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What does a cheater really mean when he says 'its me not you'?
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What does a cheater really mean when he says 'its me not you'?



    




CowGilr Kassie
He/she are just giving themselves excuses and letting u feel better, as if it is enough or what u want now?


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Nena S
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That they know they are selfish idiots, and they cannot stop being who they are....and that they know that you are a good person who deserves someone better.

Believe him...and don't try to change him. He won't.
He is being honest here. So be smart, and walk away.

Good luck.


LilQ
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It just means that you're not the problem, he is.

Just a way to make you feel better.


cireengineering
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Pointing blame at him/her self, pointing out their flaws. Common diversionary tactic.


irishhoney
um... he's cheating on you. lol


alrozz
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It means that he has not accepted the facts and is running from his real monster that lurks within.


Lucky Phil
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Just dump him.Your wasting your time with that scumbag.Find someone that deserves your attention.


William G
It means that he can't handle his urges. He probably likes you, but he simply cannot control the temptation of other women. He doesn't want you to get hurt because of his inabilities. If I were you, I'd act like whatever he says is no big deal, as if he is insignificant to you now. Always keep your confidence that you deserve better and you will get much better. Good Luck!


Lane
he has a problem with staying focused on any one woman good or bad. he probably learned it from his dad or if he was w/o a dad he's trying to figure out on his own how real men can manage being with one woman. Buyer beware!!!


Patty
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It means that he is not ready for a commitment. I would just move on at this point.


miss carrie
It means exactly what it says. It's not you. It's not your fault. He's the one with the problem. He's probably feeling guilty and trying to soften the blow. Here's a link to a great website that answers lots of questions about infidelity:


Cravin
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No Clue Im not even Sure why a Cheater would say that


/\/\!cO was HeR3!
means he/she is the one to blame..not you


Joe G
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that's just a simple little b.s thing we say, y'all fall for anything!


Elle
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You can't do anything to fix the situation, so don't even try.

Just go away, so he doesn't have to "cheat", he can just do whatever he wants.

That's what it means.


patterson589@sbcglobal.net
He REALLY means "it's me who needs to cheat, NOT you."


texasirishrose
It means he cheats,he will continue to cheat and you should get rid of him as soon as you can...


lol_des
He means he's too gutless to get into the conversation - arguement...or he's sick in the head... Mostly it means he's a weak liar who will most likely do it again since he won't even tell you what you need.


reel lady
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He's playing you big time
He is right..it is him not you
He wants pity
Do not pity the fool'
There is no reason to cheat
You feel sorry for him ?
Don't, while you were tending the kids, cooking meals,washing his clothes, preparing meals, listening to his snoring.
Mr Husband was out romancing some chick & driving her around in the family car !
Next time he says that say " you are so right"


Chinese Dumpling
It means he is a SOB.


noshaymatall
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She means to say that even though she won't lie and deny it.......she wants you to know that she is willing to take responsibility for her own actions and doesn't want to make you feel as if it was something about you that made her find someone else. It's a nice way of trying to spare your feelings instead of letting you know how physically or emotionally unattractive you've become.


MrsMcCartney is a CARTOON =)
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he means "im just think shes hotter than you"


~♥Lil Ron♥~
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It means it is you and he is bored with you and gonna keep cheating!


carley
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Its a nice way to say he is tired of you.


Bubba
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Its him all along


Poppy
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It means you didn't do anything wrong. He did.


Steven F
A "cheater". Well he's telling you maybe that its his fault because he doesn't love you anymore and cant feel any love between you both. So its his thoughts not yours you could be great to him.


Kate B
means that when they are about to break up..... its not your fault its mine (meaning im sick of u and this is an exuse 4 breaking up instead of saying go away i wanna meet new ppl) !!
Hope I helped.





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