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What's the worst thing about your husband or bf you've never been able to change?



    




cantankerousoldlady
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dribbling on the floor by the toilet. Think i'll leave him.


tink
that he refuses to acknowledge that I'm his wife not his mother. He's 43 and immuture. I was blind


kutty_paiyan2001
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Maleness!


Thrice
He wears his pants about 2 inches below the top of his *ss crack and walks around the house like that. All the time, everyday. It's gross! I pick on him every time, but the ape just laughs!!!!


Royalhinney
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Getting him to take responsibilities seriously...ANY responsibilities.


Princess B
PRIDE . . . . .To much of this crap can kill a relationship but no-one can change a person, only they can do that job and oh yeah - - - -GOD. Thats his job. . . . .


Icewomanblockstheshot
I may have a different definition of 'worst'. It isn't really a bad thing, although it concerns me:

He has me on a very high pedestal.

I do my best to politely, gently, respectfully add reality to the situation. It's a little tough.

He's a lot younger than I am, and I was his 'first', so I guess that's where it comes from.

I love the respect, I just want his view of me to be a bit less idealized.


piepiepie
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He is constantly telling me pieces of trivia without context and then drones on and repeats himself. Right now, he's telling me about the chemical properties of mercury. It's annoying, but I also like that about him until he repeats himself, then it's like "Yea, I got it the first time. Just because I don't have anything meaningful to add or I just don't care, doesn't mean that I didn't understand or remember."

There's nothing I wish I could change. Change is a personal choice.


Mean Carleen
your not suppose to try to change people damnit


ERICKSMAMA
Him being stupid at the worng time..I mean we go places and he acts like a kid when he should be an adult. Hopefully he will grow out of it.


SO N2 ME
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My husband always leaves his hair after shaving around the sink, and what's funny is when I go in the bathroom behind him and tell him he didn't clean after himself he always seems surprised!


meoverhere!
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he never pick up behind his self..he's lazy and it drives me crazy! at one time i was considering leaving him over this (it was that bad) and i told him so..since then he has gotton a little better.


Jeevan Kumar Mittal, 1956
Why to change? Allow him to enjoy life. My wife is intereted in tea. I am not interested in tea. She is trying hard to give me. This is rape. You do as per your need.
Manchaha karo and manchaha karne do.


Courtney T
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lying and his bad hygiene


chmar11
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his temper


*sarah*
he pee's on the toilet seat and doesnt clear it up! it right annoys me


Lady in Red
He never comes back when he says he's going to. It's not that he's gone longer, like I need him with me, but he doesn't even call to tell me. I'm not talking like a half hour, I mean sometimes 4 and 5 hours. This especially makes me mad when he's out drinking with buddies. He'll say, I'll be home about midnight. Here he comes at 5 a.m. puking on the back steps. He hasn't done this in a while, so maybe he's finally growing up - maybe. Also, his spending habits. He never thinks about all the little things that have to go out between paychecks that can't be paid ahead, like my gas expense (I have a 55 mile commute to work each day) or the oops-we're-out-of-diapers situations, or groceries. AAAHHHHH. So, when we need money for necessities right before a paycheck, it's not there.


DragonGurl
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My answer is about my ex-husband, and the answer is the reason he's my ex.

Alcoholic, paranoid, control freak.


Hongisacunt
The fact that he obviously cant tell the time, if he could, he would have been home an hour ago like he said he would be!!! GGRRRRRRRrrrr!


suzlaa1971
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The only bad thing is that he's a procrastinator, but I've learned it runs in his family!!!!


John Q
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you can't change people... oh sure.... you can say I don't like it when you drink and maybe they will stop, but leave and I bet they are drinking and when they are around you and think boy, I am an adult, I sure would like a beer to relax and can't then they say gee i sure resent my gf/wife and if you ever break up they will go back to it.


lucky13
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bf..is selfish.


Tono's gurl!
My boyfriend snores... He thinks he has to have a beer when he comes home from work or is sick! And I also live with my sister and my sisters b/f and he is jus soooo anoying! when he takes a shower he doesnt turn the shower off so when u go to take a shower n u turn on the water the shower comes on to!!! It makes me soooo MAD!!!


♥Xty♥
He keeps using my deodorant. It just freaks me out when I see long man hairs on the stick. SO GROSS!!!!!


`Avenging~ghetto~bird`
not a lot of things
lying about past gf
won't let me search his phone but he wants to search mine
thinking it's that time of month y I'm angry at him
not trusting me will hot guys cause he knows lots of boys like me


tobeyp2005
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Constant chattering/talking.


angeleyez1956@verizon.net
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you should not want to change anyone


whatever2006
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his bad language...the "F" bomb comes out all the time...although, he doesn't say "GD" any more...go me!!! He's still a work in progress even after 15 years!!


jrhod263
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he is a little bit furry.





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