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What can you do if this 18 yrold girl text your husband all the time?

she also comes over when he just home she also flirt with him what should i do


    




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omg! are you married to my ex! I called her on his cell one morning while he was just waking up and let them both know they could have each others sorry @$$3$ - that is what I would do only if your brave enough and able to defend yourself after he is fully awake. then get a divorce... well that is my scenario


They Love ME.........
I would kick her ***, and his too. Apparently he's doing something to lead this h0e on.


julesl68
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Your husband must be texting her back, must be showing her attention, etc. Shame on him!! Your husband needs to put a stop to it.


WENDY G
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You need to tell her to her face to back off your man. that you are the wife! Threaten to tell her parents...lol


Angel sent from heaven
i would tell her that ur going to call her parents if she,doesn't stop texting him or coming over when its just him at home.after all he is ur husband. good luck


cute sam
that is very hard problem coz actually she not allowed to write to your husband and second she must respect you as the wife.ans u must talk too to you husband ask why he allowed this girl to text him.that is for you big hurt.but if still continue this problem them u must do something as the wife.ok


rudytute
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Send her over to me. I'll talk to her for you. Oh you might want to take a way your husbands access to Yahoo answers. That probably where they met.


lilly
tell the girl to leave your man alone. Make sure you talk to your husband about it too. Make sure that the girl knows that you don't feel comfortable with her being around him all of the time, and tell him to tell her to give him some space. Sometimes young girls have to be put in their place.


Harold T
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tell her 2 stay away


Crazy
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You should bet the funk out of her!!! And tell your husband if she comes to your house again ur going to and if he gets mad make him move too. with her!!!!


teresa d
go tell her parents withthat doesnt work you laydown the law and let her know he is a grown man and she is a child stay in a childs place dont come over nomore and stop texting your husband he needs to tell her as well dont text him anymore or change his number


I taint libel
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She will only do what he allows her to do. Confront him and curse her out. She obviously has no respect for you or your marriage.


aprilx4u
why woory about the girl. She can do what she wants- dont you think your man in gownup enought to deal with it? if not, you're in trouble


san_ann68
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hunt her down


mytreacheryiseternal
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She does this because he allows it. If he respected your marriage, he'd never let her in the front door and he'd change his cell phone number and never have contact with her. She may be pursuing him, but he's not stopping her. Whether he's acting on it, or is just flattered by the attention, you need to confront your husband and tell him she's not to be allowed in the house and the cell phone number is going to be changed and Lolita won't be getting the new one.


rockinout
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Talk to your husband and then talk to her. Make sure he is not initiating the contact with her. If he is unwilling to talk to you about it, tell him you are going to contact the 18 year old and find out what's going on!


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I think your jealous and you want her!


DeBBieâ„¢
is your husband 19?


I'm all yours
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You're going to have to knock her block off. She's moving into your territory. And he's going to love this little s-l-u-t hitting on him.


Scott
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Could start a Good old fashioned Cat fight... hehe

Ask u'r hubby what his intentions are. He should be the one to tell this teenie bopper to take a hike as he's married you know. If you don't like his answer maybe u should reconsider keeping him around.

Or u could ask her to join u 2 and make a Threesome... Ya i know.... hehe


ANGELa
Find out what he's doing about it. Tell him it Will come to a stop or your marriage will. Got kids? Look up online divorce sites for their child support and alimony calculators. Figure out how much it will cost him to get a divorce, pay child dupport, alimony, the counseling everyone is going to need, 1/2 of medical, and school clothes, clubs and extra curricular activities, sports, gymnastic or karate lessons. Write it all down. Then show her how much money they are going to have to live on should she be 'lucky' enough to get him. Give her a lecture on morals and what most people would think of the tramp for trying that with a married man. Then make sure she knows exactly what size iron skillet and what type of baseball bat you are going to beat the hell out of her with should you ever catch her anywhere around him again. And have a talk with him, basic same thing, but include the love talk and exactly how important is the marriage to him (before you show him all the facts & figures). Let him know that there will be no second chances, so he had better make up his mind now. If he thinks the consequences are not going to be bad, you could be in for a life time of this. Have him change his cell number, if she gets it again, you know he's the one probably giving it to her. Also, get a camcorder, set up in a hidden spot and let him know that you have somewhere to go and that you won't be back for a good 6-8 hours. Or get a baby monitor and hide it next to a tape recorder, or next to a computer that records voices. Try to find out if he's just as into it as she is. Be honest with yourself. If you are in denial about if he is more than willing, than you are only fooling yourself. If he doesn't want anything to do with her, than he should get the cojones to tell her to cut it out. Good luck, don't take any crap.


stargirllll4311
Put your foot down!!! You need to squash this one at it's source - your husband. Let him know you'll not permit his scandalous behavior... He is enabling her advances and not stopping her. He is at fault - take it up with him.


zartsmom
Who is she, and why is he allowing her to do this? You need to address the issue to your husband, not to the internet strangers. If he is allowing this behavior to continue, he is part of the problem.
If he's not shutting her down, he needs to. Tell him.


2_good_2_be_true;)
wtf leave his ***, how did she get his #, ur kidding right?


kiki
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Believe me I have been thru this before I would confront her and I would tell her parents. I did If she thinks she can handle adult situations then she better take it like an adult, and if confronting doesn't' work kick her !!##!#!#. You won't get arrested she's not a minor.


Tinkz
Whaoooo why would a 18 year old girl be texting your husband? And nonetheless be coming to your house? I think you should tell your husband that this is not acceptable and also confront her and ask her to please stop texting him all the time and ask what are her reasons for coming to your house.


Kayla22
Do you allow her to come over and to text your husband ..Seems to me you do.....Sorry to say but your stupid..Does you husband let you hang out with 18 yr old boys and receive text messages..I think not...You need to set both of them straight. and get down to the bottom of it. I wouldn't tolerate it!!


babybear_562
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who is this 18yr. old girl? what does your husband say to you about her? your husband needs to stop talking and ignore her. and if it bothers you and your husband get a restraining order.


kw11
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I would knock her on her ***.


Phoenix, Wise Guru
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Backhand.

And block text messaging from his cell phone.

But mostly, just ***** slap her AND your husband. You can't be putting up with that crap and he needs to shut it down.





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