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What do you do when your husband keeps leaving you?

He will leave for a few days and then return and expect things to carry on as normal.
What should I do?


    




old milf
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don't worry nat, he's here with me.


fleur de lis mock ILF TTC #0
put out more

yeah I heard he has a sweet little dish he keeps in oops


Shadow
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Change the locks?


Sydney
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Go cry on Pimpy's shoulder.


Me ILF, Eh
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Why are you worried? You will be shot down on vacation soon anyway!


RevRob
Change the locks, and throw one hell of a ILF party next time he goes
away......


IndyGirl
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Change the locks then file. He can only cry wolf so many times...


*Cara*
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Stop being a doormat and stop taking him back. Once he's gone make sure he's gone for good.


imarockstar
tell him next time he leaves, don't come back. =)


morbidlybeautiful
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ask him where he keeps going and if he doesn't tell you, file for divorce because he is obviously screwing around


Cleo (in disguise)
You will have to start tying him up.


Bullwinkle J. Moose, esquire
Turn about is fair play, leave him for a few days and have some fun hon.


Soon To be Daddy to twins
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why are you asking us you need to have a very long talk yo your man because me and my soon to be wife just finished our premarital counseling and for there to be a healthy relationship there must be Communication!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!1


ruth
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Change the locks. Get an attorney.


Scott8684
Is he a business man?


tanner
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Either start packing so you can move out the next time he takes off. Or change the locks to all the doors on the house the next time he takes off.

He's either got a drug problem, or someone else on the side that's hes cheating with. There isn't any other reason why any married person would leave like that.


Debbie
change the locks next time he leaves & move on with your life


Cassius
Tell him to tell you where he leaves to and why. This isnt the 50s, he isnt your property. BUT he needs to communicate.


Katie
obviously he's going somewhere else, so don't let it slide....


S K
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Follow him.


olman357
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I had a wife like that, So I told her if she ever did it again it was over. She never did it again. Make it real clear. It's just a control thing. They think they can get away with more if you feel they might leave. Let him know real clear, Never again. If you leave , stay gone. cause your stuff will be put in storage until after the Divorce is finnal.
Dont take crap like this from anyone lady.
jp


S H O U A♥
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cut that chain loose and let it be.. ain't no point being someones old toy that he can toss and pick up when he wants...


Kaia
Not be there the next time he comes back..unless he's leaving because of his job.


MsJanbo
Tell him that the next time he leaves, stay gone. It's disrespectful to you. Do not tolerate this behavior. It is completely unacceptable. Another thing you can try is leaving for a few days yourself, come back and act like nothing happened. Go stay with friends or family. See how he likes it. Hold your ground girl and, when he questions where you've been, etc., give him the same song and dance he's been giving you.


tigerprincess_bee
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stop allowing it. If you want him, then find out why he keeps leaving. If you don't want him, then let him go and tell him to stay gone.


Liz
Here's what would happen if this was me and my husband:
The first time he left, I would only agree to him coming back after extensive couples counselling.
The second time he left, there would be no way on God's green earth he would ever come back.

The reason why your husband treats your marriage like it has a revolving door on it is because you've been letting get away with it. I would be most interested to find out what he does during those few days he's away. My advice to you is to change the locks on the doors, get yourself checked for STDs and get a good divorce attorney.


nydp02
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Don't take him back. It is that simple.


à®âˆ‚αÑℓιηg♪ßαßyà®
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Pack your things now and leave him. If you don't have kids then take his crap. If you have kids it's you responsibility to teach then better.


Maria
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Just sit down and talk to him
Just have a friendly talk and don't sound too aggressive when asking him this, but just ask him why he's been doing this.

Just question all the stuff that you told us, directly confront him about the problem.

Ask him maybe if he just needs more time alone for more time than he's gone for usually.
He probably just wants some time alone.

You have to try and read the signs that are there

Sorry, my answer didn't come out the way i wanted it to sound, but i tried my best. I hope it helps, if it does, please tell me somehow.

And I've had no personal experience in this situation; i just told you what i think might be best since the other answers to this question aren't that great. No offense people.


MayO
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I will not tolerate such behaviour. How dare he!!! It will be ME leaving his *** for good!





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