950
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I work in this field. please call 1800 799 SAFE (Natl Domestic Violence Hotline) You don't have to turn him in but its someone to talk to. It could save your life |
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passonfruits
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Get out well u can ...
If your feel there is nothing left ,,, leave ....
Find help in your comunitie....
Shelters, ect....
NO one should be able to hurt you
Love your self and help your self
GET OUT
well you can before you cant |
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Brat-tett & Brat Pack's
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Leave.
I know its easier said then done ~ !
No real man would hit a women ~!
It will only get worse.
You can try counseling,
but you said love is gone , you feel nothing,
So there isn't a point in counseling.
Be strong ~ and go.
Life's to short to spend it unhappy,
let alone being abused ~ !
My Thoughts are with you.
~*~*~*~*~Peace. |
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Nunoyvgvna Awi
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well you took an oath in God's presence "till death do you part" and "in sickness and in health"
hitting is a sickness......seek help for both of you. |
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Robin W
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Get out as fast and safely as you can. Make sure you have access to cash--take some $$ out of an ATM away from where you are going. Make sure you have your ID, SSN, birth certificate with you. If you have kids, get their IDs, SSNs and go. Go now to a shelter and don't look back. |
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nobodyimportant
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well its hard 2 just leave a guy after 10 years for somethin he just recently started doin so i understand its hard to leave but u should stay at a friends house n call him n say stop or im leavin (that way he cant strangle you) then stay thier with a friend for a while till he starts 2 miss u or somethin cause he will if its been 10 years and if all else fails kick somebodys *** |
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Princess
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Unless you enjoy it and it turns you on.....LEAVE! |
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hawk
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be sure to get pics of ALL bruises. try to get him some help. if the counseling doesn't work (or you can't get him there), there is always proof.
try to have a friend around when he is "in one of his moods", so long as you can predict them anyway. are there any patterns or triggers, can you take them out of the picture? |
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henuettamarymac
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Ma'am, if your husband has started hitting, you, he obviously doesn't love you anymore, and I doubt that you love him either. You need to get out of this relationship fast, before he starts inflicting permanent damage, mental or physical. I'm really sorry that this has happened to you. |
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marie b
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i don't care if its a man of 100 years. There is no excuse for a man to hit a woman. That means the respect and love that was there is not there any more. Any man who can raise his hand and hit you is also capable of killing you. Yes it is painful to leave because you will feel that you wasted 10 years of your life. Maybe there was a reason why he was in your life, maybe he had to be there for that amount of time to change your life in one way or another. But this hitting business is just not going to work. It's either he respects you or you show him the door. there is no other alternative. |
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jenw1403
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Leave as fast as you can. It can only get worse from here!!! |
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chinadollsrule
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if he hits you the first time there will always be another time. they always say they are sorry and it will not happen again but it always does. show him that you are better than that and you can live without him |
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JK
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leave his *** and take every penny |
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Pepe LePeu
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If he's hitting you, Youve got less than nothing...you've got something in the negative territory.....LEAVE ASAP |
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PATTY H
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Get out while you can. I've done told my hubby, hit me once and you will wake to an iron skillet banging off your head. No one should put up with that for any reason. And don't let him try to say it was your fault either. been there done that with a violent bf when I was a teen. I was stupid enough to believe it for a while, but quickly got out....you need to get out as well. |
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fluttering_by@sbcglobal.net
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why do you even question it.....LEAVE!!!!!!!! |
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Malaysia
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Leave him. No matter how long you have been to together, leave. Don't make it get worse. |
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hail_bby
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LEAVE!!!! yea ten years is a long time but a man who has the nerve to hit and disrespect you deserves to know who has the bigger balls!!! even if 99% of you loves him endlessly there is still that 1% that has scared you, that has hit you and that 1% will grow...
I know so many women who are abused by their partners and they dont do anything about it coz their still so madly in love with him. that is why i think that there is no such thing. seriously if you dont start to resect who you are as a person, woman, and goddess than why should he and he wont. there is no man alive NOT EVEN GOD that can touch me with out me saying yes, so be strong and give the man the flick and let him know who wears the pants. |
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AshAnn
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do you want to be abused....if it just started...it's going to get worse and if you have kids with him or will have kids with him...you don't want them to get hurt....leave his *** fast...i know it is easier said than done, but do it for yourself....you;ll be happy |
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Sugar Bear
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You have problems. Either get out or get him out. NOW!!!
Obiviously, there is a new ingredient in the mix: finances, affair, drugs, children ???? |
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Brutal honesty is best
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I know it's hard but for your own safety you must leave. Once a person gets comfortable with violence it will continue and get worse. Call a friend and leave. |
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elizabeth_bjn
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RUN FORREST RUN!!! |
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Mr. Yah
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If he hits you he does not love you, leave him quickly before it gets worse!"UGLY NOT THOSE YOU LOVE" |
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auntiegrav
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Stay. Call the cops and have him taken away. |
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HONORARIUS
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LEAVE... |
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Me
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good marriage is an intimate and loving relationship which gives both partners security, friendship, companionship, support, comfort, and deep love that penetrates every aspect of life. None of this can be achieved without work and sacrifice.
Marriage may be compared to a plant that requires daily nurture, daily attention, daily care and cultivation. It will not develop of its own accord; only as effort and will are exerted will it grow and mature. For a marriage to succeed, both husband and wife must be committed to its success. They must build an enduring love relationship that is centered in the heart of their consciousness. Their relationship must be nurtured with the water of loyalty and love. |
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kuhl_jordan
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if he hits you hit him back! and yes leave him |
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meatball288001
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Let me hold the door as you are running out...you go girl.. |
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