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Tina
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No, hunny, not all men cheat and it is not for you to put up with when they do.
If your man is cheating there will be signs and it's up to you to decide whether or not to drop him on his hiney or put up with it.
Personally, if I ever found out my husband cheated on me there would be serious hell to pay for it.
That was just a terrible steriotype and misunderstanding of how real, healthy, relationships should work.
Not all men cheat, and neither do all women. |
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mjmayer188
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Not true. Married 24 years and never strayed.
All men and women are tempted at some time. Not everyone gives in. |
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Look Away, I'm Hideous
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not all men cheat |
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Michelle
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Some men are an exception to the rule. There are true gentlemen out there. |
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fizixx
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WRONG
I have not and do NOT cheat. She's cynical and bitter and saying this because someone cheated on her probably, in her life.
Not every man cheats. You see, from my experience it's the woman that cheats and connives, but I know that not every woman is like that....I hope.
So, don't let this woman's poison affect YOU like it has HER! |
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pussycat
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Not all men cheat! Many do; as do women. Don't allow her point of view to influence you. And heck no; it is not okay for them to do so as long as they are 'taking care of you'. Has she heard about STD's ? Wonder if that falls under the category of 'bringing it home'? |
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Kally M
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Your aunt has been hurt before. |
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floridaman39us
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Your aunt has been stung by unfaithfulness. Not all men cheat, but we still like to look at the pretty ladies...... |
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Pinky!
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NOT TRUE!
Not all men.
Sorry, but your aunt is just bitter. |
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Wingin It
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well, sounds like she reflecting on her own history. any man who cheats on me is out on the street living in a box. period. |
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idai
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Hi there
My mother always use to say "look but don't touch".
I think most decent guys stick to this rule.
Cheaters are cheaters and will never change. But theses days woman are just as likely to cheat as men. There just better at covering it up.
Best wishes
idai |
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gypsy g
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Its not always true and she is putting a price tag on her happiness. Its a shame but women have done it forever.
You shouldn't give in and accept her cynicism but you shouldn't be completely idealistic either. Always hope that you've found the guy who wouldn't do that to you but never think that he won't either. |
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SisterSue
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Sounds like she has had a very bad experience/s with men and is very jaded.. The idea behind marriage is to be in a committed relationship with another person that you can trust and lean on when you need to.
You have to decide for yourself what you want your marriage to be like. There seems to be a growing population of "open marriages" these days, but that doesn't mean that is what the sacrament of marriage is about at all.. Don't let her scare you into thinking that all men are that way, because they aren't. And don't put up with men that are that way either. |
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Qyllix
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False. Not all men cheat. Ive been married for 10 years, and would never even consider it. Sounds like your aunt is unhappy for some reason. |
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shpicey
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Not true. The men who don't cheat take it a step further though than not actually wanting to cheat. They take steps to ensure it doesn't happen (ie. don't even begin to flirt with other women, listen if their wife/girlfriend feels uncomfortable about a certain woman, not go out alone with other women, & actually taking steps to avoid a potentially tempting situation.)
If you want a guy who doesn't cheat, early on in the relationship ask him what he does to actually prevent it from happening, and if (hypothetically speaking) you didn't like a girl he would stay away from her. If he gets defensive and resentful, move on. |
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George
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No, all men do not cheat. It all depends on how you treat and take care of his needs. Don't be afraid to ask what his likes and dislikes are. Being honest with each other will keep him by your side. |
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DisneyBride
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Yes some men do cheat but they do not all. The biggest factor is trust, whether or not you can trust that man. And jsut because she is older doesnt mean she knows better, no disrespect I 'm sure your aunt is a nice woman and is only saying what she thinks is best for you, but maybe she has been in some bad realionships and is bitter?
Saying that all men cheat is just like saying all women cheat. It's really unfair to the men. There are a lot of great guys out there. |
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Happy-2
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While admitting that it's tough to pin down numbers with a high degree of accuracy, I found a very legitimate-looking website that makes it clear that your aunt is incorrect. It states the following statistics:
22 percent of married men have strayed at least once during their married lives.
14 percent of married women have had affairs at least once during their married lives.
Check out the link below -- the site is chock full of fascinating statistics. |
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piNguiNa ;o)
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How many times has she been cheated on?
Is she married now?
She can't just judge men like that. No, not all men cheat. I know for sure that mine doesn't, and for all I know he's not even willing to or considering to cheat on me.
Poor, poor aunt of yours I think that she is bitter to think like that. |
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Meichelle
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Yeah, all men don't cheat! That's soooo not true! |
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michims
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She picks the wrong men or may be justifying her own behaviors. Don't settle for a cheater. I have been cheated on and hated feeling like I came in second all the time. I am now with a faithful man and appreciate it more than I ever could have before. You have to make compromises in relationships, but never compromise yourself! |
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faith
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Wow, your aunt's got some issues. First of all not all men cheat. Secondly if they are cheating you don't allow it to continue just because they are taking care of you! That sounds crazy just typing it!
Come on, you know better than that don't you? Don't listen to a word she says. Obviously she's been done wrong by one to many guys and has lost all self respect for her self. No woman should ever have to put up with a man cheating on her and no woman should even want to. Her ideas of marriage and relationships are way off!
There are good men out there that will love and respect you! You might have one, I don't know. But I wouldn't judge it according to your aunts thoughts you should make own judgments about men. |
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firefly
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that is not true. i've been married 8 yrs. and my husband has never cheated. not all men cheat and if you ever find yourself with a man who does cheat you do not have to put up with it, if he's cheating he is not taking care of you. |
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Txgirl23
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No not ALL men cheat. The majority nowadays so it seems like do but that's not good to base your thoughts on that. Maybe she feels that way because of her past experiences with cheaters. |
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rlsejhm
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Not everyone cheats! That's a terribly narrow-minded view of the world. Being realistic, some people do cheat, but not EVERYBODY. Your aunt has probably just been hurt by a man or seen someone get hurt by a man, and now she just thinks everyone's bad. She's refusing to see any good in people (or men in this case). Ignore her. Although it's important to listen to the advice of your elders, this is your life. You need to have your own view of the world. |
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~NIKKI~
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Well from reading every ones comments (men and women) it looks like majority rules and your aunt is WRONG! |
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*´¨`*��Heart and Soul��*´¨`*
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She had been hurt before, and she is angry about being hurt. She is trying to 'scare' you, trying to tell you all men cheat. Not all men cheat. I was with my ex for 10 yrs., he didn't cheat behind my back. Sounds like she has trust issues with men in general. I hope she figures it out soon that not all men in this world cheat. |
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chindaswintho
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Believe this as well then,
<<All women don't cheat>> |
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