What do you do when your wife moves 9 houses away with one of your so called friends?

Linda Lou

and you believe them???

Big C

Divorce her, serve the papers immediately before you get stuck raising your "friend's" kid.

Zaferus

Get a girlfriend, and when she's sleeping over tell them it's just a place for her to stay - you don't want them to think there is anything going on...

kindhearted

why is your wife moving nine house away with your friend and not u.... dude your marriage is definitely over and you have your buddy to thank.

Ski Freedom

The marriage is over so
get a divorce. This will allow
you to build a new life.
You deserve a women who
will treat you right.

kimmer727

Does she have any girlfriends you could move in to your house???

Well la-di-da

They're full of sh#t.

Mam

I don't know what you would do, but I would divorce her so fast
her head would spin. why would they think you could possibly
believe a word they said? I would let my attorney speak from
now on. Good luck to you.

Romano S

Sounds like she is lying homeboy get rid of her and find yourself someone mo betta

Answer Me

total BS.
Is she still your wife or are you guys seperated?
If she is your wife, why isnt she living with you?
And if you're seperated, shes banging him 100%.
Im sure there are plenty of other GIRLS places she could have moved to, that is just a low blow move and you shouldnt stand for it.

Raine C

Not a Friend, not a wife. No one in their right mind puts a "loved one" through that kind of emotional turmoil. Get a lawyer.

takeme2thebnk

WOW, hey, I have magical beans for sale. You can have them for a thousand each.

Skyhawk

File for an immediate divorce on the grounds of abandonment and infidelity.

rachelrmf@sbcglobal.net

"They" must really think you are stupid. I would go with your gut feeling, in which case i assume you think they are sleeping together?

Lego Indy

Oh my god.

Kick her out and throw all her crap on the lawn. I hope you don't have kids.

ron s

change the locks and empty the bank account, cancel her credit cards and then see if she comes clean or wants to change her living arrangements

this guy right here

beat his *** and find someone else...screw her...you deserve better...no one deserves to be cheated onj

business as usual

My opinion? They are sleeping together and have been for a long time. And, no, your friends are not true friends. I hope you have moved on with your life. Good luck!

freakboynv2000

yeah right, he is banging that every day

Pogo peeps

Move & move on.

Princess Kitty

dont let it bother you that will drive her crazy...maybe get a female friend to stop by sometime LOL

That is a lie. What I would do is STOP talking to that friend. If you are getting a divorce then do it already. Then let every new woman in your life know how horrible and mean your ex is. That ur so called friend is screwing ur ex and they live close by. That will get you much pity from other women. Never speak to that friend again and tell your ex "you have no respect for me if youd live with my MALE friend even if you arent sleeping together because any normal person would be suspicious of that!"

ashley

He could just be helping her out. But if not why doesnt your wife live with you?

keith h

if your friend is a guy she's definately sending you a crystal clear message. wake up. on the positive side if your divorce isn't final yet infidelity on her part will make you look like the victim and it's less likely she'll take you to the cleaners for a huge alimony/settlement.

Wooderson

Well, I would say, "That's all well and good, but regardless of what is going on, the appearance of impropriety is unacceptable to me. Wife, if you love me or respect me at all, you will not stay there. Friend, if you are my friend, then you will not see my wife. O.k.?"

If the answer from either one of them is no, then you can rest assured that your wife is no longer your wife, and your friend is not your friend.

Nancy M.

If you are not divorced and she is living with another man and not sleeping in the same room that is adultery. My husband did that to me and I saw an attorney and he told me that it's adultery. My husband was not sleeping in the same room with the other woman. We are now divorced.

paytaymak

First sweetheart it depends on your friends behavior. If he's acting different and not coming to your house or around you as much because your wife is with him now then maybe you would have reason to think something is going on.

But the real solution to that is don't believe it until you know for sure. It's not healthy or safe to make assumptions. Right now your situation is already a mess, don't make it worse with information that has no foundation. Also if that's a slap in the face , if he's a real friend, explain to him how you feel and he'll oblige.

Explain to him that you're not comfortable with your wife staying with him and you'd appreciate it if he'd not allow her to be there, I'm sure she has other places she can make an abode of.

I really hope your marriage works out.

Yes

why doesn't she live with you if she's your wife?

Denise S

Well the same thing I think that my husband is doing when he and his new girlfriend take awhile to answer the door at the new place where they are living with each other. She is an adulter and he is her partner in crime and sin. I am not sure what kind of person she is to say that to you, to even imply that you shouldn't have your own thoughts, however; she may be afraid of you or she may just think she can tell you how to think and when she does you will agree and back off from the truth. Who knows but why bog your heart and mind down with what she wants you to think? Relief=Divorce. I have hung on for over 9 months while my husband lies about his actions. It's probably hard to let her go, but you need happiness as well. Sounds to me like she wants you to be an ostrich with your head in the ground. Look around, there is life out there and there is someone out there who will truly love you. Pick up the pieces of your broken heart and get going with the pursuit of happiness. And even if she or anyone is not why are they living in the same home? GL & GOD BLESS YOU and I SINCERELY HOPE YOU FIND YOUR ANSWER.

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