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What's with all the answers to questions from people with no experience on the subject?

I realize that this is America, and that in yahoo Q and A you feel you have the right to answer any question you want. And that's great. God bless America! But that also gives ME the right to complain! So here goes.....

Why do people with absolutely no experience on a subject, answer questions? When you ask a question about a cheating spouse or lazy husbands, why do twenty something people who've never been married think they have the answer? I always crack up at the one line answers to serious questions that read "leave and find somebody better." As if that's a solution to ANY marital problem! And this doesn't apply to just marriage/divorce, but to ANY question.

So I guess my point is that if somebody wants your OPINION then give it to them. But if you really don't have any actual experience on the subject, then maybe you should shut up and move on! The world might be a better place if we all stopped talking out of our arses! Sound good?
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HA HA HA! I can;t believe how so many of you are becoming unglued with this question! Cracks me up! Seems to me that maybe I struck a nerve? Like I said....if you believe you have the right to pull answers out of your buttt's on questions you know very little about, then don't get mad at me for calling you out on it! But hey....thanks for proving my point! Glad to see that some of you have a pulse after all!


    




Steelegrave
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All I have to say is 296 yds rushing!

Sorry man I had too.


greengrass44444
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He sits in your room, his tomb, with a fist full of tacks
Preoccupied with his vengeance
Cursing the dead that can't answer him back
I'm sure that he has no intentions
Of looking your way, unless it's to say
That he needs you to test his inventions.

Can you please crawl out your window?
Use your arms and legs it won't ruin you
How can you say he will haunt you?
You can go back to him any time you want to.

He looks so truthful, is this how he feels
Trying to peel the moon and expose it
With his businesslike anger and his bloodhounds that kneel
If he needs a third eye he just grows it
He just needs you to talk or to hand him his chalk
Or pick it up after he throws it.

Can you please crawl out your window?
Use your arms and legs it won't ruin you
How can you say he will haunt you?
You can go back to him any time you want to.

Why does he look so righteous while your face is so changed
Are you frightened of the box you keep him in
While his genocide fools and his friends rearrange
Their religion of the little ten women
That backs up their views but your face is so bruised
Come on out the dark is beginning.

Can you please crawl out your window?
Use your arms and legs it won't ruin you
How can you say he will haunt you?
You can go back to him any time you want to.



Copyright © 1965;


Jonny B
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Those who cannot do, teach.


rainingkryssie
everyone wants to believe they know everything.


mikk
Freedom of Speech and God Bless America!!!!


dark eyes
First of all, if you really want/need a serious answer to your question, you probably shouldn't be expecting it to come to you from Yahoo! Q & A. I agree that a lot of the answers are short, sarcastic and without experience or knowledge, but a lot of them do know what they're talking about...so, I suggest that you bypass the short sarcastic answers and move on to the ones that do answer with knowledge and experience. CHILL OUT.


JusMe
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First of all Yahoo answers is not just for the USA just remember that.
Secondly as we get older we gain experience and knowledge. We don't all have to go through the experiences we comment on but can gain knowledge about them.
After all not many of us have walked on the moon but we can all get a feeling of what it would be like to do so from those who have done so.
Just because a woman has never had a lazy husband doesn't mean she cannot give accurate comment on one from the fact that her husband is not lazy.
Negative experiences can be understood by those who have positive ones.


bestadvicechick
I think you have a good point. I've definitely been guilty of what you're saying. I've never been cheated on a day in my life. In fact, every man I've ever dated has treated me like a princess. But I'm a strong, independent woman and so I feel strongly towards and about those women who are staying in r'ships that are clearly abusive. I don't have to have been cheated on to understand how incredibly hurt that I would feel and that it's an ultimate betrayal. I usually don't tell people to leave unless it's obvious that neither is willing to give 100% to making the r'ship better. You can't improve a r'ship on your own....you have to have the cooperation of the other person as well or it's useless, not to mention, very unfair.

I've also commented on people's issues with their kids even though I don't have any children of my own. I'm not speaking out of experience of being a parent but rather of having been a child and understanding the manipulations that teenagers put out there. My parents were very, very good parents and so I give advice based on what they did. I have very strong ideas about how kids should be raised - mainly, I think our country is spoiling the little sh*ts to death to their OWN detriment. But like you said, those are MY opinions and I don't claim to be either a marriage counselor or a child therapist.

Here's a rant of my own: I hate it when people come on here looking for answers that would best be answered by PROFESSIONALS instead of complete strangers. Like all the divorce questions that pertain to the LAW....like YA is the best place to be getting legal advice? Come on!


Drav
1. You chose Yahoo.com, instead of professional help.
2. There is a rating system...you don't have to read all the answers.
3. If it is marital....and they did cheat....Why did you marry them in the first place?


Denis B
Well for starters......remember, this is YA. Why would you expect expert advise here, that would be your first mistake.
Don't be so up tight about what goes on here, it's your choice to be on here.....if you don't like what you get, then don't ask. If you don't like what you read, then don't read.......it's all on you.
Later.........


jtbrick1208
Drew,

I understand your feelings. But at the same time, the person asking the question should be smart enough to evaluate the answers.

Do you really think someone who asks about a cheating spouse will leave them because someone wrote "You're better off without him"??

They are more likely to listen to someone who tells them they have the experience and this is what they did.

The best thing to do with one line answers is ignore them. And I think anyone who asks a question on here is intelligent enough to do that.


free_angel
It's a free country and people can say what they want where no expertise is required. If you don't like it....Bite me.


PokerPlayer
It amazes me that you asked such a dumb question, if people wanted professional advice they would seek it and not ask for opinions on here.

People know that they are only getting an opinion on a subject.

You are stupid and that's my opinion.


burning brightly
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Some where sometime someones ar se is going to solve your problem ~~


angel
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By every one giving answers, whether they have experience or not, this is giving many different points of view, some times people with out any experience on the subject have the better answer.


Yummy♥Mummy
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First off, some of aren't american so you just made a wrong assumption, see it can happen. Some people think and act on their own devices b/c that's just what we do. It's human nature.


Loh
It's amusing.....i think. vent on!!


DatDrMaHeLuvs
I obsolutely agree with you!!! I honestly hate the fact that people come in here telling others to just divorce or something when divorce should be held as a last resort when nothing else fixes the problem....


ndnqt1966
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Like you said...we all are free to give our opinion and it matters not that we have experience....I just simply ignore responses from people with no or little experience...or those that suggest leaving a relationship and find someone else....People are going to answer anyways and there is no way stopping them.....I personally don't give advise to someone if they are asking advise from those with experience...unless I in fact do have experience....

This isn't a place to ask for professional advise anyways....for the most part....it is made up of opinions....


867-5309 "Jenny"
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You really don't want my two cents on the subject, do you Drew? Go chargers!!!


cooter726
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Sometimes, short and right to the point is all the answer some people need. Others beat it to death with long, boring, bla,bla bla answers.


diablo
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You said it yourself! It's there OPINION. Just because they don't have experience doesn't mean they can not give there OPINIONS!!!!! That's the whole point in this game; Duh!


avidlyalive
Let's see..you name yourself " Drew Blood" and you are yelling at everyone else? Hmmmm...things that make ya go "hmmmmm".


Sabres Girl
I agree with you. There is one exception in my opinion, those who have had even family or friends that have dealt with the situation may be able to answer the question. (Depending on what the question is)

Also, I think it should be said in the question or the explanation part of the question "Please give your opinions" if that is whats wanted.

If an individual is answering the question with the fact that a friend or family member has dealt with a similar 0r the same situation, they should SAY "my mother went though a similar thing" or "my uncle did the same thing to my aunt" etc.

People answer these questions because they believe they know what they are talking about. Its just something that eveyone has done before. I am sure I have, I didn't mean to. (I make sure I word myself the best I can so that people can understand what I am asking)

Anyway, great question. Good luck with it and have a great day!


danashelchan
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It seems people will never turn down an opportunity to display how stupid they are!!!

The phrase "when in doubt, shut up" seems to hold no meaning to them.

I like the saying "It is better to remain silent and be thought a fool, than to speak and remove all doubt".

You are hilarious, and my type of thinker. That's a compliment, in my world.


lvbrdy4vr
I feel the same way,but people are still going to put their immature answers up. I hate when I ask a serious question and people reply with stupid remarks. It's like you said,it's a free world!!


Older Guy
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Well I guess they should send all questions directly to you because YOU have ALL the answers....ha ha ha....ROTFALMAOATHDA!!!!


Mele Kai
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" I can't recall."

If you removed the bottom half of the "food chain" here? hmmm
may be higher numbers, yet what do numbers matter? It's those darn two points by golly ! And idiots make the world go round. WE got enough bananas around ! How to cut the cord? Wish I knew. All sounds good to me !
TGIF aloha


laura1977
Because just because I don't have a piece of paper saying that I am married doesn't mean that I have no clue about love and how to deal with someone that you love. It also doesn't mean that I am talking out of my a**. The best advice comes from MANY different sources and a smart person will make sure that they have a very well rounded gamut of information before they make a snap decision. I've received some of the BEST advice from people that have an outside view. Often those that don't have that exact experience are the ones that can offer the most un-biased rational opinion.

You have the right to complain, others have the right to voice their opinions.


Michael M
I am very sympathetic to what you are saying. But, this IS the internet, so I guess we have to expect a certain amount of nonsense in the replies to serious questions. We just have to wear our high boots as we wade through to find the answers that are worth reading.





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