What are your general thoughts on marriage?

mamaflutey

I'm very anti marriage at this point.

I say look for someone who doesn't hit you
someone who listens to you
someone who will respect you
someone who you can talk to
someone who actually loves you

~*Flick*~

That it is something to be treasured and honored. That you can expect the ups and down, but also know that they are needed to truly make a lasting loving marriage. That it isn't a 5, 10 or so forth many years plan to add into your life, then get a divorce when you either tire or "grow" out of your spouse. That in these days so many take their vows yet don't truly mean what they are promising. For me, my marriage is for life, until death parts us. I married my husband for better or worse and everything in between. The only way I would leave my husband is if my life or the life of my children were in danger. Or if he broke our marriage vows by being unfaithful. I am not worried about either.

meesh_nicole

Marriage is great. The best way to go about it is before you are married see everything your mate does with your eyes wide open, then after you are married see everything your mate does with eyes half shut. LOL Some things your mate does will bother you. The best qualities I think in a mate is someone that is sweet to you, that includes listening to you, respecting you, doing nice things for you, etc. You also want someone that you have things in common with. Once you find your mate you will know. The two of you will just click :)

mr dance moves

depend on age. i would never get married in my teens maybe early 20's and only for the sole purpose of raising children. you dont want to be 50 trying to teach your kid how to shoot a basketball or gymnastics practice!

the reason to get married is for love and compatibility. meaning you guys almost finish each other words or something like that. the person you get married to should be your bestfriend. thats the person i want to marry. i dont want somebody i have to tell the same story to 5 times and they either dont get it or, are not interested enough to comprehend. thats fustrating.

i also want to test them out so to speak, that could mean in the bed, that could mean test their patience. notice how they treat others. See how well they work with kids. Are they sappy about every little thing? do they need the best parking spot at the mall cause they are so lazy they cant get out their car and walk? Or do they ride their bike once in a while, do they care about their fitness and or they organized.

those are details i consider before settling down. cause as my friend whos been married for 13 years put it, if its like that before you get married, its going to be worse when you get married. only fools think people change after marraige.

null_the_living_darkness

Marriage is Great.

Most important thing-marry someone who fits and clicks with you.

shane

I think marriage should be avoided. Nobody (no men at least) who has been married for more than 2 years recommends it.

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