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What becomes of the broken hearted? I know I"ve got to find some kind of piece of mind....Help Meeeeeeeeee
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What becomes of the broken hearted? I know I"ve got to find some kind of piece of mind....Help Meeeeeeeeee



    




Rockmeister B
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Sounds to me like you've been listening to too much country music...
Seriously though, time and meeting someone else will heal your broken heart, and you'll understand that for every broken heart there is someone waiting for the chance to help heal the hurt. Not everyone is mean and cruel. Not everyone has good intentions either. You just need to filter between the two.
You'll be fine in time.
Meanwhile, do what you like to do - whatever hobbies you have, do them! Travel, whatever you like to do. It will take your mind off things until you DO meet someone else - then your heart won't even remember its been broken, and it won't even be a bad memory - it will be just another memory.


Mizzell
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I'm sorry your heart has been broken. Just remember that it will heal with time. Prayer is an excellent way to ease that pain.


san2m
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Welcome to the land of the living!

Keep yourself busy. Find a new hobby. Keep your friends around. Listen to music...dance! He's not the catch, you are!


lizzyshells
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I know how you feel but you have to move on go to Church. Start dateing again. Open your heart. Don't keep it closed up. You have to move on.


lhee
it will take time to heal a broken heart. first that you could do is discuss it with a close friend. it's hard keeping it to yourself. then keep yourself busy, read books, go out with friends, watch movies or attend parties/family gatherings. don't isolate yourself, the more you are on your own the more you think about it. hope this helps. good luck!


closed
Time heals all pain.... Everyone experiences a broken heart sometime in their lives.....Look at it this way: "Every breakup leads you closer to the one your supposed to be with"...... Good luck....


Dana D
I'm sorry to hear of you broken heart, but speaking from experiences time is the best medicine.


kayla
do things that make you feel happy, make a list of the good things of him and the bad dwell more on his bad before you know it you'll improve yourself more and have more confident.


likmytulips
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This may sound very lame, but find a hobby. Painting, roller blading, horse back riding, etc. The more your mind is on something else, the less it is on your ex. If not that, then find someone else for now. Mrs. Rightnow may be the answer to your prayers, and your broken heart.


bored!!
there's a time for everything. allow yourself to cry over a broken heart..but i think that time is over..it's time PARTY!!!!!


singer
some broken heart never mend, some memories never end, some tears will never dry before you find the guy who will catch you're eye


jenn
The heart always mends! I know how hard it can be through this process, but you have to stay busy, and take it one day at a time. And stay in contact with your friends and family. Good luck in your journeys.


Steve
You can do one of two things:

First, get some kind of piece of mind.

Second, just admit the it's gone and move on. While there is always an answer, you might not always be able to find the answer.

Lastly, you have to know you have value and relationship is just one part of life. It shouldn't be ur whole life that ties you down


harborgirl2006
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its heals and you start over..


Sandy
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"ah, to have loved and lost is better than to have not loved at all"


janeroth7
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Say the psalms of the bible...pick the one that feels good say out loud. Smile more. JR


get_unlost
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stop singing the blues. time is a healer so be patient with you


femmenoire@sbcglobal.net
Prayer helps a great deal. Ask God to remove the pain that you feel. Lean on His strength and you will find in time, you will wonder why you even allowed that much power to make you hurt the way you did.
It is true that time heals all wounds...but while you are in it now, find healty outlets, things that will distract you. Begin a good suspense book, take up a hobby, join a local club or organization of some time, volunteer your time - do something anything to get your mind off of that person.
Do not allow that person to have anymore control over how you feel.
Best Wishes.


materra/3
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i recommend peppermint tea. so soothing. yet so refreshing.


sparkling_apple
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They drink and feel sorry for themselves for about a couple of days, then they get angry, then they want revenge, then the find someone new.


dannyl410
Time will heal, and make you stronger.


DiRtAlLtHeWaY
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God! get a hold of yourself. everyones gonna have a broken heart sometime in there life. Why be so "sally sob story". Its not like anyone on the internet is going to care. Just move on with your life.


cristanine
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When you get a broken heart it is because your true emotional content has been violated of trust. In order to regain that trust you must not put your self in denial, but move on gently with your life and re-experience what you lost, but this time it will be much better because you won't allow it to happen again. The lucky person to win you is the one that will not violate you.


sweety77
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stop depending on people to help, pulse u sound u sound 2 despaired 4 me 2 help u


jinxedgemini2003
The broken hearted find mended hearts eventually. Start by loving God and yourself and the lose of others will not seem so hard. Have faith that what didn't work out was the right place for you to be and that the caretaker over your heart is still out there.


treatau
in time the broken hearted move on and that pice will heal,but yes it does take time


maxine
You can start by reading the Bible and learn that God is with you. Maybe go to church and makes good friends. And pray to God to help you with your pain. I get my feelings hurt every single day of my life. I just try to live one day at a time which is how we all have to do anyway. My own boyfriend says things that are very hurtful thinking it will get him his way. Well all he is doing is causing more pain. But i try not to think about everything all the time. Get a good book and read it, it will get your mind off your problems for a little while. And eventually the pain will lesson. Good luck to you.


cecimad
It does take time. Concentrate on yourself if you can. Relax and have fun while you wait. It will be here it just takes longer when ur looking for it. PATIENCE! God bless you!


sweetie
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Start changing your thinking patterns. Reconstruct negative thoughts into positive ones. Go out and do something for yourself and treat yourself nice as you deseve it. Time will heal all wounds, be strong!





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