What do I do about my Husband's Daughters Mom?

Super Mom!

Keep everything documented. I had that happen to me, and the cops told me to document everything. You get a restraining order, and every thing she does to you make sure you keep, because if it starts out her being immature, it could end up worse further on down the road. Maybe you can get her number blocked at your work? I know it is difficult at a place of work to have that done, with a bunch of extensions and stuff. What she is doing is harassing you, and that is grounds to have a restraining order. Just make sure you keep all the documents and get that restraining order!

sweets4thesweet

Change your numbers and get a restraining order.

i_ate_sponge_bob

Get a restraining order.

Crystal Anne â™¥

Change your number, inform your work about the situation, they can probably do something 'legally' to stop her from calling there. Good luck, it doesn't sound fun.

Meems

This is harassment and it is interfering with your life and job, warn her via certified mail that you will be consulting a lawyer if she does not stop. Document the calls and messages so you have something to show a lawyer and judge. Change your number if you want but she'll probably find out the new one from your step-daughter anyways.

4everWMT

Talk to her and say: "I'm tired if your crap. Leave me alone. Go to hell."
if she's a real adult, she back off, but if she doesn't, she's an immature 4 year old. Remember that.

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Betty M

Change your e-mail address and get a restraining order against her for stalking and harassment. You can also sue her for jeopardizing your job, by harassing you at work.

Make sure you keep all emails and telephone messages from her as proof of her harassment, to prove to the police if she breaks the restraining order or if you have to sue her in court.

sunnyday4lyfe

change your phone number .
erase the text messages .
ignore her calls .
keep telling your husband .
dont let it get to youu and fight your way out .
shes just jealous cause you got married to her husband since he didnt want her anymore .
just laugh and pity her since she has no life .

AnneMeansGrace

Wow, I hope she doesn't have custody of your step-daughter. She sounds like a nutball. You don't want your step-daughter to be influenced by such a terrible example! For sure don't tell the child or say anything bad about her mother in front of her. Since she won't or can't be reasonable with communication, I would say filter communications with a third party such as an in-law. Do not respond in kind! That will only further alienate your step-daughter and give the ex the idea that that type of behavior is acceptable. Change your number and give it to the third party liaison.

Sexy Lady

First of all don't even feed into her it seems to me that she is real miserable and lonely and real needs some attention but somebody gotta be the better person out of the situation and pay her no attention and that should be you. I see you did your part of calling the police but they ain't trying do nothing so try to ignore her as much as you can then give her what she asking for a good but wiping if you know what i mean

Sarah*

Try to egnore it as far as possible because she is looking for a reaction - she wants to cause trouble, DON'T LET HER.
Make sure you don't give her any amunition either and when discussing it make sure your step daughter is out of earshot.
If she phones, be polite but keep a record of all phone calls and texts. You can contact your phone company and tell them the exact dates and times of these calls because usualy they have a harrasment team who will be able to talk to the police for you and then they would maybe take you more seriously. Try not to let it get to that for the sake of the little girl.
She will get bored eventualy, make sure your husband is supportive and taking the same stand on the battle as you. Don't let him show he is angry. Tell him to phone her and calmly say he does not want anymore phone calls unless they are through him and in the interest of their daughter.

Liv

How annoying! I think the police can take a restraining order - she's not threatening, but she is harassing you. Can mobiles block phone numbers (I don't know - landlines can so you'd think mobiles can), worth checking?

You need to keep what she sends though, just in case you need it later.

Make her mad and you will end up paying more in child support! I would just ignore her as much as possible. Making a big deal out of it is encouraging her to keep it up.

His mommy

Is she calling your cell phone?
She has no right or reason to have your cell phone number.
Change it or call your carrier and ask them if they can block the number.
Also, or newer phones, you can actually block numbers from the phone.

moroccanchick

You should meet with her sometime and tell her that its not your fault your husband left her. then you should tell the people who work with you to ignore her and block her number on your phone.

Ashley Y

she sounds soo immature probably bored
ask to block all her calls and get caller ID.
wow she sounds like such a loser

TRIXIE

you are probably attractive, and well put together. she has probably never gotten over him. try letting it roll off your shoulder.

life goes on

you have to be nice to her she;s your hubby;s daughters mom.
just carry on a conversation with her ,
grin and bare it .
you;re in it for the long tun.

Call me Ari-elly

Even though you may not want to talk to her, just write her a letter and tell her to stop this. Tell her you will not take it and then just ignore it after you have tried telling her to stop. She is immature.

Snakebitingme

ur husbands daughters mom? wait...wouldnt that be YOU? unless ur husbands been married before...

god...a thumbs down because i was confused? this commmunity is less forgiving then i thought....

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