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True or False. The person without custody moves on faster?
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True or False. The person without custody moves on faster?

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Justsyd
False. Custody doesn't matter when it comes to a person's feelings.


Their Mom♥
neither


RedDreads
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False. If a person is used to seeing their children on a daily basis I am quite sure they will miss them.


oreobabylove
Each person moves on at thier own pace regardless of custody matters


?
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The person without a heart and selfish motives moves on faster, and judging from this and other questions you've been asking the past few weeks, you already are moving on at near-light speed.

You could not imagine just what depths of things I want to write about what sort of person I believe you are. You ought to thank the Community Guidelines.


Sissi Love
I would say it depends on the type of person.


lily
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The person that initiates the divorce is ahead of the game mentally. If you don't have custody you will soon learn that your ex begins playing games with you. Keeping the kids from you and nagging about every little thing. This will not get better, it only gets worse. For some reason they will think the non custodial parent is flush with money. For some reason they think they should be being paid to raise their own kids, and have you stay out of their upbringing.


dfgkasdjflma
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Probably... Everyone's feelings are different after a divorce or break up but I'm assuming the person with the children's custody is probably too consumed with the children's well being, care and everyday life to be dealing with the dating scene right away.. Perhaps they are a little worried about bringing a strange man/woman to their lives right away


sasha
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True only because it's USUALLY the man who leaves, and USUALLY the woman who gets custody. In my case, I left and I have custody so I'm moving on faster and I have the kids. And when I say I'm moving on I mean I'm not heart broken over it, not dating yet but not a mess. I'm more heart broken over hoe it's hurting my kids.


bookworm7
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False. Custody has no bearing on that.


Balthazar
For what? The gerbil wheel???


doc
That is stupid.


kerik
??? I would think that the person without custody may have the freedom to do more socializing but may carry some sort of seperation-from-the-children anxiety. So mentally the person may not be able to move on. He/she may express it through the social scene has some sort of distraction


horseknickers
true


livetall1
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i don't think so - the person who wanted out moves on faster.


mary c
this all depends i guess if you have no custody it would be easier to date because the one with custody has more of a resposibilty to the children


catcat85035
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it is false. neither would be able to move on faster


Bear
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dont think so.


Concerned advisor
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true and false..true, he doesnt have any kids with him so he is independent and doesnt have to pay much if his wife doesnt want welfare money for them otherwise False cos he'd have to send money to his wife and all that.


nat_00420
false, they move on faster but still get no where fast.....


misydoll
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true


--------
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HI Delia,

I cannot think anyone separating and destroying a home can move on fast.

Who carres about the adults. Anyone think about the children? They have no say in this and have to get over things. IF they are with mom ..ok...if it is dad..ok they have no say.


™Spaceman™
false


raffi
false


kittys applejuice
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False. I, Myself, put my mother through a huge battle four years ago. now that im grown and understand my actions it wasnt right for me to choose, my mother had to undergo several surgaries due to stress related problems. and she is still fighting it today. so no the person with out custody doesnt move on faster. they have the same responiblities. They find some one else they have to tell them, just like you, "oh by the way i have a kid/children"


befuddled
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true


Gigi
I guess there is no real answer here - except it depends on the person - I took custody of my two kids and I feel I am more successful and outgoing then their single father -

I sometimesthink why he is not going back to school or taking advantage of his free time -

It depends on the person -:)


scary g
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How can you "move on" without your kid?


legna
IT depends if you are talking emotionally no you will not but if you are talking financially yes





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