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Two white parents, black kid?

My friends wife is white and their kids is black. Nothing against him, but he is white too.

How can I tell him that his wife has cheated on him?

He says that its his son and she would never cheat on him.

This confuses the s*** out of me.
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These have been my friends for years. She has told me that she has cheated.


Its just kind of heart breaking to have friends so close and the guy thinks the world of his wife and doesnt think that she cheats.

I don't want to tell, but he has this look in his eyes that seems to be screaming, "someone please tell me whats going on, its not fair for me to accuse"


    




jemmamomma
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Paternity test


Danielle S
Maybe he's got some black in him from back in the day and its coming out now.

Anyways, you can be blonde haired and blue eyed and have a black relative from back in the day.

Study genetics.


BabeHeart
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There may have been a black grandparent in there somewhere. If both sides of the family are white for 2 or 3 generations back, then the children should also be 'white'.

Perhaps this guy doesn't care. He has eyes so he can see the child and it's color and features. If he's willing to let the issue go, everyone else should also.


oh_jo123
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well it could be that he either knows and has learned to gorgive or that he could have a BLACK jean in him or in his family somewhere


Kaytee xx
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maybee he knows
but he just doesnt want to accept the fact hes not his father
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Princess Betty
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Ok, you should mind your business...maybe there is something you don't know about their situation. You don't live or sleep with them to judge anything. Respect your position and support him in whatever he decides.


nonameblonde
Why don't they do a paternity test? It's the only way to tell. It sounds like in his heart, he is this child's dad and that's all that really matters anyhow.


ndnqt1966
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Are you sure that the wife cheated on him? Perhaps he knows he isn't the biological father..but accepts him as his son anyways....


NT
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That does NOT mean that she's cheated on him. This actually has happened before. Yes I've seen it on Maury or Montel or something. Where the exact same thing was going on, the man was really upset and accused her of cheating.

Come to find out, years and years ago down the lineage of HER family her great great great great grandmother was black. The genes just finally became dominant instead of recessive. Causing all her babies to be black. It can happen.

Although he should have a paternity test done.

But its not up to you to tell him that his wife cheated. If he wants to be with her and doesn't want to believe it, thats his business!


casper
lol !! Anything is possible. And I'm sure he knows his child is black. What exactly are you suppose to be informing of? I must say "thank you" for your last sentence! It was cute! Got my laugh for the day!! Thanks again!!


† Anna †
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That reminds me of Me, Myself & Irene. I LOVE that movie!


mezwood
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LOL! Hey, if he can't figure this one out then there is no saving him. :)


islecya
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Ask them if they are redoing that sitcom where the black kids are adopted by rich white people...I forgot the name of it..You know the one with Gary Coleman.LOL


Angel
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Maybe he knows, that he cannot be the biological father since they are both white and the child is Black.

Another thing maybe they adopted this child, could be an explanation for why you are confused.

Never assume and never inter fer in things unless you are asked.

It really is not that confusing.


girlygirl
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Ever watch a movie called "me, myself, and irene?" Crazy.. I would just say leave it alone.


rollie_free
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Anybody that blind to the facts cannot be helped. Is he mentally disabled?


chas w
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HE ISNT STUPID SO WHY ARE YOU WORRYING FOR HE KNOWS AND HAS ACCEPTED IT SO MIND YOUR OWN DAMN BUSINESS.


magicalmemoriesphotography
oh i promise you he already knows, he and she just have apparently come to terms with whatever happened, if hte kid is black and both are white, they dont need you to tell them anything they know it all already


unique 39
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I can't see anywhere where this matter concerns you... If you really want to be a friend MYOB! you weren't there when that baby was conceived so you don't have exclusive knowledge about that babies race. In any event the man has stated the child is his and if he's satisfied with that you should be also.


punxsutawney phil
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You shouldn't have to tell him. How clever is he?


The One, The Only Krandazzo!
maybe he is color blind?


Erica, AKA Stretch
Adoption, Foster kid, Previous marriage or relations. Having children doesn't mean they child is biologically yours.

Also, if she cheated on him and he still feels the child is his...he will find out one way or another. Just leave the situation alone or ask the wife why the child doesn't look like them.


Ice Queen
I feel the same as some of the others, why even bother, if you say something, your friend may get mad and never speak to you again, I would leave things the way they are. Whats done in the dark , will come to light.


keiko
You know, this man and his wife are getting along fine. Why are you butting in? Do you want him to get all upset and divorce her and never see the child?

If he doesn't doubt her, you shouldn't be saying anything. She could have a black grandparent or parent you don't know about. She could have cheated. Please leave them alone.


GEORGIAMOM29
OK IS EITHER ONE OF THE PARENTS MIXED? SECOND IM A MIXED BLK WHT WOMEN LOOK BLACK MARRIED A WHITE MAN AND HAVE ALL WHITE CHILDREN ONE HAS RED HAIR BLUE EYES.YAKES AFTER MY WHITE MOTHER AND HIS WHITE FATHER AND MY OTHER DAUGHTER HAS BLONDISH BROWN HAIR WITH BLUE EYES SHE TAKES AFTER HER FATHER PEOPLE LOOK AT ME AND ASK IF IM SURE I HAD THEM SO IF HE IS HAVING DOUBTS TELL HIM TO GET A DNA TEST OTHER WISE IF HE IS NOT THEN I WOULD NOT WORRY WITH IT!


loriloriloriloriv
maybe there is some black blood in the family line?


green eyes
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well i think if you have noticed it so has he so you should just leave them alone if you cant except it than maybe you shouldnt be friends with them


Sunshine!
Myabe he already knows...it's not like it's not noticeable. It's not your place to tell





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