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What does this say about our marriage?

I can't even blame this one on my husband. Neither of us even remembered that it will be our 6th year wedding aniversary next tuesday until my mother in law mentioned it earlier this evening. Has this happened to any of you? What would you think if this happened to you?


    




DC
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That time is flying by and you two arent caught up with dates...congrats on 6!


True Dat
Not a big deal. It's just a date. Every day of a successful marriage should be a celebration.


wish I were
nothing and you shouldn't either! we all get busy so don't try to read anything into it!


Ka Cheong W
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to be honest, I don't think this is important, if you two love each other, everyday can be an anniversary. you can celebrate for anything whenever you want. I know it's a bit cheesy but it's true!


leesa
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Wedding anniversaries hold a special meaning in the hearts of those who truly feel like their marriage is fully blessed. If someone forgets an anniversary, they should enforce the law of capital punishment no matter what state they live in. You forget? You don't deserve to live. But that's just me.


ascoile
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It don't matter there is nothing special about the 6th it's the 25th 40th 50th and 65th that are the special ones.


forlorn_hope_666
i've not forgotten my anniversary in 10 years... :D

maybe you are just having too much fun in your marriage.. :D


Cherry O
Have you been too dreamy and loved up to notice?...or just been far too drunk recently?


stewart_prsn
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dont wory about it its probably over ... was over a few years ago you just goin through the motions now cos your used to it ..habits die hard...


Midway 56
Big deal, if you two are both happy then it is NO BIG DEAL!!!!!!!!!


joyceeleann
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Well we don't celebrate wedding anniversary's around here....Its bad luck and vain if you ask me...Bad JuJu


Anchor Cranker
Just means your busy people with busy lives.


BlackBee
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Sometime yes we are so busy we forget. Its not that it is not important enough, its just that we are so caught up with all that is going on around us. And when you are a happy couple, everyday is an anniversary. my self and husband always doing something special for each other so when we missed our third anniversary date or he miss my birthday we just laugh about it....


MeHurdu
Reading into things is like sticking your hand in the toilet...you're bound to pull out some'n you don't want. People forget and if you both forgot then it says that you two may be so busy or inlove or so much alike that you have started to truly become one. Try always to be optimistic rather than pessimistic, it's more healthy for both you and your marriage. Happy Anniversary!


miley
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Maybe yall both have been very occuppied with work, kids, household, etc. Take some time for yourselves and enjoy your anniversary, it doesn't have to be a huge deal to have fogotten due to being so busy.


Violet Pearl
Every day is a honeymoon with us, so I wouldn't worry.


strange-artist
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I never been married, but I forget things all the time-maybe alots been going of things have been going on & both of you weren't thinking about it.-anyways,happy anniversary!


MICHAEL P
I don't think it's saying anything about your marriage, more about how life takes it out of us nowadays. With the ever increasing pace of life, the stresses of surviving financially and just how complicated things can be, it's so hard to remember the basics, isn't it? I believe the problem is as simple as that and unless you have any other concerns for your marriage, then don't let it bother you. Yes of course it has happened to me .... plus other important dates .... once upon a time these things would be sacrosanct but life's pressures simply seem to have eroded that. Don't worry ..... but do get a yearly wallchart!


Buffy Summers
I got married on Sept 8, 1989 (9-8-89) and I forget it virtually EVERY year until the day it happens.


D
Gosh i hope my friend doesn't read this but every year without fail her husband never forgets their wedding anniversary he buys her a rose for every year they are married but i know for a fact he doesn't luv her he told me so many years ago. So maybe forgetting is not the worst thing in the world.


:-D
it doesn't matter how long you've been together... 6 months, 5 years, 25 years.... anniversaries just aren't what's important. As long as you're both still happy, that's what you should remember. I don't think it means anything about your marriage. They're just days.


beckon82uk
i would not worry about it i have been married for 6 years and when myself and my husband applyed for our mortage he asked us when we were married it took us nearly 5 min to work it out betwwen us ( date and all )! the way i look at it is that time makes no difference at all if you are happy toghther thats all that count have a good aniversary.


mudfish
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you just live your life and dont worry about dates nothing wrong with that, at least you both forgot


Switch
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Your husband should consider himself lucky you arent a nagging wife focused on dates. You are still together and happy, dates dont mean anything.
Im not good with dates either.


high skool student :D
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you both obviously love each other very much that you don't need a anniversy to show your undying love for each other. I think that there are times where people forget their own anniverary...But it's okay...people forget!
HAVE A HAPPY ANNIVERSARY!!! <3


pwwatson8888
no big deal, now you know - celebate


treasuredwife69
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I would think that you both a pretty normal. It is not like either of you forgot it, and it came and went. Which also does happen. Sound pretty normal to me! Happy Anniversary!!


Andrew
I can't imagine being that distracted that both my wife and I forgot such an important date.


NIGEL R
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you are both happy with your marriage and you don't need reminding of a great day.


Bunny
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I would think that you were to bust with life and all it's problem it brings to us. Don't think too much into it. If you both forgot then it's really not a big deal. If he was the only one that forgot, I wouldn't think to much about it. Most men don't remember things like this anyway.


chris_in_pdx
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I think that you've become too focused on your day-to-day life than with each other. Time for a vacation, just the two of you, no kids, no responsibilities, no worries. Make it happen.





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