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drifter69
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first and foremost you better make sure that he is having an affair with your wife before doing anything. I had a friend who used to play around all the time on his wife and because he was jealous and possessive and I got on well with his wife we had a massive fight where he accused me of sleeping with her while he was overseas. Needless to say completely untrue and pissed me off enough that I don't hang with him anymore. Make sure you are 100% certain. If you are then tell both of them. For me if it is true - no chances. It is definitely over. |
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BLONDE BEAUTY
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Confront them both and get rid of them both no real wife or best friend would do something like that to you.. Sounds like they are made for each other.. neither of them know what respect is! |
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karl_popper_fan
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start moving my money to a seperate account then put nair in her shampoo. |
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Rachel
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dump the both of them |
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daigle451
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empty the savings account |
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magicmorph
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It happened to me...I got divorced about 3 months later.As for my so called best friend i scared the living sh*t out of him so much he moved to Australia. |
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TSI
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f**k that man. divorce her no prenupt and get a new friend. |
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Francie
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No question in my mind here.... garbage seeks garbage and I'd dump them both. A wife has her marriage vows to live by and a best friend is someone who wouldn't do this to you. Move on and get the stink out of your life. |
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thankgodformaryjane
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Personally, I'd probably up all over the news.. for doing something really bad... |
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Askanything
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Show her the door, and lose the friend |
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trybeingobjective
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divorce |
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boxmaker40
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Protect yourself financially and kick her out and find another best friend. |
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Gabby G
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well i probably would end up killing them both =P and probably feel hatred in my heart for both of them =P but anywyz you need to let both of them go because if he was your real friend then he wouldnt be having an affair with your wife and if she wasa faithful wife she wouldnt play around on you with your best friend i mean if i was you i would feel better if it was a stranger but my best friend thats just unbelievable |
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Carol A
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He's obviously not your best friend! And, she's not committed to the relationship. Things will never be the same, but you can try to make the marriage work. It's up to you whether you want to trust her enough to try it. Otherwise, I'd be looking for a lawyer. And get her name off your credit cards a.s.a.p. |
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GuInNeSs
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Do you know for sure? Sounds like you do... get rid of both of them but make changes to bank accounts credit cards if they are in your name and get the hell out. Both of them dont give to shits about you, if they did they wouldnt be cheating on you. Divorce that ***** go get a new friend and bang as many girls as you can, or be a ***** yourself and put up with the both of them. |
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ianinfiernooo
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break out the 0.5" sniper rounds! |
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green eyes 4u
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I couldn't imagine.. I guess you have a lot of decisions to make. Life is so hard, why do people have to hurt the ones they are supposed to love like this..I'm sorry |
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Kari B
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Leave... |
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luckylady
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Get a new one of both. |
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Rachel *
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Confront them both. Don't be irrational or crazy. You can't control their actions, only hold them both responsible for them. Maybe you have made her feel neglected, unwanted and unpretty. Which is still no excuse for her actions. You can either work your issues out with her, try counseling and move on.. of course I would eliminate the best friend.. He may come creeping again.
Or, if you can't be rational and go that route.. You can always call the TV show cheaters and give them national humiliation.. and get paid for it! |
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ukmaninmalta
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Look for a new wife
or forgive her and hit him,
or join in and have some fun first then dump her
Think you need a new life away from the nasty lot mate. |
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ernie
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i`d buy him a drink |
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LiliBex
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Divorce her
kick your friend in the balls
get a sympathy shag from an attractive female friend. |
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T-koolz
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get some visual footage of them cheating then take her to court. don't let her take your money and valuable possessions |
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cindra
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Well, I really do think that it's in your best interest to file for divorce. Obviously, your wife no longer loves you or respects you. Unfortunately, you don't have much of a friend either. I'm so sorry this happened to you and I do understand your pain as my own husband had affairs on me. Ultimately, you do need to file and start over. I wish you all the best in finding someone who won't have it in their character to do this to you. |
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Rasta Gal
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I'd change the insurance policy and make sure the kids get everything, then kill myself. |
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boopy
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Uh besides wanting to kill them both??? Just give it up!! Do you have kids? I mean it all comes in to play but He is really not your best friend.. neither one reall is.... Think about it! |
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AngieK
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That's harsh.
People have murdered over such situations.
I would suggest confronting her, go to counselling, see if you can save the relationship by finding out what went wrong.
I would NEVER talk to your friend again, ever. (If I was a guy I might punch his lights out first and then the eternal shun) |
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