What do you think?

BIG T

yes.

augustjologs

No it's not automatically bad. Valentines is too commercialized.

Q-mama

if he doesn't acknowledge it at all, that's not so good.

kiaraharkneSs

sorry but yeah, really bad.
not too bad on valentines but anniversary, WOW.

heartsarebad

Do you think it is bad? You need to change your outlook if you think it is bad. This is who he is. You should try celebrating in a way that both of you cand do. For instance plan valentines celebrating ahead of time...together.

OhWell

Uhhhm, yes. I didn't get either of those last year and this year, and he heard about it. This year, he better get wiser.

That doesn't sound good to me! I am sorry about that! ):

that judi

passive aggressive behavior....bad sign. I put up with it for 20 years...what an idiot i was!

~* Amber *~

Men arent romantic by nature, maybe you should have reminded him. Bring it up and see what he says maybe he will take you out for dinner since he missed it altogether.

Primus Pilus

Come on, its not that bad.

DALIA G

dont take it too seriously, as long as you guys are happy there is no sense in making a fight over this. my husband hadnt gotten me anything for the past 2 yrs until this year, its no biggy. just let him know how you feel withought getting mad, he might of not had time or it slipped his mind.

Big Dog

If the other 363 days of the year are good then no, it's not bad.

Dew

yes it is,it is very insensitive of him.I got Nothing for Valentines day and our Anniversary was the next day.I got him some of his favorite candy and made a nice card for him.

PaisleyJane

I know it might not seem that romantic, but you & your husband need to talk about these things before hand.

It's best to say "Yes, we are getting each other gifts" and choose a price range, or say "No, not this year". By communicating, no one ends up with hurt feelings!

It isn't bad, at all. It is in no way a reflection of how much you love each other.

Makemeaspark

What has he done in the past? Is he Jehovah's Witness or something that does not celebrate holidays or does he have an aversion to holidays.

If those answers are no then it is not good. Do you talk?

i'm your superwoman â™¥

yeah unless he has a valid reason...

Paul

My wife and I sorta bypass all of the traditional holiday things now, but that is by discussion and mutual agreement (We'd rather spend the money on a night out together than on stuff). All things being equal, he should err on the side of doing things to make you feel good than on assuming you think its all commercialized nonsense.

nurse ratchet

It is very inconsiderate to not give you something to remember the day by. Did you give him something for Valentine's Day?

shasta

I did not get anything for valentines day from my husband of 5 years. We are both in school at night. Doeshe still show affection towards you?do you guys still do stuff with each other? He might be under stress at work and he might fill that you know he loves you with all his heart
Thank about it and give him a little break I didnt think twice about it when i didnt get anything cause i know he loves me

Harry G

its terrible!
im sorry

carys

no. thats life

Sid B

Please forgive him. Since he's your husband he must be male. He probably honestly forgot, were idiots, all of us. Especially me.

Cara C

he'll get you something waaaaaaaaaaay better, a divorce! TOTALLY KIDDING! he's probably planning a surprise like a romantic dinner or something, dont even worry about it! :+)

Snowflake

Yes, that's bad. You haven't been married long enough to not be giving gifts. Usually after a bunch of years a couple will agree not to buy stuff but three years is still newlywed to me. He should have got you something, or written you a letter if no money.

Green_Eyed_Froggy

You didn't say whether or not he gave you anything for past anniversaries or valentine's.

Knome Lover

yeah...that's not good at all...the v-day thing is more understandable because it is a made up holiday...but nothing on the anniversaty is REALLY bad

*****

It is insensitive at the very least. I could never do that to someone I cared enough to marry.

jangirl32

it is bad...but some guys just don't understand how important these things are to women. hope you told him it bothered you, so it won't happen again. good luck!

**ChRiStInA**

wow yea hun thats bad he has a problem and u need to talk to him about it

JCW

Well that depends..Did you agree not to do anything for these special days. Do you normally give eachother gifts on these occassions? Did he say Happy Anniversary, and take you out for dinner, or prepare a nice meal for you? There are other ways that you can celebrate these occasions without him needing to buy you things. Are you having financial difficulties. Did he forget about the special days altogether, or did he at least acknowledge them by saying Happy Valentines Day honey, or Happy Anniversary babe?

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