What are three keys to understand you wife?

Stephen K

Communication.
Commonality.
Compassion.

PLUS, that you will never fully understand anyone

cmdrbnd007

Hell, who said you could understand them the best you can go for is to get along with them and to do that remember these three things
1. She is always right
2. She is always right
3. If she is wrong remember she is always right.
just do those three things and you'll be fine.

parekhs_carewel

THE SAME 3 KEYS YOU USE TO UNDERSTAND YOURSELF !!!!!!!

Jaimie

Nothing will make you understand women... Were complicated! ;) lol

Aunt Henny Penny

LISTEN, LISTEN AND LISTEN

dusk

1. she has female hormones. 2. she is emotional. 3. she is the dominate second partner and will fight for it.

sparkly-diva-in-maryland

listen
pamper
love

Erica, AKA Stretch

She is human and not perfect,
She has feelings and a brain,
She wants to be respected.

alina

listen and if you don't understand what she means then repeat it back to her the way you understood it and if thats not what she means then she will explain it to you

Alex G

Look at this site and take the quotation from Albert Einstein. it will really help you in your life!

nita

1) honesty
2) unconditional love
3) intimacy
it also helps to show that you appreciate her, tell her you love her as often as possible.

progunr

First, you have to realize the differences in how women think.
While us guys are problem solvers, most women pay more attention to how the problem or issue makes them feel, than to the problem itself. We on the other hand, don't relate to feelings, we are more about action and results. Tell us what the problem is, and we will do everything we can to fix it. But when they tell us how it makes them feel, we don't relate to that in even the slightest way. If you think and act in a way that takes care of their hearts, they will be happy, but do anything that hurts their feelings, and look out.

i hate phil collins

well, next time, don't marry someone you don't understand......

Mr nice guy 2U

empty my head of all reason
remember the entire world revolves around her
know no matter what, shes right, Im wrong

artichoke

for me there is only one key - PRAY that you will be granted the wisdom to understand your wife, to maintain love and respect for her despite your hatred and differences or whatever is happening, and for you to have the humility to say sorry and accept wrongs done to you.

bluelitttt

1..dont try

2 read 1

3 read 2

Sugar Bear

Listen, communicate, pay attention to what she likes

cheri s

understanding your wife? Is that the question?
I'm a wife and all I need is...
Patience when I'm trying to fix something for myself, please do not grab it out of my hands and fix it.
Patience when I'm pouring my heart out to you over some stupid movie or something I heard.
Patience when I want a hug but 2 minutes ago when you hugged me I was too busy putting a bandaid on Jr's boo boo!

oldcorps1947

The best three keys to help understanding your wife:
1. Accept the fact: Women think different then men, I do not know a single man that really can say they understand women.
2. Continue to communicate: agree that is OK to disagree on a subject, and do not make assumptions--you may want to say --what I am hearing is ............is that correct?
3. Make sure you listen to her: Stop what ever you are doing and look at her---this proves to her you are listening--and as a male I have found I am more focus on what she is saying.

Best of luck.

L J

Understand that Women are never happy. Follow these rules and you'll be fine.

1. Allow her to seems as if she is making the important decision.
2. Learn to listen
3. Don't let her know you are having any fun without her

My wife is all screaming she is not included in any decisions. But, whenever I get her involved, it never gets done. She gripes about every little %, color, size, etc. Not anything is ever correct. So, give her a big task while you do the real unknown work.

Learn to listen. You will hear about everything that happens at work, home, school, kids, etc. All the things that does not matter to you and you think is trivia is a big deal to her. Listen and add some comments so to let her know you were really listening. And, always agree with her. If you don't, you'll start a fight.

No matter what you do, do not have any FUN without her. For instance, I absolutely enjoy my job. It was a big problem for me to work. I do a lot of business meetings, lunches, travels, etc. To her, it seems as if I am having nothing but fun. Where as, I am trying to win new business accounts. So, instead, I just complain about work and make it sound horrible.

Tutto Bene

Patients, listening skills, friendship

oracleofohio

Listen
Talk
Stay downtown longer

breeanneavery

3 keys? Don't make the same mistakes my husband did!

1. Talk to her about every dream, every plan. Keep everything out in the open.

2. Include your wife in on things.

3. Spend time together and have fun...don't be too much of a workaholic.

Those 3 things should be great...She'll love you!

jeff

Well if there was an answer for this question than there would be a lot more happy people.You need2 know what girls think
on emotions not logic & guy use logic & not emotions, so
what you think is funny is hurtfull 2 them, not doing somethink is nothing 2 you but everything 2 them. So if you take everything & look at it in 2 ways your &hers than you will have a better understanding of her.
Good luck your going 2 need it .

AnswerQueen

1. Listen to what she tells you, and do something about it.

2. Help her with chores / kids WITHOUT complaining. I guarantee you she doesnt want to do the laundry, cookek dinner, help with homework, etc. either, but someone has to.

3. Tell her she looks "Beautiful" ALL the time. Avoid words like "nice" and "fine" when it comes to her appreance.

Valerie

Franklin's Jackson's and Hamilton's.........

juda75

Communication
Patience
Love

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