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What do you do when you are married have a kid and fall in love with another woman?
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What do you do when you are married have a kid and fall in love with another woman?



    




CCDCC
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Are u a woman or a man?


Jason D
You don't do a damn thing, except go home to your wife and kid.


Fairy Nuff
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You stay away from the other woman and you stay faithful to your wife and kids. Your family comes first.
I have fallen in love with a house near us, I can't have it, life isn't always easy. Do the right thing = )


sissybombay
you remain faithful to your wife and kids. and resist the temptation, as the grass always seems brighter on the other side then you get their and sometimes their is no grass.


anne_9268
Why did you get married in the first place?
To pay childsupport and your wife for a year.
Have your child live without a dad just so you can
be with anther woman. Then what. Have kid and
leave her for someone else.

Do you see a pattern?


~just_jd~
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what do you mean ..what do you do? you are married , didn't you promise her forever? maybe she would go for an open marriage , maybe she would feel the same way about another man. this way you both can have your cake an eat it too!


SHORTY
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you need to be real with your wife because in the long run it aint going to hurt anyone but your child.........
obviously if you fell in love with another woman than your trying to look for other woman....
let her know and take it from there....
but in reality she should kick your %$# because you aint worth it..................... your dirty


"karma"
Well if you don't want your wife you let her know & you step out to the new woman & see if the grass is greener on the other side. You know you got a wife so why are falling love with another woman?


Alan
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Be a man or a women (as the case may be) and do your duty.


vivi-mac
Get a grip and get your priorities right!


Caz
You chose to get married to your wife and have a kid now do the decent thing live up to what you promised. Till death do you part. If not for yourself do it for the kid there are too many kids growing up in broken homes and i don't care what anyone says it has an effect on them.


watergirl
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first, you shouldn't have let yourself get into such a situation. However, the best thing you could do for yourself and your child is to end or refocus your feelings on something much more iubstantial - such as your spouse or child.


floridaman39us
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Well, If I were you, I would try to forget about the other woman and go home to your wife and kids and be thankful you have them. Avoid all contact with the other woman.


Carrie
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Go home. Look at your wife and think about how she would feel if she should know you love someone else. Think about how you would feel if she were the one in love with someone else and actually did something about it. Then try to bring back the romance in your marriage. When was the last time you both went out for dinner without the kids. Find a babysitter for the night, maybe family,(feels safer). Then pretend you guys just married and are getting it on again.


sapphire
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when you are married you don't have the right to fall in love with someone else. Think of your wedding vows, your child!!!!


A Proud Marine's Daughter
are you a women?


Lynn S
You stop being a selfish idiot and start thinking about how your behaviour affects other people.
Your wife deserves better than that, and you are a father for crying out loud.
Grow up, be a man and start thinking with the bigger of the two heads!


thatmadlass
I'm assuming your a man here....

You need to be a man and do whats right - thats sating with your wife and child. They should be your number one priority and nothing else should jepordise that.

(My answer would be the same for a woman really)

So what if you go with this other woman, after the inital 'honeymoon' period you'll be in a relationship no better than the one you have (assusming your not fighting with your wife daily) and think of the mess you'll leave behind. A woman alone with a child, maintainance and bills to pay for her and a new wife and home to support... divorce, lawers etc etc..

Stay where you are, the grass isn't always greener.


whitetiger
follow your heart. its harder for the the children to accept if they found out you were having an affair. if you feel that you are in love with another person think it twice if its worth it.


Label Lady
Tell your spouse the truth and take it from there.


Cindy B
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You stick it out with your child's mother until your child is 18 years old. Your first responsibility is to your child.


Ms.Budonkadonk
leave your wife. Don't put her through hell make your life easier. But- prepare to pay child support for 18 years and spousal support for 2 years buddy!!!


Mercy J
stop being selfish and go and see a counsellor and be honest with your wife and end the affair


Alice in Wonderland
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depends whether ur a man or a woman askin. If ur a man then ask her if she'd like to try doing roleplay sometime when the kids arent there and youv got some free time on ur hands. But if ur a woman then id say either gethelp or try and talk urself out of itin ur head.


Fantom Doughnut Eater
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You would not have fell in love if you were not already cheating on your wife in your mind.

You must have been thinking about other women for this problem to arise.

What does the Koran say about adultery?


diane c
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get ready for the s h i t to hit the fan....good luck.


maryjane
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Why would you entertain thoughts of another woman or spend time with them. Go homw an tell your wife what you need from her and ask her to do the same. Don't ruin your family.


Miss Behavin
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Are you really sure it;s lust and not love? It is very very flattering to be desired by someone. How old is your child? If still at school I would think very carefully about it. I am not being harsh - perhaps your relationship has run its course, but think carefully - what is excitement on the side tends to be routine when it is your main dish.





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