What business does a married woman have going to bars?

Kiss My Shaz

Oh please....she's not allowed to go out with her friends and have a good time? Why must she be dependant on you or everything? The only way I could see this being a problem is if she did it a lot.

morgansway3

Everyone needs a break once in a while. Do you ever go out to hang with the guys? Same thing.

acierman2006

well us guys do it ...why cant the women do it ...my wife goes out ...its ok

MightyHyphy

that is what i want to know
my wife says
"to be free from it all, and just be with the girls"
but your MARRIED!?
haha
what else can we do but let them have some fun
but not go overboard?

Valerie

Because women need to unwind and this is what your wife chooses to do. Some women get their nails done or get massages. She's just having fun. Women don't usually go to a bar to pick up men anyway.

So what's your problem? I've picked up lots of married women in bars. They say they don't want to be home with their husbands because their husbands don't do anything interesting, like shoot their hunting partners.

andyman_69

Consider yourself lucky that she likes to have a good time without having you involved. I wish my girlfriend of 3 years would stop wishing to spend every waking moment with me. And we live together. I'd love it if she went out one night with the girls from her work.

chris

I agree with you. And the same goes for men. You decided to get married you need to act like your married. There's nothing wrong with going out every once in a while, but i believe you should go out as a couple.

Daniel C

It's not rocket science.

A. She has friends
B. She likes to drink
C. She likes to drink with her friends

Find some friends.

dj_mc_entertainment

"Girls Nite Out" is a very common thing nowadays.

Working stiffs like to get out and "blow off steam".

As long as her crazy behaviour doesn't get her arrested and thrown in jail (or attacked by a rapist)......let her go out and have fun.

RoseFairy

It could be alot of things, maybe you should take her out more or she just doesn't like being married and wants to be single.

Bored Enough To Be Here

Because we need to have fun - and being home can be fun, but we need variety in atmosphere and activities. I'd LOVE it if my husband would go out dancing at bars with me, so offer to go and dance with her!

Trese

Married, not buried. Let her have some fun. After all, she does deserve to have a good time....Don't you?

Mad Scientist

Maybe she doesn't think you're fun anymore (I'm not saying you're not). Try a amiable talk and see if she can quit this thing that appears to be becoming a habit. Or make the house more interesting...you know, surprise her with something so nice, she won't want to go to the bar. Don't forget to act right and keep the atmosphere friendly and peaceful. It would help with the mood of things.

chokolaite_cutie

I don't see anything wrong with the hanging out with friends part (every once and a while, I'm engaged and have limited the amount of time I hang out at bars). However, does she get "hammered" each time she goes out? There's a difference between having fun and getting f*****up to the point of no return.

Kristin

Are you some sort of domineering control freak? Let you wife have some fun with her buddies. A girl has got to let her hair down once in a while. If you don't trust her, then don't be married.

Remember, the dance floor is a long way from the bedroom. Don't worry unless she doesn't come home the next day.

Spleakie

Because she might need a drink and a dance! Hell, it's hard beint a wife and/or mother AND have a job and have to make sure the house is runnying smoothly AND have to go to work everyday and listen to a boss tell us with to do. Then we come home and Children are telling us with to do, then at night our husbands are telling us with to do. A sister might need a getaway.
What kind of person was she when you got married? Did you meet her at a bar? I ring and a cermony might not change the person.

Sammy

ask her mr.

Mrs G

You cant be interesting her - cause she would rather be down the pub with her mates .. than come home to you... sounds like imcompatability here ... shes a floozy get shot of her,. get down to the pub and fire into one of her buddies...show her who is a real man.. go on - get off the computer ...

I don't know, I used to have the opposite problem, I'm the wife. I don't think a married wife or husband belongs in a bar without their spouse period...it's asking for trouble in my eyes.

texas nanna

sounds ok. to me sounds like she is having fun, why not go to a bar with your friends. but if you guys have kids its not good for them.

~*SuMmEr*~

I wouldn't like it either if I was you. Me personally I like to spend time with my husband. If we go out we go out together and with other married friends. You guys should try going out together....or even better go out with friends that are married.

hot mom

If she really loves you and has any respect for you at all she wouldn't act like this! She should be at home with you having your own kind of fun!!

Duane Allman

Shes working something out or trying to escpae something-e.g. motherhood,work ,being your wife,depression-who knows. Id hang out with her on one these evenings and wait till shes smashed and ask her when her inhabitions are down as to why shes doing this or whats bothering her. She may not tell you. I'd also be curious as to if she's being faithful. How late is she out? Put a GPS in her car and folow her some night and see whats up.

This all does not bode well. My first wife went through a simular pattern ,we went to counciling and still ended up divorced. She was distraught over having lost her dad and having a "mid life" crisis at 30.
Get the facts and then procede. I wish you luck

D.J.4ever

you do have a point! when I have been invited to go out with co-workers I would ask if it was OK if my husband came and if it was a "girls night out" to a bar, and they said no then i wouldn't go! if it was just to dinner and it was just girls i probably would talk to my husband and make sure that he was OK with it! I most definitely would not get drunk and dance provocatively. that is a big no no unless it is with my husband!! and if he wanted to spend time with me i would take that over girls night in a heart beat!!! talk to her let her know how you feel! good luck!

answer da question

Leave her to it, as long as she's not at it constantly it sounds harmless enough to me although you might want to address the "getting totally hammered" part with her... unless you yourself are sh*t-faced on the couch everytime she gets home.

mustard100

I really cannnot answer this question unless you provide more details....the name, and address of the bar, when the ladies will be there, and your wife's first name.

Thank you.

MsTruthful

Sometimes women need to be away from the home. Now you need to let her know she can go out and have fun, but to get hammered and dance in a lewd fashion isn't very attraction, especially for a married women.

harold

Every one need to get out with their friends and coworkers every now and then. You never go out with just the boys?. Give her some space, going out with the girls will show her that you trust her and want her to enjoy herself. If you are lucky she will come home and rock your world.

jimmy.parker06

because she is not happy with you and wants a life of her own.

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