What do i do to get back at my husband for having a affair?

Vicki

Sit down and talk to him. Ask him if he still loves you. At the same time, ask yourself if you can forgive him.

- L -

leave him..

Amy M

Divorce him and take everything otherwise he will just cheat again

Justsyd

Divorce him and find someone who doesn't just think about himself.

sugarsweet

well you couldn't forgive him so it's best to leave him. once you forgive him he'll repeat his mistake because he knows you will eventually forget about it, so don't get emotional over it because he obviously didn't think about the hurt it would cause you by having an affair - get your stuff, pull your life together and move on with it, you dont need someone like him.

luvlisteningtomusic

Well it is your choice to stay with him why would you want to get back at him it will only make matters worse. Two wrongs do not make a right. If it bothers you so much why would you want him back. If you went back you need to forgive not forget. Remember you had a choice you could of left when you had the chance and you still can.

Jayme

you dont get back at him, leave him or forgive him, two wrongs dont make a right

rwdycwgrl

Have him watch you living your life much happier without him. Hold your head up, dont look back and start living life to its fullest.

clueless0_0

here are some ideas:

http://www.funnyjunk.com/funny_pictures/1204/Hope+She+Was+Worth+It

http://www.funnyjunk.com/funny_pictures/1185/Girlfriend+Gets+Revenge

http://www.funnyjunk.com/funny_pictures/830/Someone+hates+Adam

chubbiguy40

Have an affair with me and teach him what it is like.

KittieKittie

I know that hurts - A LOT.

But a man that has a go around another block once usually will go around again. Granted there are few (VERY FEW) that don't, you'll never truely trust him again, so is it worth your stress to stay? I'd say if you chose to leave him (or kick him out if it's your place) then that's the best you can do for your self and it will show him that you aren't one to just accept and not do nothing. Making a fuss isn't going to make it better. If you have kids, think about them and how good of a dad he is and try if possible for their sake to accomodate, but for you, don't risk having it happen to you again. He found someone, you will too - after.

Mrs. JSV

if he doesn't know that you already know, set up something to prove in court and get him for adultery. don't do anything stupid by cheating on him too, he might turn the table around and get you in trouble in court.
or, does he have a lot of money? put your name on every property you both have before you take him to court so you're entitle for at least some of them legally. it's more trouble to just take his stuff that's not in your name. that is if you want to divorce him.
but you know some people go through this and get over it and still together. i have no idea how they do it. they say when you love somebody, you're willing to forgive. i hope i don't have to find out myself. but i tell my husband if ever he does it to me, i'm going to make his life miserable by staying married with him, spend his money and won't let him divorce me so he can't get the other girl in our house. i worked hard making our house a home.
i hope you don't have children, but what he's doing is still terrible.
hang on there, girl. i hope you find your best answer.

angel74

Do the same thing back and see if he likes it but i would also leave himj too once a cheater always a cheater!!!!!

nicole

what will that achieve? u both need counselling to find out if your marriage is able to b saved. Whats the point in fighting to be right? u will b even more miserable later. Try to work it out and if u cant get past it, move on.

mama

Divorce him and take half of his money and property and then make sure you look really good at all the court hearings.

I dont get upset anymore, I have found that if I am nice and always happy around him, and especially if I look good -- that is the best revenge. He will be so sorry he cheated on you.

kiko

Divorce, if happen to me i'll never forgive him, never...

Big Daddy

best way is tit for tat. do to him what he did to you. question is, will you be able to look yourself in the mirror after doing so? how about the kids, if any? what if they find out? talk to your husband about his ways. then take it from there. don't do anything drastic yet. ask here again if need be. good luck.

marrissa

Go on a shopping spree ,since he wanted to cheat you now want a lot of things

AveGirl

Max out all of your credit cards and get a home equity loan and a title loan on the car. Then leave him and divorce him. The marriage is over if someone cheats.

Celtic Tejas

Do not do this to yourself. There is no repayment for the betrayal that will not hurt you in return.
Get counseling whether you are stay ing with the fool or not. Go by yourself if he won't. You need to heal not get in the gutter with him.

mum

do you still love him? If you do... forgive him and try and both of you try and repair the damage!! If you have children be careful , your children may take sides!!

NO children.... be friendly to any of his friends or even better his enemies!!!!
Call his mistress and be the other woman....pretend to be a clinic with his results....

Dee

record him fuc**ng.....and post the video and pictures all over the internet as many sites as possible.

hummdeeedummm

hmm if you want to be mature, then talk to him. if you're like me, then have an affair or tell people or you know.. evil things.. like leave him, take all his money, or tell the woman he had an affair with that he's an STD bomb just waiting to blow!

msqtech

revenge is sour fruit

I think you need to be the one who leads not punish

Good Luck and God Bless!!

Delilah

Hire a good divorce lawyer and take him for everything he's got. Make him pay for his infidelity.

savvyd

Ask yourself first if you can forgive him, then you need to sit him down and talk to him(not argue or accuse, or ask about the other woman--it is between the two of you--she doesn't matter). If you can forgive him, then you must let him know that if you guys are going to stay together, he is going to have to do a lot of work to get your trust back. Now that the affair is exposed, he is going through his own personal hell, so your "getting back" at him may do more harm than good and you are above all of that. When my wife cheated on me, I did forgive her, him and told them so, but I told her that she would have to rebuild the trust I had lost in her and I told him that he HAD to tell his wife before my family did(He was cheating with my wife AND my sister). I could have gotten revenge but it wouldn't have made me feel good, and the joy you would get seeing him squirm would only be temporary.

crazywoman88

I don't know. Maybe give him a chance to get back at you for having one. Sorry, I'm just getting tired.

Hollynfaith

Divorce him, take everything he has and then live so well that he cringes everytime he sees you because he knows in his mind, he made one hell of a mistake. Make him live to regret it honey, it's the best revenge.

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