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What age were you when you got married?
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What age were you when you got married?

and how did you know that they were the "one"?


    




iaoei M
got married for the first time when i was 18 was divorced by the time i was 20 Then I got married again when i was 22 and im now going through my second divorce im 24 now. You dont ever know that there the one you just take a chance and if it doesn't work then it doesn't work but i'll never have any regrets because I wouldn;t be who i am today if I'd never got married to either of them.


copswife
I was 30yrs old when I married my soul mate.......but that was after spending 10 years with the wrong man and 4 years on my own. I had a lot of learning on my side when I met my current husband and I feel that it really helped with my maturity and growth when we got together. But on the purely romantic side of things, I just knew that I would spend the rest of my life with him, I had never ever felt so loved completely in my life other that with him. On the day we married, as I stood in the back room in the church waiting for my father to come and tell me that they were ready for me to walk down the isle. I had a few minutes to myself, I was so calm so at peace with the decision, I was not in the least bit nervous or scared, I knew because I had absolutely no questions in my mind or heart that I was defiantly making the right decision. There was absolutely no question that he was the one that I would be for the rest of my life. I know it sounds cliche' but you just know.


Gossip81
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23 yrs old dec 2004


p.1953
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31, 21years married and you don't.


laura
I was 17 when we got together and we married when I was 21. I'm now 27 and we separated last year. He wasn't "the one". More like my best friend.


marcus v
12..................


katydid
dated for a year..got married at 18...now six beautiful children and 18 years later..still together!


L P
18, and still am married 14 years later.


mizsinister
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16 he wasn't...


janey
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I was 27 yrs.


clare.h
i got married on my 21st birthday, had my 4th child with him on my 25th birthday and got divorced from him just after my 30th birthday. he was the one at that time, but we grew apart as we grew older.
if you are asking this becasue you are young, or unsure. i say age doesnt matter. if he is the one you will just know. if he makes you happy, if you miss him when your apart and he treats you right. then go for it, live for the moment, nothing lasts forever.


sarah
23


?
I was 29


zoe
i am 21 and i am gettind married in 6 weeks time


hoofty1
28 bwe went out together at school. then we got back together at about 23


kristy
i was 24 and already had three kids together a house and our own business been with him since i was 15 so after all those years you just know .


physandchemteach
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I was 23 and he was not the right guy. We were married for 20 years, but he left me for someone else. I know now that he never really was "the one" for me. We were not soul mates.


janebfc
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I've never thought anyone was the "one" so I haven't been there. I once thought it was on the cards, but realised it wouldn't work and have never strayed down that road again. I'm in my late 30s now so who knows if I'll ever go there as I'm more cynical now and used to my own space. When I thought I might do it my heart would do little somersaults at the thought, even after arguments and fall outs but there were just too many other problems between us it was like climbing Mount Everest. I guess if I was faced with it again you have to have the love and trust to be prepared to just take a great big leap of faith into the unknown together, because you can never know for sure. But if it feels right and you love and trust each other then you've got a pretty solid foundation to build on.


goldstcy
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I was 18 and it was a great marriage.
He died 5 years ago.


coffeebabyea
how old are you? If he is the one, you will know it without any doubt. You wont need to ask. Thats what i was always told, but i never believed it till it happened. If you have doubt, hes not the one.


NetNet
i was 18 and i guess it just felt right


toolbox
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21 U JUST DO


jojo
I'm 25 and I'm marrying my soul mate who's 22, i know he is the one as we have been together 2 years now and have had to go through many ups and downs as we are not the same religion and his parents think he should marry a Muslim girl, but we have still decided that we must follow our hearts. we know that once we are married will be together 4Eva.


♥Shortie♥
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we were both 20yrs old. We only knew eachother 5 months from the moment we met to the moment we both said "I DO" we've now been married 12+yrs and it's amazing that in such a short time I knew I FOUND AND MARRIED MY SOUL MATE!


eva b
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19,I was way too young.He was not the one.


ASoldiersWife
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We were both 26.. How did I know "Cause my heart told me so."


rangerider223
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which time the first i was 18 then again at 24


Desiderata of Happiness
33


Trouble
18-he most definately wasn't
27-was a good guy,but not for me
28-I can't explain it. I really did "just know". I never knew what that meant till I met my now husband.


?
I was 21 and he was 23. That was 8 years ago and it was the smartest thing I've ever done.

I can't say exactly how I knew he was the one, but I guess I can say that it was the very first relationship that I was in that I never for one second questioned. So I guess I knew he was the one, because I never had to ask myself if he was the one- it was a foregone conclusion at the start.

:-)





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