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ok so the other day i was gonna make dinner and my kids wanted spaghetti and my husband wanted mac&cheese so i told him id make the spaghetti noodles in the pot(yeah i only have one good pasta pot) and the mac in the microwave but he got all pissed and wanted me to make the spaghetti in the microwave which takes a while so i said no ill make the mac&cheese in the microwave and he walked over grabbed the pot and spit in it and said make it now so what would u do if ur spouse did this


    




Winter L
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First, my husband would NEVER put himself before the kids. If he feels that his needs are more important than that of the children you have a huge problem. I would start by taking the kids out to eat and then telling him to f**kin fend for himself (and in all honesty, I would have hit him with the pot he spit in). Second, if this isn't the first time he's pulled crap like that, get rid of him. Your children are the most precious things you will ever have in your life. Don't let your husband treat them in such a way. Not to negate the disrespect he has shown you by doing this, but any so called man (and I use the term loosely) would never EVER take food from a child's mouth or even feel the need to eat before them. I am sorry that you and your children have to deal with such nonsense.

Good luck


leann
are you serious? he sounds like an as*! i don't think i'd be cooking for him at all until he appologized.


goddess
I would cook him some mac n cheese with some spit in it. LOL


angel86
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somehow i don't think his problem is the food situation. is there any other problems happening lately. What is going on with his work. You may want to go to counseling. I dont believe any husband in their right mind would do such a thing


ling
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Big trouble in little China


Kat
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I wouldn't put up with it..he is being controlling and trying to make you do what he wants and not whats easier or better for you..


nancy_aguirre3
what the hell are u doing with a guy like this??? hes so disrespectful! dont put up with that sh*t.....


secondhanddan
well my wife wood have hit me with the pot spit on me then went to bed


Mitch
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... sorry but, he doesnt sound like a very good husband and doesnt put you or his children first. I would leave him or see a marriage counsiler, if he agrees...


tweety
Sounds very immature .Tell him to take a big boy pull and grow up his children comes 1st. And second he would be making his own mac cheese if he did that sh_it to me.


only 1 me
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LEAVE he's crazy


Greg
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Leave this guy he obviously doesn't respect you.


Sicko
Hit the pot in his head and than divorce him he has no respect for you or his children.


K
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i would want to throw it in his face and spit in his face and never make him dinner again-he was being so childish-you were making 2 different things to make everyone happy-take his credit card and spend a few hundred on pots and pans





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