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What are the secrets of a successfull happy married life ??



    




royphil345
LOL!!!!!!!!!!!!... Good one!!!!!!!!!!!!

Why not just ask a friend who is completely satisfied and happy in his marriage?......... LOL!!!!!!!!!!!!! This is cracking me up!!!!!!!!!!!!

Anybody with the "pretty" answers over... 30?. LOL!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! This is toooo much!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!


���Elke ���
Be Honest and Loyal and loving and communicate and do things for each other and trust each other and you have nothing to worry about


slanteyedkat
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Honesty, Trust and Communication.


shazbotbaru
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One secret...RESPECT. You are supposed to marry for life, and follow the love, honor,and cherish...Do this my friend and you will enjoy 50 years of happiness or more, as I have....


Ghøst - V.2
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dont cheat
Dont fight


elpeesee
Never stop dating your spouse. Every day make a promise to yourself that you will do one nice thing for your spouse. Talk about your problems, don't fight about them. Learn to say I am sorry and mean it. Kiss her goodbye every morning and hello when you get home at night. Stay best friends.
Good luck, I have 17 years and going strong.


baby
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. Accepting each other as they am.Do not try to change your mate.Sometimes in marriage people do change.Continue doing the things you did when you first met.Why,because that what drew you together once.


Tango Charlie
respect, trsut, and compromise...

secrets of an UNSUCCESSFUL married life:

disrespect, distrust, and egocentrism!

All others... additional factors...


jane d
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Listen to your spouse. I mean really hear them. Respect their feelings if it bothers them don't do it. Treat him/her like they are the only one there or at least the most important one there. Never go to bed angry.


Wisline F
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COMMUNICATION ON BOTH PARTS. IT TAKES 100% BOTH WAYS, TO MAKE A LASTING COMMITMENT TO ONE ANOTHER.


Cat
There are no secrets. It's about mutual respect. You can love someone to death, but not like how they act. You can be attracted to someone physically, but not respect them. You must have the same goals in life, similar lifestyles, and have mutual interests. That doesn't mean to spend every waking moment together and not have outside interest. Think of what you hang around with your friends for, companionship, mutual interest in sports, work, etc...Good Luck!


?
It's so secret no one knows.


♥haggisbasher♥
Be honest, faithful, laugh together, cry together, share and enjoy each other. Be there for each other. Listen to each other.


Marcus P
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For my wife and I, We are best friends, we don't think of it as we are married. We find stuff we both like to do and go do it, there are times, i do stuff with my friends and family and she does stuff with her friends and family, Also remember to tell her You love her, girls or woman love to hear that, also be honest, faithful, share and enjoy each other, be there for each other. Listen to what each other have to say.


Spike
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Make your marriage a priority. Tell your spouse daily that you love him/her - same for kids. Plan special things. I use material from http://www.drray.com and http://www.parentleadership.com quite a bit. The important thing is to try. After that, of course, is exactly how to try - you can get that info from other people, books, etc. I don't see how marriage should be any different than guitar lessons - the basics of time, dedication, patience and practice still apply.


angel 36
haha i dont no my ex husband is gone ran off with my best friend well she used to be my best friend up untill 2 yrs ago lol


Big R
its a secret so i cant tell !


la dolce vita
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communication,trust, respect for one another and passion!! Very simple.
I am a happily married woman who adores her husband and I know we are married for life because we are "in this" together with the same amount of every thing mentioned above!! Great question...


james.ampmerch
Stay focused on eachother, and fight for eachother forever. Get rid of pride and be totally honest daily.


movedtoMA
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If both spouses work equally to make the other person's life full of happiness before they worry about their own happiness.


nwnativeprincess
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COMMUNICATION. LOVE. COMMUNICATION.


ruby mason
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i sure not the one to asked,....


country nana
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committment, communication, respect and love, on both sides. You can't run and do something foolish every time you feel down or have an argument. Be willing to work things out, remember your love and committment and tough out the bad times. It will always get better and it's worth the patience it takes sometimes. Even if you are still mad at each other, don't ever go to bed without telling your partner that you love him/her.


droid
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just do what your told


dsd
I don't think there's any specific reason why a marriage might work. It all boils down to the two people in the relationship. Its about their understanding of each other realizing shortcomings and failings and their strengths. Its about complimenting each other, being there for each other in both the good times and bad, its about realizing when something is wrong with the relationship and actually setting about fixing or solving that problem as a team. Its about respect, ability to communication and most of all the ability to not judge each other when one person makes a mistake. A happy married life or any relationship for that matter begins with two people working as a team to make things work despite adversities and obstacles.


I love Jesus
communication is very good, and sharing everything with each other. don't pay attention to Xae.. That's just wrong


Diamond in the Rough
Minimal baggage from both parties.....Good Luck


Becky
its not a secret .. its how good you know each other .. how good you communicate about everything and feeling free with each other .. believe me this is the secret to find some one who are you.


I'mDone
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A male co-worker (just celebrated 25 years) explained that his marriage has lasted so long because he answered the following question to himself, CORRECTLY, "Do I want to be right or do I want to be happy?"


?
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unconditonal love...





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