What do you think if your s.o. has a personal ad?

my bf and i have been together 4 yrs and a few yrs ago i discovered he had a personal ad on yahoo. he denied it was his (although he said he "used to" have an ad before we met) so i printed it out. i am SO sure it's him. all he did was laugh and say it sure sounded like him.
anyhow, long story short - he once gave me his password and i see that he is still receiving 15 pics of women in our area about 2-3times a week. then yesterday i see a mailing that says his subscription is running out - they wanted to continue charging his credit card! (he's been paying for this?)
do you have to pay to get these pics sent to you?
and what does it mean when someone's profile says it's been "active" during the last 24 hours?

Celeste

it means he's been on there within the last day. it will hurt to end it now, but better to hurt now and get over it w/ your dignity in tact than to let him run over you, disrespect you, waste your time and you still get nothing out of it. think about it

Vanessa P

Obviously, he's being dishonest with you. Talk to him. If he laughs it off and doesn't offer a good explanation, he's an ***.

Silenceâ„¢

I would make him a "Ex" boyfriend and not even consider marriage.

It's called cheating.

WOWZA!

I had an add on yahoo personals and if you're active in the last 24 hours it means you've logged on in the last 24 hours..........I'd end that relationship. Sorry. I know it's easier said than done but it's not worth being the "other" woman when you've been with him for 4 years....go get yourself tested too.

Dumpster

Yes you pay (sum sites) and maybe he doesn't understand how to make the billing stop. It's not much of a monthly fee so most people don't even mess with it and these sites KNOW that.

As far as the 24hr active I'm not sure but I think It just means he's been signed in to his yahoo account like mail and answers or whatever recently. They (yahoo) got a service to sell to people you know. Its got to look like its worth it.

I'lll give him a little credit here who would be STUPID enough to give their girlfriend their password if they were still involved in it.

mel

i had one to
u dnt have to pay the send those to me still frm 5 years ago..

if you went into his acount to see then its active again thats why i havent so it dosent show as active..

if u feel up to it can u answer mine
.http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=ApZJU9IONMax0HFjHkGmQ7vB7BR.;_ylv=3?qid=20090430211401AA9ZsS9

RuthAnn

Honey, he may be a boy, but he is NOT your friend.
He will make U very unhappy if U stay with him.
U asked, and now U know.
Run away ASAP.

Clementine

If he is paying for it, he is pretty stupid. I went on a dating site many years ago - a free one, where I set up a profile, and it's hidden, but to this date I keep getting e-mails about my matches. I just ignore them and delete them, but never really took the effort to go on the website and unsubscribe. Maybe I should, don't want hubby to get the wrong idea! lololol

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