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WhY DiD MY HUSBAND ASK ME THIS?

The other night, I asked my husband if he would take some provacative pictures of me doing dtuff to him. He seemed to really enjoy it! Of course, after we got through, he deleted them. One time I sent a picture of my (as Oprah says) Va Jay Jay to him and I put "wish you were here" in the title. He acts like he really REALLY likes it. However, the other night, after we got through with the picture taking he asked me "you didnt feel uncomfortable did you" OF COURSE I WASN't Why would he ask me this?

p.s. please don't call me a wh*** we are married, I don't walk to street corners


    




arothman.com
He's just being considerate... guys are pretty thick headed, and even if it was your idea he may still be surprised that you wanted to do it and may be just double-checking that you didn't do it only because you thought he'd like it.


Kim
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he probably just felt a little awkward and it made him feel better to make sure. maybe he thinks that you are doing it solely to please him and he felt guilty.


Robert
How many guys will ask "Can I see the pictures"?


Honeybunches♥
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maybe he was uncomftorable with it and just put on an act for you
sit down and talk to him


Soon to be married
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Maybe he feels uncomfortable with it?


ziggy_brat
He might have been uncomfortable with it and was hoping you were so he wouldn't have to do them again.


MATTHEW B
maybe he is just worried that you are only doing it for him, or maybe he is worried that you will send them to someone else


xxpwincesskiokaxx
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Maybe u don'y plz him enough or you really didn't look comfortable or how he would have liked in the pictures.


Jane
What you did was awesome for your husband.

He was just be considerate of your feelings..... that's all.

Keep up the good work.

Glad you have open communication about your ********


annie
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he probable thought you were doing it for him only. and if u were, good for you, and if u were doing it for you too, good for you. =) did you tell him that you don't mind as long as they dont get out of his or your hands? that its something you enjoy doing because it makes it more exciting for the both of you? dont let it bother you....maybe invite him to take pics again so he knows you arnt just doing it for him, but rather doing it for the both of u. maybe ask to take pics of him doing things to u too?


Valerie X Atheists Hate Me LOL!
You really don't know the answer to your own question???

You must be joking.


Kris
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He was probably just asking you this to make sure you didn't do something you didn't want to do. he was just looking out for you!


kittykat
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Maybe he only thought you were doing it for him and wanted to make sure you enjoyed it to


Louie Liverlips
Maybe he was concerned he had you twisted up too much.


Vicki
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HE DOES NOT WANT TO SHARE WITH OTHERS IN CASE OTHERS SAW THESE.


Celtic_Princess
It sounds like he's just looking out for you. Not many men have wives who are willing to do things like this for them. He probably feels spoiled and wants to make absolutely sure that you are really okay with it. He may be checking just because, or maybe you said something or made a face that made him think you may be uncomfortable. Either way it was really sweet of him to ask.


Roninjitsu
his friends have seen the pictures...


Flapjack Joe
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maybe he felt guilty about liking it. the bedroom is a sanctuary of bared emotion and vulnerability. he probably just needs to be reassured that what went on was acceptable. just keep gradually discussing and introducing facets into your marital exchange and keep giving him good feedback. cheers.


hot rod
You're very bold and not very informed about the internet.

Did you know that your picture can be intercepted on the net and then spread around or used to blackmail you.

Stop taking pics of yourselves and protect your security. There's actually a 2 sites right now collecting pictures of people and amassing a huge database as we speak. One is f e d e r a l, and the other is not so private.


S. S
It might be because sometimes he feels uncomfortable so ask and see what he says


Spooog
he asked because maybe its a new thing for the both of you, hes just making sure you are comfortable which is really sweet and responsible of him. You are really lucky, dont be alarmed.


Sureno
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I really need to see the pictures before I can give you my answer.


ultrason_5
You just never know whos hands these pic might land into. You might just get blackmailed someday, if anything would happen, in your marriage. Your husband deleted them so this would not happen, and he doesn't want to share you with anybody else.


C_DOGG
Sounds like you are taking Multitasking to a whole new level!


Bryanna
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well if your usually not that kinky you probably shocked him a little


jan_and_devin
Maybe he was a little uncomfortable. Stuff like that is viewed as being nasty. By society in general I guess. Even though some of us really enjoy it, we sometimes still feel as if we are doing something wrong. I don't think you have anything to worry about.


Fubes
What goes on in your bedroom should be between you and your husband not the whole world, ask him why he asked it lol





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