Was it wrong for me to say this to my husband?

missme

I am with you!!!!

you remind me of a joke

I'm not too sure how it goes but its about a couple recently married and the man takes of his trousers and hands them over to his new bride and tells her "put these on" and she tries but they fall off, so she says "well their too big i can't they fall off" and so he reply's "that's right and because of that you will never be the one wearing the pants in this family!!!"...so she takes of her panties and says "here try these on" so he slips them up but is only able to pull them up to his knees and tells her "I can't their too small..." and She Replies "that's right and you won't be able to get into my panties until you change your attitude"

Hahahahahahaha!!!!! .....Pretty funny no?!

But Inside I'm Screaming

Amen, sister!!!!

whataboutme

Go girl!!! You are so right..

Big B

You speak it, girl!

shirokuma

He should reread his marriage vows. It's all there. The question is, If there was one apple to eat for dinner, would he eat all of it, share half, or let you have the whole apple? In a good marriage, one partner can recognize the needs of the other.

Ali L

Well he might have a divorce, but you are right, you should tell him that. I have one question though is he a member on yahoo answers?

Coop

Good for you! I'm always impressed by strong women!

CluelessOne

Not a thing!!!! You go girl. He obviously hasn't cut the apron strings yet and his mother must have a serious problem if she doesn't tell him to grow up, be a man and go HOME!!! His REAL HOME!!

Sheesh.........no offense they sound like losers.

Msdeb gee

tell him that you 2 r supose 2 be 1 by marriage and if
hes not gonna b a husbandthen hes just a son and your not responsible for him grow up and b a man i have 3 sonss if one of them did this to there wifes id hurt them!!

mimi22

You go girl! You are right. Stand strong!

oldsoftee2001

sounds reasonable to me.

tesla_styx

No. This sounds perfectly fine to me. Seems he should be able to support himself regardless of where he is living. He's not an underage child is he?

JUNONNKI

If he is living at his mother's then he isn't being your husband. Don't give him anything until he acts like your husband.

Wizzard2

Well Jay Bird

You didnt tell us why he's living there, but is suyre sounds as though this marrage is all but over. Stop arguing with him and plan your life and your future/

sjwest74

I gotta say how did you marry the guy and Not see the extra tit in his mouth.I guess you were going to change him huh.Well now you're seeing that ain't happening and trying to bail.I don't blame you mammas boys are lame to begin with,but next time you pick a mate try not to pick someone so far down on the evolutionary ladder .

Littlemissy

I guess that the two of you don't live together???? I'm a little confused, but the money should be shared between the both of you. But I understand where you're coming from. He stays with his mom?????????????/ WOW that's weird.

josempolo

No, is correct. Talk with him, to be a man, but be gentle how you said that. But must of the problem is his mother, because she must avoid to give money to her married son. A dificult situation, but be strong. Does he have a job or not?

Dirk Diggler

Stop crying. Be a women and hold on to the only man that will ever accept you.

onelonevoice

if your married he is your husband, if he is staying with his mom,you should not be paying for anything. She is not his wife cause he is there, unless you think he is sleeping with her. get together with him and work out your differences. otherwise divorce him and leave him with momma.

jacemo

it is not wrong. actually i think that is the best explanation i've ever heard.

Happy Hippy

I don't think it's wrong, I think it's funny as hell. Why does your husband have to ask you for money anyway?

L96vette

While I understand your feelings, there are more tactful ways of approaching the situation.

I would highly recommend that the two of you seek some counseling, preferably with a Church pastor. Don't just make it a b*tch session, but calmly examine your issues.

Remember your vows: FOR BETTER OR FOR WORSE UNTIL DEATH DO US PART.

plinky

you are on the right track, give him final statement, do not let him come home until he can stands on his own, and act as a man.

joy

Sounds good to me. Why are you married?You know how I feel about mommy's boys. I like the be a man part. you go girl

Lyrical Goddess

Tell him again!!! He shouldn't have married you if he wanted to live with his mother. Let him cook his meals, and wash his clothes, and clean up after his messy self. Shooooot.... less work for you.

misydoll

No, you did not do anything wrong. Make him stand on his two feet.

BrooklynQT

you are correct. At least I think so Im sure the mom wont agree.

pamela f

Hi. I completely agree with what you said to him. It does make me wonder why he's living there to begin with. It sounds like your problems are very serious and you might want to think about calling it a day. He may always go running back to mommy and you don't need that - no one does. I hope it all works out for the best for you. :)

BabyDaniel

No of course not he does need to start becoming a man and stop being a mommas boy. Your his wife and he needs to devote his time to you not his mother. Your his wife not her. And you shouldn't be the one supporting him (if you are) he should support you. Think of what kind of father he will be to your children (if you plan on having, or have). You need to be harsh so he can learn. The truth hurts.

luke b

you go sister

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