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What's the best (non violent) way in seeking revenge on a cheating partner?

Recently discovered my wife has been having an affair with a work colleuge. We have since split-up. How can I get my own back, any suggestions? Murder is NOT an option. (Although contimplated)


    




Bluebells21
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When someone has done something that it totally wrong; they are EXPECTING a big reaction. The worse kind of revenge is actually when you DO NOTHING AT ALL............leaves them stuck with it; forever..
Being ignored totally is the worse kind of punishment ever. I know you will be torn with feelings to DO SOMETHING but don't give in to it; move on with the speed of light; that will stick it to her more than any other single thing.
Good luck with the REST OF YOUR LIFE.....!


luvlifeshell
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just be happy if she sees you being happy then she will not like the fact that you are doing well without her believe me it works happiness is the best revenge


Edward J
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Laugh it off. Carry on with your life & make her see what she lost.


oldman
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Why bother? I know how you feel be there done that....Ohhhh and how I wanted to hurt her the way she hurt me! But you know what it goes away in time......don't fall down to her level.....you know what REALLY gets them!? Is when you get on with your life...and your happy....Fake it for a while if you have to but THAT is the BEST revenge of all.....you are HAPPY WITHOUT THEM!
Ever hear the expression love your enemies it will kill them? Use it!
Good luck


Kendra
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The best revenge you can give her is to smile each time you see her, let her know your life is going great and you're making this fresh new start count. Nothing drives someone that hurts you like that madder. Trust me, to do revenge only puts you at their level, and they'll only meet you in it. Be the better person, it truly will rub salt in her wounds.


eddie
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ok I understand what your feeling I have been there. Revenge is not the answer mate it will only dig at you deeper and deeper. You have now got a great way of improving you life cause she was not the right one for you and if she wants to cheat on you then she's not worth it. I know you arn't gonna take this in but when your with the real one you love just think back and see how much more happier you are.
All the best mate.


MrsMike
The best revenge is to live a good life and not care about her anymore. Let it go and move on with your life. Find someone else and be happy. As long as you have that in your heart you will not be able to find love or happiness (and she has) - besides what goes around comes around.....let fate take care of her for what she did to you.


Amy A
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Tell her that you tested positive for HIV. That will get her heart pumping. What a horrible woman! So sorry that happened to you. God bless


alinbedi
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Leave her alone, there are lots and lots of nice girls looking for sincere partners. I believe you are one of loyal one's...you'll get better than what you had.


Robert
let it go, what goes around, comes around.


dianafpacker
don't.. best way is to hold your head high and move on with your life.. she may be expecting a reaction.. don't give one.. honest revenge is a dish best not served at all.


wanda h
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BE THE BETTER PERSON AND JUST WALK AWAY, SHE DONE ENOUGH DAMAGE.


on the wagon
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put her name on here


timidlady2003
I say find someone who you can be happy with. Let her see your glow with another person. It will eat her up to know that there is someone else who can make you smile. Just because she doesn't seem to want you right now does not mean she wants anyone else to have you either. If she sees that you are happy with someone else she will wonder why you didn't smile so big when you were with her. It will make her question herself. She will see that she is not perfect either.


Just Dance!
date her best friend! haha


mr_scotsguy
The best revenge you can ever have is to move on, find someone better and live happily ever after. Remember this one simple thing though. Once a cheater, always a cheater. So in the end she will be on the recieving end of what she did to you. Forget her and move onmate. I know, i've been there...............


newt_peabody
The best ways all include violence.

Sorry.


~♥Aimee♥~
will it really make u feel any better?? I doubt it.


joy
Does she have a sister? Best Friend ? Just kidding. Go have your own fun, and send her the pics.


ajsad36
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You are right murder is not an option and shouldn't even be contemplated. Try getting everything you can out of the divorce for starters. Find someone else to go out with, let her see you in public together and see how happy you are. Treat this other girl better than you did her. That should really piss her off. Is any of her stuff at the house? If so, give it to someone else. Have fun!


CHRIS
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Rise above it, let it go, live well and do not look back.


funredheadpartygirl
There's not! Sorry man.


Vaz
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From a womans point of view, the best thing you can do, is to be as nice as nine pence!

It will bug her so much! She will be expecting some sort of pay back in another form, but if you are just cool, calm and collected when you see her, she will MORE sorry for what she has done and wonder why the hell she did it.

Keep the anger and rage inside, it will disipate with time. Move on and get someone nice in your life who will not treat you like that again. No-one deserves to be cheated on, especially when you are married.


famRaa
Keep pacewith yourself ! she won the affairs , but lost her special life, she will sorrow soon I think so


tashiana t
best thing to tell you is to give it to god let her go own cause carma is a b****.


Bodieann
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Hi Bont 11. check out my question on Revenge, there's some funny answers in there, also check out what I did to someone.

It's not violent, I agree violence is not the option, you just want to do something that makes you feel better, and something you can laugh about later.... you gat any pic of her in compromising positions???? Flog them on ebay, that way you also get money for your troubles....


Emily Hobhouse
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What goes around, comes around. When my husband turned up telling me he'd made a mistake, I said "it's too late!" She'll probably regret what she's lost and that is your revenge.


icey_deadpeople
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do what women do to men. divorce her and take her for every penny she has, and the house, the kids, the pets, the car. tell her new man that you forgave all her bad habits and then list every one ( and add a few ). get her mobile and dial a foreign speaking clock service, leave for as long as possible. have a mutual friend find out where she will be and "just happen to be there", with a much younger woman, doesn't need to be a girlfriend just as long as your ex thinks it is.


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