What does homewrecker mean??? literally? am i one??

mark019

You will be if his marriage falls apart. You are providing him with an outlet when he should be working on his marriage. There are plenty of single guys available. pick one of them and leave married men alone.

Katie

Yes, you're a homewrecker and a moron. Affairs (which is what you are having, regardless of how you want it to end) destroy marriages and trust. So long after you're gone, his wife might still mistrust her husband, resulting in the break up of their family. So because you wanted "a few time with him, thats all", his kids have no father and his marraige is destroyed.

Selfish, selfish, selfish... and also, married men in affairs RARELY IF EVER love the women they are cheating on their wives with. They will say whatever they can to get you in bed.

Marygoroun(d)

yes, you're trying to be!! Leave the family man alone!!!

elvlayarvvi fEisty wife and mom

yep...forget him...his wife was the one...now you think you are the one? no, you are not the one! sigh =(...forget about this man...or you, too, will be forgotten by him for someone else...wake up and smell the coffee...

Tricia R

I think that most people think of the term homewrecker as meaning a person who is in a dating relationship with someone who is married with children. So I guess you are a homewrecker.
If this bothers you, you should break off the relationship and only date men who are not married.

You asked

yes you are and so is he, unfortunately he's wanting you because he cant have you, once he has you he'll do the same thing to you that he is doing now with her. WALK AWAY and find someone without a family. He's a loser, a cheat, and worthless, if he was serious about leaving his wife, he would've gotten separated already and in the process of divorce, not giving you false hope and fake promises. So basically, he's not leaving his wife. how would you feel if the man you married and gave children too, cheated on you with some girl, and left you for her? LEAVE HIM ALONE AND TELL HIS WIFE OR SOMEONE WILL!!!!!!!!!!!!!

ndnqt1966

You are a home wrecker girlfriend! He loves you? You are insane. He is using you silly one. He has no intentions of leaving his wife. It will cost him lots of $$$$. Drop him and make yourself available to someone who is also available.

Tweet

Staying with his wife because of the kids?? That's the oldest one in the book. The guy is a sleaze. And you are a homewrecker.

BennBJBear

Any person who disrupts a family unit can be considered a 'home wrecker.' That's what the term means. By taking him away from his family, even for a short time, you are in effect 'breaking' that family unit. Do you know how many cheaters say.."My wife/husband doesn't understand me.." when in reality, they are simply looking for something on the side? It's the oldest 'excuse' in the book. Sticking with her because of the kids? Not in today's world...that's called 'a cop out of an excuse.' How would you feel to discover that he is also cheating on you with another woman, that's why he only has little time with you? Would that upset you? To know he isn't faithful..even to you? Think about it...

greeneyes_bjb

At the very least, you appear to have no morals. He is a MARRIED MAN. He promised to be faithful to his wife. Obviously, he's responsible for not being faithful to her, but you have no business sleeping with another woman's husband.

Sorry, hon, but time with you is time he's not devoting to his marriage and those kids he's supposedly so concerned about. Please wake up and see that this is not a good situation for anyone but him.

I'm Here

Yes that means you are a home wrecker. This means that you are getting involved with a married man who has a family and ruining marriage vows and the kids respect for their dad.

You have no business with married men and if you chose to do this you are defiantly considered a home wrecker.

There are plenty of single guys out there an no reason what so ever for you to sink your claws into someone else's man.

Leave that family alone.

Quasimodo

Despite your weak protests and pitiful defenses in this matter. You fit the description of one to a "T".

Hey...you asked.

Angela

OK this is my opinion on the subject. I think that if this man was not involved with her it would be someone else. He is the type that would do it no matter what so don't think your special that you are the only one that he has done this with or the last one. If a man really loves you in a serious way he would leave his wife and family to join you. I will assume that the wife has no idea about you yet. But when she finds out about you he is going to dump you like trash. you will be left out in the cold and his life will continue with out you. wise up and you are setting yourself to fail. Work on you and find out why you have such low self esteem and find your own man.

John Timothy

I don't know if you are a home wrecker, but you are not exactly doing anything as far as home improvement, are you? How would you like it if YOU were the wife? That is the question you must ask yourself. It is a matter of moral integrity. Only you can decide . . . .

misses_f

I've never been one to judge. But you may want to ask yourself: if you were married w/children, how would you feel if you found out your husband was having an affair? What would you think of his mistress? Assuming she doesn't already know what's going on...what will happen WHEN she finds out?
Just an observation: if you didn't feel at all bad or guilty about it, I don't think you would ask this question. I think you already know the answer. Best of luck to you!

jada

i was in the same situation as u are in, so i completely understand where u are coming from. My opinion is to leave him alone, and i know that is not what u want to here but it is the truth. it is not worth loving this man when in fact he is never going to leave his family, they say they are when really there not. i know it hurts when he does not spend enough time with u or he looks at u like the relationship is going to be okay. in this situation u have to be strong and put ur foot down. So r u a home wrecker no, u just made a bad choice, and thats all.

Sunshine's Pic Is on 360

Yep! Not to sound mean but, it's best to back off and let him leave his family on his own. ( he will if his intentions are good, if not he is just saying this so he can have his cake and eat it too) If he really loves you like you think he does then he'll come to you when the timing is right. Right now putting you in the mix is just confusing things. Let him make up his own mind. Do you really want someone who wants you and someone else too?

sparkling_apple

Your supporting his bad behavior by wanting and spending time with a married man.

If he is such a good man by "putting up with his family" he should have enough balls to tell his wife the truth and make a decision on where he wants to be.

In so many words your a tramp, but not a home wrecker, you can't wreck a home that is already broken.

But you are a tramp!

ronidl76

yeah, ok. He loves you but will never leave his wife.

For the record, that guy is the one who's the homewrecker. This wench has no obligation to his wife or his kids. She's immoral, yes; she's going to hell, yes, but this man is the one tearing his family apart.

Hey, and don't give me a thumbs down for speaking the truth. You asked, you put yourself in this position, and you know it's wrong. Don't cast yourself off as the innocent, just cause you claim you don't know what a homewrecker is. Grow up and take responsibility for your actions. You're committing adultry, plain and simple. That makes you a wh0re!

Janu

There will be no reward to being with someone who's already commitment to another.

You need to work on you and your self esteem to desire more for yourself in all areas of your life. You answered your own question-- Your can not compete with his wife and kids even if you wanted to. Secondly, ask yourself if you were his wife and he had someone on the side how would that make you feel?

He does not love you nor his wife. Because someone who truly loves another will respect them and love them in the true sense of the word "Love". How can someone who disrespect his wife by cheating love you?

Discovered who you are and what you want to accomplish in life.

My husband and I regard each other as a gift to one another and there's no way that he would cheat or I will cheat on him because we respect each other and are committment to each other. Our love grows everyday because we respect and trust each other with our souls, hearts and mind.
If I hurt he hurt and if he hurt I hurt. To know true love is to truly love yourself first. God Bless

*AntA mAriA*

Yes, you should look for someone that is not taken, face reality he is just with you to have some fun. No.... he doesn't want to marry you...... just screw you then he will leave. And if he does decide to leave his wife then who know maybe on day he will get tried of you and go behind your back and look for someone else. Just like he is doing now to his wife

Jen M

Try asking his wife that question and see what kind of response you get. Of course you are a homewrecker. I certainly wouldn't want to be responsible for taking a daddy away from time with his kids. As far as wanting a little bit of his time, WAKE UP!!! He's married and a father, he has no obligation to spend time with you. He wants to get laid...

~~Lisa~~

Hmmmm yeppers he is married walk away... He does not love you or he would be with you.... Never hook up with a married man it does not work....

Marianne T

The word "homewrecker" is an old one and could be used here. What you are trying to do is wreck his home, cause a divorce, and maybe end up with more than you are expecting. You need to pursue men that aren't married. What you are doing is wrong. How would you feel if you were his wife and another woman was pursuing your husband? I don't think you would like it. What about the kids? I know the husband is at fault, too. Both of you need to think about this. Do you really want to be responsible for causing a divorce? Think about those little kids even if you don't care about the wife.

Scott O

YEP!

boohoo

Yes

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