What am I to do. i rlly need some advice?

I’m 17 and I live with my 22 year old boyfriend and his 10 month old son Chris. Well we’ve been planning on transferring apartments to a bigger one, because we are having trouble with the one bedroom. I couldn’t stand staying there for the past two nights. I come home and find my man and the girl next door on the couch under the same blanket watching a movie. I don’t suppose they were doing anything because Chris was in between them, but still it made me mad. I showed my butt after I took Chris to the bedroom. I punched the girl and slapped him. I also packed all of my things and am staying with my best friend. He swears up and down he didn’t mes with her she was just there to help get Chris asleep. Do you think I overreacted or no? As far as I know he’s never cheated and him and his baby mama aint together anymore cuz she cheated on him. Help me please I miss him and Chris
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Okay hatas i'm not a troll. and excuse me if i'm a very mature 17 year old. so what if you think i'm lyin i aint ask you ta come on here and post ya opinion so if yu dont believe me gone ahead and leave my post cuhz i ain asking fa hatas ya digg

Deasytrent

I'm telling you this as a man and a friend, he may be attracted to the female. Sure, nothing probably happened but he isn't going to just cuddle with a chick under the blanket without having some type of feelings for her. Why couldn't he get his son to sleep himself? That was a horrible excuse. He probably never cheated but that doesn't mean he isn't capable of doing so. We all want to believe our significant others wouldn't hurt us but they are human and they do things just like other humans. If you thought he would cheat you wouldn't be there but that doesn't mean he isn't capable of doing it. It's up to you how you feel about it but I don't think you over reacted.

Satanic Brainsmasher

He's banging her. Move on.

Alicia

You are only 17 (if this story is even real), so you shouldn't be hooking up with anyone that has children and is in their 20's at this point. You need to be dating and having fun while at the same time making a life for yourself. Get a decent job or skill (hairstylist, manicurist etc) and make enough money to get an apartment with a decent friend. Please god, don't get knocked up!!!

Good Luck and don't waste your youth on scum!

AcdRed

It sounds very sketchy to me... under a blanket? He should know better. I don't know what to tell you except that I would have reacted like that as well, and I probably wouldn't got back...BTW you don't have anger issues. It is hard to trust someone who is that close with a neighbor girl. I don't know may bf who would sit under a blanket with anyone but their gf. I don't want to say it if it is not true, but Chris could be an easy excuse out of trouble. He cant tell you what he saw.

learnfromachild

I think this is where problems begin, if it looks like a monkey it more than likely is a monkey, help putting his child to sleep, looks like he is looking for a reason to get her over there, anyways she wasn't doing a very good job, if his son was still awake, you now what is right, don't give him another chance to get the next neighbor over.

Forever yours

You're very mature? And that is showed by punching and hitting? Right.

hasjewels

You shouldn't have reverted to violence. I would be jealous though.

Seriously?

If this is true - call Jerry Springer because you'll fit right in with the people that tend to be on his show.

In my opinion - you are a troll. Go post on singles and dating.

Edit: You aren't a mature anything when you resort to VIOLENCE when you are angry. That just makes you a shoe-in for a future restraining order.

christynewell06

how well does he know the girl? It very well could have been completely innocent but you never know. Do they seem to flirt when they're around each other? If i were you i would talk to him before jumping to conclusions. Hear him out and if he is innocent he will be trying to work it out with you.

counting days

Sounds like you may have some anger issues!

Jade

It's your fault.

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