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What do you do when you find out that not only is your husband cheating but also lying about it.?
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What do you do when you find out that not only is your husband cheating but also lying about it.?



    




Mickey
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hire someone to take pictures of him in the acted and show him he can't deny it then


chrisclinker
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sew prawns into the lining of his best suit..............cut off his hair when he is sleeping and then send him packing


giggles m
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Face the facts , evaluate the situation to understand if you still want to continue in the relationship ... and then make ur move


MC
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Kick his cheating butt out the door and get as much as you can in the divorce!


™Spaceman™
leave


kt_sub2000
i usually find affairs go hand in hand with lying......even more upsetting if he cheated on you with a man mind you....think yourself lucky, if that sticks in your throat.....then make like a sheep and get the flock outta there!


lpslc
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Pack his stuff up and throw it outside.


columbo
well there is only one choice and thats to go, cheating itself is bad enough but then to be dishonest about it too and not have the bals to own up to it, Hun he is no good, just leave.


Rebecca
Divorce his cheatin' lyin' a.s.s. That is not fair to you!! I know that's what everyone is gonna say, but you asked for it.


interested_party
Leave asap! Don't stay and listen to his lies! Once a cheat always a cheat! Sorry!


joleen19842006
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dump him.


dianafpacker
divorce...


Crystal S
leave the man and move on with life! divorce man!


Justsyd
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You leave. You deserve so much better than that.


pollypocket150
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kick him into touch m8 an find sum1 that loves you 4 you


Marshal
Dump him.


pleeks
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Either make your bed on the couch and let her girlfriend(s) move in or get a back bone and leave him. He has no respect for you as his mate. He wants to have his cake and eat it too.


June
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Well first thing is first. Do you have solid evidence to support your thoughts and feelings that he is cheating?

If so then your best bet is not to destroy yourself any longer. hanging onto hope is not going to solve anything. When you both said your vows, may I be rude and ask did the sentence 'till death do us apart' crop up.

I'm not saying that cheating is acceptable but is your marriage worth throwing away?

If you do have serious reasons to believe so and he continues to deny it then I personally believe it could be down to 2 reasons

1: he can't believe he has been caught out and feels like an utter b*****d and is delaying the situation to call off the affair before he comes clean to you and show nothing but remorse

2: He can't bear to hurt you. if one does no longer love the other it still pains them and it is purely out off guilt that they are still around.

Whatever the reasons you need to sit him down and ask him is the marriage worth fighting for? unless the balls are in your court and you have already given up on the marriage.

Whatever the outcome I wish you work out your marital problems and move forward. Don't let it brew any longer because the longer you delay the dilemma the more hurtful it will be.


just_me_1955
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you set him up with video and audio and catch his *** ,then take him to court for everything he has


rainbow
REVENGE IS SO SO SWEET WAIT YOUR TIME AND GET HIM BACK !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!


kez
unfortunately there is nothing i can say that will make you feel anybetter.

but people are right, you should leave him.

take care


taketwo
kick in his bollocks first then leave.


wanda h
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leave his sorry a55 and take all


johnny boy rebel
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rub deep heat on his nuts show him the door


caribbeangal
kick him to the curb


mixed up
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im in the same sort of situation but its my dad, he would deny any existence of him cheating till he was blue in the face and then yesterday i found out he has been cheating on my mum for 5 years. u should say to him that ur giving him the chance to come clean about everything and if he denys it u say that you gave him the chance and he lied and then tell him u no and then work it out from there good luck xxx


Aloe-ish-us
Tell him flat out that you know he is cheating. Think about whether you are willing to work on things. Find out if he is willing to work on things. If not, dump him. If so, figure out what you are going to need from him for you to get past this, e.g. him having no privacy, going to therapy, what not, and then tell him that is what it will take.


ya girl
confront him i guess.





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