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dargonsilver
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Basic developmental psychology: A person is not going to grow into a well-adjusted person unless they face struggles and learn to overcome them. Furthermore, in order to be a well-rounded adult, a mature person needs to derive satisfaction from accomplishments. Relying on anything else for self-esteem or happiness is way more likely to lead to depression.
A woman who marries for money is taking the easy route. Unfortunately, just like "easy" women, it's not a positive concept to take the easy route. You're cheating yourself out of experiences you need to bring you to true happiness.
(To the person who says that others are just jealous of the rich husband... No, we're not. I work and make my own way in the world. So does my husband. We were attracted to each other in part because we are both self-sufficient. Yes, my husband is wealthy. I don't call him "moneybags" for no reason. BUT I have my own career and income and was attracted to his WORK ETHIC, not the result of his work.) |
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Suzanne
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They are called gold diggers. As soon as your money is gone so are they. |
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every day is a gift
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it's all pretty transparent........
the guy has to be a pathetic idiot to let it happen |
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alias126
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I think a woman who is shallow enough to marry for money shouldn't get married at all. Marriage is supposed to be a partnership between two people who agree to take care of eachother and love eachother whether in absence or in excess of funds. |
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Legandivori
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I think if the guy finds out that that is her intention, he should end the relationship. |
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IslandArtiste
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the same thing I think about men marrying for money!
Get a job and earn your own! |
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angelbaby
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money can't buy love. |
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Toronto Maple Leafs
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Gold Diggers, plain and simple. |
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Amanda
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You should marry out of love and nothing else.
Women who marry for money are selfish and deserve whatever crap comes out of that marriage. |
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AMERICAN BORN EAST INDIAN
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Well you can easily single out these women. If my woman did not do her fair share, I would drop her like a rock. Its one thing if a woman cooks or cleans but if I can do the same thing plus work, I would hope the relationship could be more like team work where we both do equal amounts of everything instead of one making the money and the other living off it. |
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Marco's girl
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When I was young I married for love...that didn't last. He beat me.
When I was in my 30's I married for love...that didn't last either. He was a drug dealer.
The next time I married for love AND money...and it's the best one and it's still going on strong.
My mamma always told me that "you could fall in love with a rich man as well as a poor one"...and she was right!
When your young it is ok to suffer in some dingy little apartment eating tacos.
When you are old it isn't cool.
I say go for the gold, love fades anyway. |
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kim h
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It is her choice to do that. I think nothing of it. |
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JayJay
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Smart Woman! |
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Rose
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It's unfair to marry someone for his money, however i can't blame a woman who has been fooled many times to marry a man for his money, bad experience can make us change our way of thinking. |
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Keith Urbane
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Should people marry for THEIR reasons, or for YOURS?
EDIT: Probably. But, my way is more fun. |
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MissM
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I think they are smart for marrying a stable man. Any woman who criticizes is just jealous and probably miserable with their broke husband. There is nothing wrong with wanting and pursing a wealthy man. To lie and steal and scam is totally different and shouldn't be done with anyone rich or not. Women love to hate on women with rich men but you would not complain if you had one after you! |
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Monica
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If they make each other happy and have fun it is their business. |
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Softtouchmale
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1. Desperate
2. Shallow
3. Greedy
4. Unfaithful
5. Gold digger
6. Wh0re
7. Abuser
8. User
9. Kept
10. Worthless human trash |
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Hi Ho
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if she has big **** and nice poon then im the smart one |
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Piglet
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I think there is a special place in hell reserved for them. |
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bad girl
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Usually it is mutually satisfying. He gets the arm candy wife and she gets unlimited charge accounts. |
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