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GAgirl
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You can't force someone to do something. If he wants a divorce, give him one. Run to your lawyer as fast as you can, and get papers drawn up, including child support. Do not let this ruin your life. You control your destiny, not him. Good luck to you, and I will say a prayer that God helps you deal with what will happen. |
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♥ Lil love lady ♥
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u should divorce him...i guy like that does not deserve a woman or family like you!!! |
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bhemsom
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you leave |
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Roni
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You have to leave, he's been cheating on you for 10 years, no matter how you slice it that's simply not love or respect. Also, he's obviously not using protect and that's putting you at risk for catching something. I say, get test and get away fast. It may be hard out there, but you've got to love yourself enough to know that you deserve better. |
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bluez
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You ditch him...and fast! Then you head to the doctor to be tested for STD's since obviously he wasn't using protection with anyone! |
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Goofy2006
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You get an divorce!! |
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mare
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stick it to the S.O.B. |
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fireman36
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sorry you have to go through what you are going through, noone should have to do that. My advice to you is to get him as far behind you as you can, divorce him asap and move on with your life. you can certainly find someone else out there to treat you the way you deserve to be treated. I do wish you the best of luck |
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Beaumeader
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1. Hire the BEST attorney you can find.
2. Drop him so fast his own shadow would have to look for him.
3. If you know who the other woman is, let her know who you are, and that she can keep him.
4. Did I mention to DROP KICK HIS A-- !! |
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mommy_so_fat
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3 things, leave him, get a lawyer, get paid!!!!!!!!!!!!! |
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Talithakoum
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Do what ever you have to do for you and your children withing reason of course. |
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Kutekymmee
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You need to get out. If he's cheated for the entire 10 years, he wont change.
Get a lawyer, divorce him and get as much $ as possible for child support. |
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maesha
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It sounds like he has no respect for you and you deserve all the respect in the world. You have given him 3 beautiful kids and if he is willing to throw that away then you need to move on. He needs to leave and you need to let him. Show your kids that you respect yourself and believe that you deserve better than what he is giving you. I understand that it is hard especially with children involved. My mom stayed with my dad because of us kids and all my life I saw my dad treat my mom with disrespect and it has damaged our relationship because my mom had little respect for herself. Again show your kids that you do respect yourself I promises you you can find better. And as far as the divorce don't let him get his way but at the same time you have to remember that you have kids that are going to be affected by this and you want to do it in a manner that affects them as little as possible. Meaning that you need to not fight infront of them and do not use them as tools to punish your husband. Stay strong and hang in there. |
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gna
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he's a pig....let him rool around in dirt...show him the real lady you can be and throw him to the curb. |
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mickrymouse82
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leave him u can do so much better. once a cheat always a cheat. |
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charlie06
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Get youself a solicitor or lawyer seek legal advice and take the ******* for everything he has. Even though you have three daughters if this guy stayed- could you trust him?? After all the person you thought your husband was- isnt the same person. I hope he gets his just deserts! |
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dazed&confused
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Do you want revenge or resolution. Here's the deal divorce him and sue him for child support, and if you live in a community property state sue for your half of everything.
Regardless of infidelities or incompatibility, the outcome in divorce court will be the same, you will get custody, he will have to pay child support, and if in community property state you will be awarded your half of everything.
Get your resolution, then move on and concentrate on taking care of your 3 daughters and rebuilding your life. |
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Baby_Doll_f
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If you go back to him he is just going to do it again. He is not one to be with just one woman. Alot of men like there cake and eat it too sort of speak but it goes with some women too. Go to an attorney have him draw up what you want as far as support and things right away so that you are taken care of your children properly something he never thought of...he made them he needs to see that they are raised right and eat right...so go for what grounds you want cause I know in this state you have to have grounds or you are battling over 2 years to get it done otherwise and the attorney fees then are off the chain!!!
Good luck and give those kids a hug from me.... |
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o my gosh pray pray pray...if you love him work it out if not leave him. |
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Hot_Curry
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Castrate him! |
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sjc1978
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i no how u feel babe iv just gone through the same thing .al i can tel u is to hold your head high an dont go down 2 his level show him that your beta than that .my ex was having an affair 4 6years an has a 2year old we were marrid 4 27years .i no u r hurtin now be brave darlin i wish u al the luck in the world take carex x x |
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ahchoo43
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Free the Lions |
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*♥* Igotorbs*♥*
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leave him girl. this is painful but living with a liar and cheater would be worse. be a role model for your children. good luck girl. |
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babygirl_k2001
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Get a divorce hit him for alimony and child support hun! Good luck you'll be able to come out on top especially since there's living proof that he cheated. |
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JOSEPH C
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Get a lawyer. If you can't afford a lawyer, get one anyway. You need to assure your kids are supported. He'll whine, but make him pay to support your kids. After you get rid of the bum, start a new life. Consider something wildly different. A hotdog stand in Hawaii. Build a cabin in Alaska. Rent hot air balloons in Peoria. |
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she_devil282000
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I would leave him, sounds like he is a unfaithful liar, and life is to short you can find love and happiness elsewhere a their is somebody out their for everyone that is faith full, and will take you and your children |
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candygirl
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GIRL PLEASE LEAVE HIM! DO U REALIZE HE'S BEEN SLEEPING AROUND UNPROTECTED? LEAVE HIM AND TAKE HIM FOR EVERYTHING HE'S GOT! TRUST ME YOU AND YOUR CHILDREN DESERVE IT.... |
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Iberia Madrid
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No excuse for this... feel sorry for you and that other woman too.
He has to take responsibility for his deeds. |
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