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WOMEN ONLY! How do you stay calm when..?

your husband/spouse only last 3 minutes in bed?? What can I do to make it last longer?He's only 24 and he say's that the reason it "happens" so quickly is because "it's just so damn good"...am I supposed to feel flatterd? I think it's selfish and a total turn off..but what can I do?? I've told him about it and it still didnt help.What next?


    




mrs michelle
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make him go down on you


physandchemteach
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You may want to talk to him about adding a "toy" to your love making. That way he can be part of the complete experience for you.


WISSEN IST ENERGIE!!!
Try New ways with him pactice more and if not
TRUST ME WHEN I Y TELL YOU! , you will get bored and always feel unsatisfied which will make you want to look elsewhere which means adultery and well then divorce and sad kids THINK ABOUT IT!!!

p.s.
I know you might think im overexaggerating but trust me its the truth TAKE IT OR LEAVE IT! : )


jupitor
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Same thing was happening with me and my guy, you have to teach him how to hold it, when he starts to feel it explode make him stop stroking and be still for a few minutes....each and everytime he gets ready to climax make him stop and wait for it to go back up. After a while he will get the idea and learn to control it himself, while he is waiting he has to continue the foreplay so that you don't turn cold while waiting. By the way...while waiting HE SHOULD NOT PULL OUT.....just stay there on top or where ever he is during this and wait it out. Give this a few months for him to get use to it....don't give up but he has got to be willing to do this or it won't work.


Mellisa C
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ahhhh that is tricky,,, sometimes i call my man the one minute man... he will laugh but in the back of my head i am thinking the same thing you are..
i am not sure what to do... my guys always tells me he can control it but only for so long so i need to tell him when i want him to last a bit longer.
good luck..


americandream1
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Well tell him its just not that damn good for you because you're just starting to heat up when he's finished already.


littlemama
Can you say Viagra!! JK but you might want to try slowing things down when you feel him getting too excited STOP!! Also try a little more foreplay for you. Good Luck!!


Empy
Tell him that from now on, he doesn't get to start until he's done something for you first.


crzyfiregirls
My soon to be EX had the same problem... Do other stuff first, (foreplay?!) That way you get yours, and then he can get his. If that doesnt work tell him to see a DR for some advice or to see if there is any additional problems.


margarita23
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selfish.......selfish;............he only thinks of him self first..............tell him to make you happy first and then he can do his 3 min one two three push in and out.but first you some men are selfish............and if you don't tell him there get worse.........


Alicia R
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id just talk to him more about it. make sure that he knows it insults you.


nita
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ice. build him up, let him down with ice. keep going until your ready to release. don't freeze him to death. but cool it down . good luck.


dragon44me
in adult toy catalogs there are creams that kinda numb the man. make them last longer. I would try that or tell him look you get me off before you get to do anything that way you are both happy


?
You both have to work on this problem. Get involved with some toys and that may help him.


Laea
There are a few things he can do, and you too..make sure you are taken care of first...also, he can learn how to control his problem...like doing it a bit, and then stopping for a few seconds while he calms down. Its frusterating I know, had the same problem and he gave the same reason, lol..I think they just get really excited and don't want to stop...Work with him on it, withdrawing for a few seconds will help him....Good luck to you!


Johnna L
Try getting on top of him - most men last longer when the woman is in charge!!


bor_rabnud
Lots of relaxants


Blackdog
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tell him to eat that thing





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