What do you think of me?

thecarolinacowboy

Gosh no! You are a poor lost soul and if you are getting any alimony or child support it is way too much. You made your bed, but want someone elce to pay for the trip, in what universe does that make you a good person? Have you 'boyfriend' pay for your gas if you cannot get a job and pay for it yourself. You may as well get paid for your bed work.

After giving this some thought, you are the husband asking this, arenâ€™t you?

bert

No , you are a sick person. You need professional help.

crct2004

Sounds like you need help.

ThatLady

Dear, you need an intervention.

lindazgardner

go back and read the whining you just printed and ask yourself the question...duh

Saphire

This is a joke right?

Ontheotherhand

Well, you are either a silly kid trying to get a reaction, or you are the stupidest adult woman in history. But, on the off chance that you are actually serious about your question, I'll give you my answer. If you were truthful, it's great that you are managing to not only screw up your marriage, and your children's lives; but that soon you'll be in jail for fraud. Enjoy your time behind bars. It'll be just as things should turn out, when an adult behaves as you are behaving.

Heads up!

You are a horrible person , you should consider yourself lucky your husband did not kill you and you can still see your kids.
You sound like you are in a downward spiral and do not want to help yourself. I `m happy for your ex husband that he is now a free man.

Pete

Sorry but you are a horrible person and deserve nothing you have for the atrocities you have committed against your family.

sonya h

your a human, but this was your fault sweety

searchin1961

I think like us all,you're finding that life's decisions has thier consequences.Are you happy with your decisions is the question?As for writing bad checks,if the law catches you,they'll make your life hell,so be careful.If the boyfriend really wants you he wouldn't allow you to hurt yourself for him.Is he just out to get laid?Sorry dear ,don't know either of you but I don't trust a man who let's his women take a fall.

You sound like great wife material.

samusmclife

It might not hurt to go see a theropist. If you honestly need gas money then start asking your bf for some money. You sound like a good egg that's gone bad.

I am Truly Blessed

you probably deserve this.

newsies62

I think that you do have a problem- or did. If you are writing bad checks because you need gas for your bf's house-stop going there. Is he at all concerned about your financial problems and is he thinking of helping you and ever supporting you. Here's my advice; Start going to a Christian church and I would ask to talk to the preacher because he would have more advice for you i can do. Take your boys to church with you and spend time with them.

uncle louie

Just the way you've described your situation it makes me question weather or not you are joking.
I can't believe you would do these things and need us to tell you how bad they are. The bottom line is ( if this is a sincere question) that you are responsible for the choices you make !
You've already hurt your husband and even worse ... your kids. I think you are inconsiderate , selfish ,irresponsible and incapable of setting any kind of good example for them. Your X husband should have full custody and you can collect pop bottles to pay for your gas to get to your b/f place. You have some serious issues and need to grow up and take responsibility for yourself and your actions.

acholtz@verizon.net

Let's see, you are self centered, whining about not getting alimony or child support to pay for you to go see your bf - who is the reason you left your marriage to begin with. You want to keep this lifestyle, then get a better job and pay for it yourself. Your ex didn't deserve to pay you anything, so don't go blaming him for getting a good attorney. You are lucky you aren't paying him after running up all that debt.

Shortstuff13

Sounds as though you went from the frying pan right into the grease. You need to see a therapist now!!! You'll wind up in more trouble than you'll know what to do with, if you don't stop writing bad checks. How does going to jail or prison sound to you right about now? Why can't your b/f come to see you or give you gas money, so you can go see him? You need help getting your head on straight & you can't do it alone.

EDDIE

what goes around comes around you got what you deserve!

Nancy M.

Your not a bad person. You just make bad decisions in your life. If your not real careful the day will come when all your bad decisions will eventually catch up with you. You can end up in prison for writing bad checks. My friend's husband wrote bad checks when they were first married and he went to prison. They did finally get divorced. You can become a better person if you would stop making bad decisons.

bsandyman

Good person or bad person, your life is a mess. This is making it impossible for you to enjoy things, like the comfort of loved ones or a stable job.

You personally need to take control, decide your priorities and resolve the issues you have that distract you from accomplishing your goals.

You need help. A counselor can help you work through the issues that led to your gambling addiction and also help you work through your relationship issues.

As a last bit of advice. You need to spend some of YOUR time taking care of YOU. Why are you bouncing checks so you can hang out with your BF? Why isn't he helping with the bills? You need to do what is good for you, so that you can then do things which are good for those you care about. Bouncing checks is bad for you and will only make it harder to do anything with anybody.

classyree88

not really sorry.

ale

I don't think you're a bad person. You just have a lot of problems. You need to see a counselor - financial and psychiatric. And you need to think about your kids!!!!!!!!

Rogue

You're not a bad person just confused I think- if your boyfriend is offering you no support or shows no indication of a descent future then leave him pick urself up. You need to live and destroying your credit by writ ting bad checks will only make it more difficult for you.
I'm divorced just got bored in the Marriage, my husband was verbally and physically abusive and was extremely insecure, plus cheated on my with my best friend-so I left! Life you I got nothing, no property, no alimony and what he gives for child support I we can't live on. Thank God i have a good job that allows me to live comfortably.
Good luck!

Lorna

Not only have you got yourself a good husband. But you have a major problem meaning gambling. You need help in a big way. I mean a big way In other words get a life and visit gambling anoymous

Colleen O

"What do you think of me " Not much..."am I a good person?" You're not that important in my life to really make a comment on that.

freebird31wizard

you might be a fine person. Your actions are not however. You know it too. as a person you can be fine... if you decide to permanently work on yr problems and at least try to better yourself from what you do now.

All you gotta do is repent.
Itz easy.

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