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What Should Do About A Husband Whom I am Divorcing, is Cheatin on his new women...Speak Up or Just Let It Fly?
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What Should Do About A Husband Whom I am Divorcing, is Cheatin on his new women...Speak Up or Just Let It Fly?

I lived with him as a roommate so I can get back on my feet from 4 yrs of him supporting me. but his women kept calling me and threatening me...I knew about him sleepin with 3 other people (including me cause after he is my husband) and his new found gf. I was thinking of telling her but I figured she wouldnt beleive me so I just chose to stay quiet. He doesnt need to hurt anyone else, it aint right! leave some answers please


    




Sandylynn
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Since you're divorcing him, he's no longer your problem. Let someone else find out what you already know about him. Move on with your life. He's not worth your time. You deserve better. <*)))><


coorissee
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If you're divorcing him, LET IT BE! Don't interfere in someone else's business. If he's out of your life emotionally, why stir the pot? If you can do it with a clear conscience, so be it, but it sounds as if you have too much of a history together, and since that's the case, let it be. You're right, she won't believe you. Why be the bearer of bad news? She's only gonna blame the messenger. Let her find out for herself. No one's gonna blame YOU for HIS actions. Is that what you're worried about?


Skitzed Inc.
RUN....don't WALK ...AWAY!!!!


amace020
You sound like a vindictive b*tch.

As such, go ahead and cut his balls off.

Gotta be true to yourself....


jwatson7307
LET IT FLY GIRL... WHY DO WANT MORE DRAMA IN YOUR LIFE>??? WAVE GOOD BYE AND GET ON WITH YOUR LIFE... LET HIS OTHER WOMEN DEAL WITH HIS SH*T!!!!


Creature
Only speak-up if your attorney says it will help you with your divorce. Otherwise, let it go and move-on.


?
Huh! why are you still with him..#@$%^&*.


Jo
If they knew he was married and still was sleeping with him they already know right? You shouldn't waste anymore of your time on him.Get yourself together and get on with your life,don't look back!


casey54
if you are getting a divorce, it isn't your business. So, why cause trouble just for revenge. It sounds like he makes enough trouble for himself withot any help.


angelminxgirl
I would tell her. You've got nothing to lose, right? She can choose to appreciate the fact that you are trying to help her out, or she can choose not to believe you if she wants to live in denial. At least you will be giving her the choice of knowing. Wouldn't you have wanted someone to tell you? I know I would.


osidebrandon
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if you really dont care about him than you shouldnt care about his other hoes!what you dont go out and get laid by other guys?and if you were with other guys do you think it would be right for your ex to tell them??drop it!


crickt19
tell her. what's the worse that can happen? at least you did the right thing.


a parent hows been there !!
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hi well youre one lucky woman to be getting rid of this slime ball ,tell the latest g.f after her calling you and threatening you ,they both deserve each other and to be honest i'd be tempted to say to them both good luck ,and under my breath i'd be saying youre going to need it ,he was married to you and playing away ,he had you and youre love and throw it back in youre face let that pair get on with it and you move on with youre life and im sure you will find a great gut that will be faithful to you and be happy together good luck take care X


BusyOldBag
I would tell her if I was you. I'm sure she would appreciate it if you did. She probably wouldn't believe you at first but you don't have anything to lose in this. She is not your friend. It doesn't sound like you have a great relationship with her anyway.


Spielberg
speak up cuz he sounds like an a$$ that should not be able to get wit n e 1!!!


Big Daddy
let it fly.....like the dixie chicks say.


Gaby A
You will only look like a bitter ex trying to get back at him. leave it alone, she will eventually find out on her own.


jeezmeneti66
None of your business really. I would keep my mouth shut because your mouth is your worst enemy!


charlesjerrell
stick to ur divorce, let other people find out on there own, like u said they wouldnt believe u anyway, and why would u sleep with him knowing hes a cheat, thats kinda strange to


tootsieroll1965
i think u still love him,why else stay there?tell the other women.he is slum.get out of there...


Awesome Bill - Union 2010
Let it go.


arkay
just ignore, come out and leave peacefully, wish u all the best


moonspawnhotmailcom
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Well you still live with him right/ Then get him to tell her. It's not up to you to do it.


listenup_yall
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She would never believe you .... She would just think that you were not wanting to let go of your husband . Also , girl you need to stop sleeping with him , that is unless you want to catch something nasty from him... Hey , if your going to catch something nasty---> do you really want to catch it from someone with whom your relationship is already over with? Atleast it could be with someone who might stay with you , so you two can be funky together!Someone that you would actually be getting something out of being with . Not just someone that you happen to be giving it up to , but hey , so is 2 or 3 other people.


Sweety
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what the heck do you care anyway now..really, be happy you divorced to be happy...not to dramatize still...if they wanna be fd up let them be fd up...does it really affect you personally? if not...then let it go!


Tami T
leave it alone if no one told you why tell her?


?
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No, not your business. Let it go. You have nothing to prove here, nothing to gain. The wrong word, the wrong confrontation can result in a lifetime of hurt. Let it go.


kiawah222
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IT'S NONE OF YOUR BUSINESS. You need to move on and take care of yourself. You are divorcing him and technically that means you are no longer the keeper of his private life. If one of the ladies approaches you, then that's a different story. Tell all in that case. But it's not up to you to help those women. They probably know what they're getting into and choose to ignore the facts. He's crap and the best thing you can do is get as far away from him as possible. I just hope you don't have any kids with this poor excuse for a 'man'...then that would just complicate things so much more. And by the way, stop sleeping with him...there's no telling what he's going to give you or has already given you (STDs!!!!)...and using a condom doesn't protect you as much as you might think...although it's better than using nothing with an unfaithful partner.

to sum it up...he's somebody else's problem now...get some counseling and a new way to spend your time so you can move on for your own sake.

hope that helps.


dani.s
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not your problem now, just be glad your out of it, and its not you its happening to this time,


Tiffany C
I think she has the right to know, tell her. If she doesn't believe you then let it go, but you should at least tell her.





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